well things are not as good as we both thought. For one i am not getting to go and see him on the 19th of this month because i cant get off of work and even though he understands hes mom was another story. She is really mad at me and hurt but she also needs to understand that i have to make a living and even though i want to go and see him so bad i can taste it i just cant right now. Then the other bad thing is the fact that hes stupid sister wrote a letter to the warden which now has stopped his transfer for the time being. Believe me he is not happy one bit about that. Just wanted to let you know what was going on i will keep you posted--Shea:(

Awww...I hate this is happening...why did his siter write a letter to the warden? His mom needs to understand that there will be times when you can't go see him, due to work or unforeseen circumstances...I hope he still gets his transfer...keep us posted...

Well, that just stinks, Shea!! That's just awful of his mother to get upset with you like that. People HAVE to work!! It's not always garuanteed that'll you be able to get off on visitation days!! I'm curious, too, as to why his sis wrote a letter to the Warden?!?! Hopefully, the transfer will still happen...and, not too long from now!

i have no idea why hes sister wrote a letter to the warden and he didnt tell me what it said but whatever it did say it made adam very mad at her to the point to where he has disowned his sister.

Sorry you are having a rough time. It's hard enough without family having to make it worse. Stay strong, I'm sure you are a lot more upset that you are not getting to go. Sometimes people can only understand what they want. Prayers are with you.
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