Having a moment because hubby's 20 day restriction was up yesterday, and I haven't heard from him. I don't know if the 20 days took affect from the time of the actual handing down of the restriction (the 3rd) or the last day I could talk to him on the phone (the 6th- when they turned off his phone privilege). I thought he might call tonight and he hasn't, so my heart is a little anxious. I've had one letter since the restriction (I know he only had 3 envelopes and no commissary for 20 days either).

So I sit and I wait some more. Praying he is okay. Praying I'll hear form him soon.

Sorry Sandy you are feeling the pain you are.It is had to go without knowing for sure what is happening to them.I do not know how the restriction thing works but he will call you soon keep hanging in there.Hey the bright side.....you phone bill will be less......Meant to make you smile:) I know you'e rather talk to him and pay the bill....I am sure he is as worried about you as you are about him.Kitty

Thanks Kitty. It has been amazing how much I've saved on the phone bill (my calls are $10.70 each because I live in another state). But, you are right, I would much rather pay it and hear his voice.

When they put my husband on restriction there was a problem when they tried to reactivate his number so it took another day for that to happen.

I just spoke with the Chaplain and the warden's assistant to see if they could give me any info. The Chaplain will send a message to his counselor since he is in RSVP and they have their own set of rules. She said he is working during the day and taking the classes at night. Maybe they don't work the weekends and he would have time in the barracks?

Sounds very possible. Hang in there, you will hear from him soon.

Waiting is the hardest and I don't think it gets any easier. I do know that I have worried myself sick and then the next thing I know, he's on the phone. Hang tight, he will call soon.

Waiting is the hardest and I don't think it gets any easier. I do know that I have worried myself sick and then the next thing I know, he's on the phone. Hang tight, he will call soon.

I have to agree with you on the waiting. It is one of the hardest things to do. I can have myself all freaked out and when I hear from him everything is fine.