ME AND JESSE MET ON MYSPACE..:p YES I KNOW ITS CRAZY.BUT WE REALLY CARE ABOUT EACHOTHER..WE ARE ABOUT TO HAVE A MONTH AND HE HAD ALREADY GIVEN ME A DIAMOND RING FOR MY BIRTHDAY!:) I COULDNT BELIEVE IT!HE HAD BEEN SO GOOD TO ME THE ONLY PROBLEM WAS THAT HE HATED ME TALKING TO OTHER PEOPLE HE WAS ALWAYS ASKING WHO IS THAT???AND OH WELL I'LL LET U GO BECAUSE YOUR BUSY..HE WAS THE JEALOUS TYPE.LOL.BUT 2DAYS AGO IT WAS THE LAST STRAW..I HAD IT WITH HIS JEALOUSY..I COULDNT EVEN THINK OUT LAUD BECAUSE HE THOUGHT HE HEARD SOMEONE ELSE WITH ME. AND SO I DECIDED TO END IT..HE SAID IT WAS BEST TO BREAK UP TOO..HE SAID TO DELETE HIM FROM MYSPACE AND SO I DID..HE WAS MAD AND DINT KNOW WHAT HE WAS DOING..HE WANTED HIS RING BACK.BUT THE NEXT DAY HE WAS A CHANGED MAN SAYING HE WOULD DO ANYTHING TO BE WITH ME..AND THAT HE REALIZED WUT HE DID WRONG..HE SAID IF I WOULD HAVE GIVEN HIM THE RING HE WOULD HAVE RETURNED IT.I WENT TO HIS APT YESTERDAY AND WE TALKED ABOUT WHAT HAPPENDED HE ASKED ME ABOUT 8 TIMES...."SO WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO ABOUT ME AND YOU? I WANT TO KNOW." I WOULD IGNORE IT AND TALK ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE..LOL.PRETTY MUCH HE GOT ME TO FORGIVE HIM BECAUSE HE SAID HE WOULD CHANGE ANYTHING I DIDNT LIKE ABOUT HIM..AND HE WAS REALLY GOING TO CHANGE..I KNEW IT.SO I TOOK HIM BACK. HE WAS GOING TO GO OUT WITH HIS FRIEND MARISSA SO WE WENT TO GO EAT AND CAME BACK QUICK B CUZ SHE WOULD GET THERE SOON..HE PLANNED THE WHOLE DAY FOR US FOR SUNDAY BECAUSE I WAS GOING TO HAVE MY DAY OFF..HE SAID I LOVE YOU AND CALL ME WHEN YOU GET HOME..SO I DID BUT SINCE HE DIDNT ANSWER I SAID OH THAT'S MEAN YOU TELL ME TO CALL BUT YOU DONT ANSWER! LOL. HE SAID IT WAS B CUZ THE MUSIC WAS TOO LAUD..:p SO I SAID...OH..ALRIGHT IL GO TO SLEEP THEN GOOD NIGHT...HE NEVER TEXTED BACK...HE USUALLY ANSWERS AND SAYS SWEET DREAMS AND I LOVE YOU BABE.I THOUGHT HE MIGHT CALL LATER BUT I NEVER THOUGHT HE WOULD CALL ME TODAY SATURDAY AT 4:45AM TELLING ME HE WAS IN JAIL. HE GAVE ME ALL HIS INFO AND SAID TO CALL HIS MOM AND TIA..I WAS BUT THEN HE CALLED AND GAVE ME HIS MOM'S NUMBER SO WE COULD DO 3 WAY..OMG! I WAS SO SCARED FOR HIM AND I DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO DO..I JUST LET THEM TALK AND WHEN HE WAS ABOUT TO HANG UP HE SAID..."BABE...?TAKE CARE AND I LOVE YOU OK?"THE WAY HE SAID IT BROKE MY HEART.


SO NOW I WANT TO FIND OUT EVERYTHING SO I CAN GO SEE HIM AND BE WIT HIM....LET ME KNOW WHAT I CAN DO TO HELP HIM..WHAT CAN I TAKE? WHAT WILL HE NEED?HE WAS WARRANTS IN GLENDALE PHOENIX AND I THINK AVONDALE..I THINK HE HAS TO PAY FOR THEM IN ORDER TO GET OUT.THAT ALL TOGETHER IS PROBABLY AROUND $2500..HE SAID HE'LL STAY I JAIL AND TO NOT WORRY AND THAT HE WILL FIX WUT HE DID TO COME OUT CLEAN.. AND NOT BE WORRYING ABOUT THE COPS GETTING HIM AGAIN.

Jesse Iliana.. sounds like a lot going on. It also sounds like he is very possessive. Maybe while he is in jail, is a good time to talk serious about relationships and trust and other friendships. Well, I am just an old lady who maybe still lives in a time when life was simpler. As far as jail - is he county or is he in a prison ? a lot depends on that. County has tougher restrictions than a prison. You should talk to someone where he is at first and ask a lot of questions. did/does he have a lawyer ? you could talk to him/her. sorry that is the best I can come up with. but understand my brain isn't in full mode yet.. it is only 4 am and I am only on my 1st cup of coffee. (smile).
not much help but hoped it helped a little.

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Jesse Iliana.. sounds like a lot going on. It also sounds like he is very possessive. Maybe while he is in jail, is a good time to talk serious about relationships and trust and other friendships. Well, I am just an old lady who maybe still lives in a time when life was simpler. As far as jail - is he county or is he in a prison ? a lot depends on that. County has tougher restrictions than a prison. You should talk to someone where he is at first and ask a lot of questions. did/does he have a lawyer ? you could talk to him/her. sorry that is the best I can come up with. but understand my brain isn't in full mode yet.. it is only 4 am and I am only on my 1st cup of coffee. (smile).
not much help but hoped it helped a little.




i am very concerned now.i dont know what to do.he was possesive and even his mom said so... and hes in prison i think.i dont really know the difference..=) umm.i care about him so i been trying to helping him out.he says he'll be out by the 11th of october.so i dont think its that serious..he just has to go to court on the 10th.he has court today (wendnesday) at 9.30 his mom said he has no holds so he might be out when the court is over.

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