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No advise on this one because I wouldn't begin to know how to handle it myself, but big ole :grouphug: .

Hope it all settles down for him and you soon and he can serve his time the way he wants to and put this all behind him.

Good Luck... I fear for my hubby to be hurt , I also would like to see my hubby in a safe Place!!

Well I hadn't had a call from my husband in a week and was starting to wonder if something else had happend to him, but I got a letter today thank goodness. His calling privlages (sp) have been taken away until Dec. 12th due to this whole mess. He is in ad. seg. right now so I don't worry about him as much since those guys pulled a knife on him (a whole nother story in itself). He told me that a guy down there that wasn't much over 20 hung himself last week. He had talked to the guy several times and thought he was ok so he never saw this coming. I feel so bad for this guys family. I have not heard anything on the news about it so I don't want to mention his name on here.

I hope these next few weeks fly by, I miss being able to talk to him especially with all of the bs my ex is putting my kids through.

Sorry things have been so difficult for you lately.Hang in there and keep your head about the waterline:) You can get to the shore IF you pace yourself and keep believing!!!! Kitty

nickslove2,
I'm so sorry to hear all that's happening to your husband. My husband just got into a fight a few weeks ago because these new guys that came in were trying to mess with him. He's always been the type to take care of himself, so of course he fought back and they were trying to jump him and this other guy helped out. He didn't get in trouble for that one but they were watching him really closely after that. He got into an argument with a guard and he was placed in the hole or what-not. I argree with you, I want him to come home as soon as possible and I want him to remain out of everyone else's way but I don't want him to be "punked" the whole time he's there. My sister was saying that he has to be whatever he needs to so they will leave him alone. It's all too scary. I can't go see him now because of that or something. I only got to speak to him for 5 mins on a calling card because it's long distance. UGH!!! Hang in there and let me know if you ever need to talk.

nickslove2,
............God Bless and keep me posted.

Well, I just found out tonight that they transferred my husband to the Delta Unit, which puts him over 5 hours from where we live. UGH!! I'm glad he is out of Varner, but dang, did they have to move him that far. I haven't found anyone on here that has posted lately about this unit, so I have a lot of questions. Any body with any info on this place please post. I hope it is better than Varner. At least we can have contact visits again. Even though I'll have to take a mini vacation just to go see him. He's talking about doing an inter state compact and try to get moved up here.

Hey girl, it's going to be alright. God is always in control. At least he's out of Varner which is what you've wanted, right? I just pray and hope that he'll be safer in this new place. My husband is nearly 6 hours from me now and I really think that's as close as he's gonna get,lol!! So we can enjoy our "mini vacations" together (in spirit) as we travel to see our husbands.

Good luck on whatever program it is that will bring him closer to home.

Delta Unit is a cake walk compared to Varner. Food is better, guards are nicer. It is a much more laid back facility. Most of the people there are non-violent and getting close to wrok release or home. He should have less trouble there.

Thanks for the words of encouragement. I did read somewhere else that they do sometimes parole out of there earlier. But I'm not going to get my hopes up. All I want is for him to be safe and come home in one peice. And I really could use a mini vacation. My mother-in-law may go with me, maybe we could head on down to Louisiana and party down there. lol