Help .....it's 2 in the morning can't sleep, eat , think. Just want to know he'll be ok. They tell me he's in PC, because of the charge. when he goes to Pine Bluff they can put him anywhere. it was non violent, his lawyer said he'd talk to Mr Brewer, has anyone ever heard of him??

Hang in there, he will be OK and it will be all be OK. There are many of us who have been sleepless and very worried about our loved one. Somehow God gets us through it and we do level out as best we can.
I believe Mr. Brewer has to do with "classification" in the system. Try to not think about the worst things that can happen or be, it does not do anyone any good. Keep yourself strong as possible, for yourself and your loved one.
God Bless we are all in this together.

I totally agree with PODS...hang in there. Things do level out. Try and rest and take care of yourself. Good luck and I will tell you that there are a few good people on here that have given me encouragement and helped me through some difficult times. We are all in the same boat.

littlebit, I know it is hard not to worry and think the worse. It will all get better when things settle down some. Just as pods and bat said. My son has been in for over a year. It has become part of our lives now. His life in there. Our lives out here. You make the best of it and keep living. It is amazing what becomes normal when you have no choice. We humans are an adaptable species. Thank God!

hang in there and keep your spirits high and him always in your heart.

I appreciate the support. I am the only caregiver of my 94 yr old dad. My son would help out all the time. I have chkn houses too-again he would help out all the time. Everyday I am reminded of how much I miss him. I always show him the strong side, but I fall apart a little each day. When will it get easier?????