Hey all! I was wondering what sort of things you guys write your man? I've been running out of stuff to talk about/tell him...and its only been 2 months!! I feel like this whole "I love you, I miss you so much" routine is just making it harder on HIM, you know? So it would be much appreciated if you all could give me ideas of what to write!

-Christy

well, I alwasy share what my day is like, that kind of thing. If i write in the moring, i tell them the plans for that day.
I kno sometimes it seems that you run out of things to say. :)

Have you tried "journaling". Sometimes, I write to him throughout my day...mundane things, but it allows me to "free-write" too. Like something silly will turn into something else. For instance,

"I'm sitting at my computer now writing to you because I'm on a break. Did I ever tell you about the time I broke my arm in the 5th grade?"

Or you can limit the times you write. Some people are on a schedule. I write to my husband twice a week, so that I don't run out of things to say.

Good luck!
Wendy

Yeah, it's kinda hard at first, but now I can write him a 5 or 6 page letter everyday - his "weekend" letters are ALWAYS at least 20 pages. He "hears" EVERYTHING, I'm doin', it's almost like he's there. I always put the "time of day" in the left margin, and just continue, everytime I stop and start again. He loves it, though he did tell me last weekend on the phone to GO HAVE SOME FUN! LOL

I so glad that you posted this, because I am always wondering myself what I should write to him too. I am always afraid what I do write is stupid or silly or that it's just plain awful. In my eyes he writes good letters even though I know he doesn't worry what he writes about. So I will be keep checking in on this post to see other's responses, so thanks again for this post.

Sometimes it is hard to keep it fresh! I have written about my childhood memories, made a list of things I want to do with him if he ever gets his butt outta there. :) I print him cartoons off the internet, articles from the paper, the latest NASCAR standings. Went to www.puzzlemaker.com and made some puzzles for him about us. Try an on-going story, you start it, then ask him to add to it and send it back to you, then you add to it and send it back to him, etc. I send lyrics to songs that remind me of him. I have sent sketches... he said he missed holding my hand, so I drew my hand for him. Sometimes when I write a typical everyday letter I'll write it in different color inks just to jazz it up a bit. Before he went in, we hadn't been together that long and everynight at 8 p.m. he would ask me to tell him something about myself that he didn't know. It could be anything. So the other day I wrote to him that I dislocated my elbow when I was five. Last night I wrote a very short letter. He's been on my case about getting to bed at a reasonable hour. So I wrote, Hi honey... you'd be so proud, I'm in bed before 11 p.m. Goodnight! Love, me. Silly, yes... but I know it'll make him smile... :)

Good luck!

I got to know him via letters, so there was a lot to ask and talk about. Maybe you can think of some funny, entertaining, deep or erotic questions yourself to spice up your letters? Or how about starting to write little stories about some (erotic) adventures? :)
Good luck with that!

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Good quizzes and ideas :D

i do as alot of others do...when i write to my fiancee, i generally start out writing in the morning, telling him what's on the day's agenda (if there is one), i have to stop writing quite often to deal with our 13 month old, then i pick back up again by telling daddy just what trouble he got into. once i have logan either down for a nap or in bed at night is when i can tell him about our day...of course i talk to him on the phone everyother day..so there's not much to write about.. so then it's logan's turn to write to daddy, of course i have to do all the work, but daddy loves those letters from him.

I too use to write Trav about my day. I would start out in the morning and continue thruout the day. I would send him NASCAR news when the race was not on NBC becuz they would miss it.

"Freaky" letters are always nice! He loves to get them! Especially when it's something you probably would never do, but you know it's something he fantasises about! Sometimes one of us will start a freaky letter, and the other one will finish it. It's always fun to put a twist on what you want to do after he writes his ideas!...
I've noticed that sometimes when we're bored (we're both guilty of this!) we'll start fights in letters over stupid stuff that we normally would not fight about! This is not very fun or nice, but after dragging on about something, I'll make fun of myself or him for it, whoever started the stupid fight!
I also make it a habbit of writing him everyday so I know he'll get something just about everyday, I know it keeps a smile on his face. My husband is also my best friend, so I usually use him as my diary or a journal. I tell him all my feelings, thoughts, and secrets.

Pillow Mail to write him SEXY letters :)
http://pillowmail.com/index.php/rd_/story

WOW! I just went to that site (pillow mail) and printed out a story to send my man. Thanks, he's gonna love it! I told him to have a clean pair of boxers ready!!

I'm having a hard time trying to write my sweetie. I'm so use to talking to him over the phone. Its' hard to express myself on paper. I'm going though so diffucult things in my life right now and I want to sound up beat for him.
Recently I wrote him a story/essay based on us. It was the first time I wrote down every feeling I had for him. We are still in a process of knowing each other and he is still a mystery to me. He's a sweet guy, but all the things that interest me he's kind of lost about.
But I'm going to try the 'journal' thing. And try to stay positve. I'm really interested about his childhood. I want to know his fears, dreams, likes,...all that stuff, he is so special to me.

Journaling that is a wonderful idea. What I like to do is write him little funny stories, and great movie lines. I write him everyday but sometimes it's not a letter. Sometimes I will write my plans for us. Get creative with it. Good ideas will come.

I usually write to Mark like I am writing in a journal. I tell him all the things that I am going through, jokes I heard... people who annoy me, anything that will let him feel connected to my life out here.

I use my man as my personal journal. This is probably why I am able to write everyday and always have at least ten pages. :p