JB's_old_lady
10-10-2007, 08:46 PM
Hello everyone! I am just having a bad day and need to get some stuff off of my chest. So everyone knows what is going on my fiancee is in regional punishment facility, and has been there for over 350 days. He has eleven days and he will be home. (I assume) Well yesterday a new guard (was guards first day) apparently got in his face or something. I am really not for sure because I have not got to talk to my old man about it, but words were exchanged. My old man was put in seg and the guard was pulled off of the wing from my understanding. Jacob, my finacee, had his bunkie call and let me know he was in seg, and he was supposed to have court today. Well he didn't have court today for some reason so it will be next wednesday before he has court. There court from my understanding is I guess from my understanding the treatment staff is the judge, jury, and all. LOL! Who has a chance against that! Anyway supposivly he will still get his visit this weekend since they have not found him guilty with his cardinal rule violation. I don't really know I just want to talk to him and find out what is going on. Of course since he is in seg he can't call me. Anyway so I guess next Wednesday he will go to this court shit, and if they find him guilty I guess he will just stay in seg (worse case senerio). I'm not really worried about that because from next Wednesday he will only have five days left. I just hope there is no way they can keep him any longer. His release date is his flat date so I don't believe they can. I just want to know what will happen. Hopefully I'll get a letter tomorrow and find out what is up. I'm sure he will tell me all about it. Well I just had to get it off of my chest, and I'm so ready to not deal with this place any more. Prison is a headache not only for they residents, but the families also. I feel for anyone that has to deal with the system for just one day or a life time. IT SUCKS! Thanks for listening and letting me share. I just need support I guess!
Jacob's Faithfull Old Lady!
ittybittykitty
10-11-2007, 02:19 PM
Sorry you are facing this....it is hard I know when we can not talk to them and hear what is really going on I went thru that a few times in the past and it makes for long nights and worried feelings. I do not have an answer for the what can happen with this....who really knows the rules can change at the drop of a hat at times.Just keep believing for the best and hang in there.I think sometimes when other inmates who are jealous or even ADC employees see someone is nearing there release date they TRY to get that person in trouble. Hopefully you will get a letter soon or get to visit this weekend.Keep us updated Kitty
JB's_old_lady
10-13-2007, 03:41 PM
well I got a letter from my man today. I still should be able to see him tomorrow. Also he gave me a list of everything they could possible give him for his two cardinals 1) non-comliance 2) threatning & initmidating staff
Here is what he is looking at
1. Submit a violation report recommending revocation of probation or recommened thransfer to the department of corrections, as appropriate
2. desciplinary detention for up to thirty days
3. extra duty up to two hours per day for up to 60 days
4. restitution
5. change of job assignment, and/or change of housing unit assignment
6. loss of good time
7. reduction of class
8. loss of commissary, telephone, visitation, and/or privelages up to sixty days
He will not know until Wednesday, and his release date is the next Tuesday. This release date is his flat time. He will have five years probation after he gets home so I just wonder what will happen. Keep me in your prayers. I hope he still gets to come home, and not be transfered to ADC. Thanks everyone!
Jacob's old lady!
BabygirlNGary
10-13-2007, 04:25 PM
Your in my prayers....be sure to let us know what happens. Im rooting for you!! Seems like the guards make it hard when someone is about to get released. Hopefully justice will prevail!!!!!
DeeDeechat
10-13-2007, 08:58 PM
Hey
Well I'm sorry about your situation and I hope it doesn't get any worser. Well My B-Day is tomorrow and I'm missing my baby to the fulliest! I try taking everything day by day and It seems to help but I wish I could get a big strong huge from him right now. Be strong and from what your list of consequenses(?) look like, I'm guessing that he still will be home with you very soon. And your right this does take a huge toll on us all. But we gotta stick together and stay strong. And lastly continue to support your loved one because without our support they will be lost and lonely.
Dee
JB's_old_lady
10-14-2007, 08:50 PM
Well everyone I did get to see my old man today. Thank god because I don't know if I could have drove home safely if they would of told me to leave. Well the next time I see him which is 8 days away should be his release date. I'm sure I won't get to see him next weekend because I'm sure on Wednesday they will take his visitation rights away. Well I'll keep everyone posted. Keep me in your prayers. Thanks everyone.
Jacob's old lady faithfully waiting!
ittybittykitty
10-14-2007, 09:27 PM
Hey girl we are here for you ....and Prayin' for a good outcome.Kitty
JB's_old_lady
11-03-2007, 11:59 AM
Well He is home, and has been close to two weeks now. It has been kinda hard adjusting for the both of us, but we are doing good. thanks everyone
JB's Old Lady
ittybittykitty
11-05-2007, 08:37 AM
Congrads !!!!! Hope all works out well for you both.Be Strong for yourself !!! Be Blessed,Kitty