Ok here's the deal, my man is in a halfway house (as most of you may know already) and since he is working he gets to go outside. so we planned to book a hotel room for a day (we havent chosen which day yet) I am so excited i dont know where to begin, what do i wear? how do i greet him when he gets there? should i have champange (YEA)? we are trying to do this next week. but gals I am so excited, nervous and stuff cause i want this to be very memorable. we havent mad love to one another since 1995, so you know im like very very anxious! Please give me some suggestions!:idea:

Wow, I can feel your nervousness and I am so excited for you, that is wonderful, just try to relax and enjoy your man...at my local mall there is a gourmet chocolate shop that sells edible chocolate paint...Have fun!

ummmm, i like i like!

Don't do champagne though. He shouldn't do that and risk getting into trouble. I'd just use sparkling cider or something.

true true true, because we have to toast!

Go to a sex shop, get some sexy lingerie' and greet him in just that! Have your hair & make-up all done real nice (not to much eye make-up if you're sentimental and sensitive like me and cry easily!) Also, at the sex shop, get anything fun that the two of you would enjoy together. One of those sex board games, love dice, "toys." You can even get a coupon book, and send him or give him one coupon a day untill your "date!" If you have the money, a room with a whirlpool suite is really fun!! The last time man man was gone, I picked him up on his outdate in a long coat over a little white lingerie' thing with a garter belt, thigh highs, and those 6" "hooker" heels! We stopped at a Comfort Inn on the way home and got their whirlpool suite. I had a whole bag of stuff for us that I had gotten from a sex shop by me, and also things I had ordered from Adam & Eve & Lover's Lane. Sex Bubbles in the whirlpool was the best. It looked like a setting on a soap opera! I even brought a video camera with, that was a lot of fun! A bikini wax is also another idea that I can vouch for, he'll love it! I'll never forget that day! I'm allready planning another one like that for his next out date! I can't find my Adam & Eve catalog, but here's the info to Lover's Lane:
1-800-266-9016 (to order a free catalog)
or their website (to get stuff in time for next week!):
loverslane.com
They have everything you need to make a night VERY special, which it sounds like this night obviously is gonna be! If I can think of anything else, I'll share those ideas with you to!!
GOOD LUCK!! :dance: :hee:

Do you have to pick him up, because if so, it'll change my advice on what to wear. If your meeting at the hotel... lingerie. If not, wear something cute and then change into lingerie at the hotel. Sparkling cider sounds liek a good idea. And as for greeting him... are you kidding me?! LOTSSS of long overdue kisses followed by hugging talking and sexing. : )

great ideas, thanks
im so excited!

Try some satin PJ's. The softness of the material should make your nipples hard which would be a site for him. Showwer first so you are kinda cold, put on some smell good a smell that you sprayed on letters and allow him to just lay his hands on you for a while.

CANDLES!!! Lot and lots of them! If the tub is big enough for the both of you (try to get a room with one of those jaquzzi type bathtubs... Fill it with bubbles and take a long hot and sexy bath with him... have a portable stereo to play some romantic music...Jazz is good. Place the candles all around. Bring some picnic type goodies to eat and when y'all get hungry (if you get hungry lol) have a romantic picnic on the carpet... good place to be to start rolling around in each others arms again for round 2!! :D What ever it is that you decide to do have fun and enjoy!!!

OMG!! I am so excited for you! I can't wait! Please come back to this thread after and let us know what you did and how it went! :fb: LUCKY YOU!! :p

First go to Victors secret and get some nice lil panties and bra and dont forget the candles they also have them there the ones that smell so good and they have the lotions and body sprays my fav is" love spell" they have the candle to match. Then do some whipp cream and k-y jelly!!!!!!!! Good luck and have lots of fun for us women who are still waiting.

Having just gone through a first reunion, I'd go a completely different direction. Take it down a notch, keep the pressure off, be moderate. The next day, in the phone call, he'd obviously been talking around, and said he wasn't the only one who suffered from soft-d*** disease. They all seem to have an initial overwhelming panic. Then that goes away, and things can go back to normal. And they did/do.

ahh Im really pleased for you, I dont think I can add anything else to what everyone else has put but I do want to say...........

Have fun, let us know how it went but NOT TO MUCH INFORMATION!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

I am with schweetie, I would keep things low key and less fancy, and just stick with being together. The other things are great, but for later. Just my two cents. Enjoy, by all means. Question: Is he allowed to do this, or are you all breaking a rule?

thanks gals, the candles are a great idea. It's been almost a decade I'm too excited to be low key...lol

My man was the opposite of what schweetie is talking about for both of our "reunions," it took him all day to finish! (I know, lucky me!!) I read that when a man has gone so long without p*ssy, his "guy" isn't used to the feeling of being inside of us ladies, and it takes them longer to get used to it and finish! But he definately had the opposite problem (if you can call it that!) of the soft-d*ck disease!! But mrslady, you know how your man is better than any of us, so just go with what your gut and past experiences tell you to do!! And again, GOOD LUCK!! And remember, I want details! I still have a bit to go, so I need to live off of others' happinesses for a while!