I GOT A LETTER FROM MY HUBBY TODAY AND I NOTICE HE GOT MOVED TO.... ASU 221??
IM ASSUMING HE'S IN THE HOLE...RIGHT???:confused:
BUT HE DIDNT EVEN MENTION ANYTHING IN THE LETTER...
HE SAID HE WAS GETTING MOVED TO ANOTHER PRISON AND THAT THEY WERE GONNA LET HIM KNOW ON THE 20TH...IM SO CONFUSED:confused:

I GOT A LETTER FROM MY HUBBY TODAY AND I NOTICE HE GOT MOVED TO.... ASU 221??
IM ASSUMING HE'S IN THE HOLE...RIGHT???:confused:
BUT HE DIDNT EVEN MENTION ANYTHING IN THE LETTER...
HE SAID HE WAS GETTING MOVED TO ANOTHER PRISON AND THAT THEY WERE GONNA LET HIM KNOW ON THE 20TH...IM SO CONFUSED:confused:

SORRY TO HEAR THAT YES I BELIEVE THAT IS THE HOLE STAY STRONG AND GOODLUCK

Thanks for the support bonegirl
Im mad because he didnt even let me know
why he's in the hole all he told me was
he was getting moved to another prison...
im wondering:hmm: what he did!!!because if he's in
there it can't be for something good:( :angry:

Thanks for the support bonegirl
Im mad because he didnt even let me know
why he's in the hole all he told me was
he was getting moved to another prison...
im wondering:hmm: what he did!!!because if he's in
there it can't be for something good:( :angry:

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL :angry: MY BF CALLED ABOUT ANY HOUR AGO AND SOME MESS WAS STARTING UP AND I TOLD HIM TAKE YOUR A*S SOME WHERE ELSE!!!! YOU CAN CALL ME LATER.....EVEN WHEN THEY DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE ISSUE ALL THEY HAVE TO BE IS IN THE WRONG PLACE.......HOPEFULLY YOU'LL FIND OUT WHAT HAPPEN SOON.:)

Yeah that's the hole! That's where my letters come from!

Well yeah i figured it was the hole.
Thanks for your responses and support:thumbsup:
I better change my lil ticker thing below because now
i dont know if he got some more time added or
what!!!!!!

I wish you the best keep your head up and stay strong :grouphug:

Stay strong girl :grouphug: It's hard at times when they are in the hole. I know...:thumbsup:

Don't be upset, there are alot of things that our men can only tell us in person! He will probably explain it all to you later on when its face to face. Don't forget they read the mail and monitor the calls! Good luck and stay strong.Thanks for the support bonegirl
Im mad because he didnt even let me know
why he's in the hole all he told me was
he was getting moved to another prison...
im wondering:hmm: what he did!!!because if he's in
there it can't be for something good:( :angry:

Don't stress about him getting more time. I did until I talked to him. He's been in the hole 2 months now and his release date is still the same and he even filled out his parole plans already. So it looks like they just gonna keep him there till he leaves.

Monizie.... I just wanted to say...stay strong girl. My man has been in ASU for 2 months now. He is fighting his 115 and it's been a tough time. I just try to stay focused. My man has a release date in Oct, we dunno if that is going to happen. :confused: They are right when they say that our men can't say alot due to the mail and calls being monitored. So don't get too upset if he doesn't disclose alot of detail. My man actually stopped writing to me for a month and it almost cost us our relationship but he had to do what he had to do. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your man. May nothing but the best come outta of this situation. You are a Chuckie's girl right? I don't visit often... but I would be willing to carpool if you are local since our visits are only 2 hours. :angry: I come from San Fernando/210/5 Freeway area.....

Take care...
AGz Lady!

Sorry to hear you got bad news :( Hopefully it is nothing too big, and his out date will stay the same!! Keep your head up, we are all here for you.

Thanks alot for all the encouraging words ladies you dont know how (((better))) you ladies make me feel:thumbsup: It feels good to know I have this kind of support since I tell my friends out here and all they can tell me is "leave him already" but they dont know how much I love him and how much I am willing to stand and go through for him!! Thanks again I've been trying to call his counselor to find out whats up but hes always in and out.....
Agz_friend~yeah that would be cool to carpool...I'll message you....

Monzie~ I'm praying for you. Your friends aren't in your relationship, only you and your man. Hang in there honey and be true to you!

Draches thanks for your prayers & advice:thumbsup:

Thanks alot for all the encouraging words ladies you dont know how (((better))) you ladies make me feel:thumbsup: It feels good to know I have this kind of support since I tell my friends out here and all they can tell me is "leave him already" but they dont know how much I love him and how much I am willing to stand and go through for him!! Thanks again I've been trying to call his counselor to find out whats up but hes always in and out.....
Agz_friend~yeah that would be cool to carpool...I'll message you....
Glad to hear you are feeling better, just listen to your heart and fu** the rest!!!

Hang in there Moni:grouphug: Hopefully he won't be in the hole for long. I know you're probably worried wondering what happened.:confused: But just like Melany said, remember they record the calls and read the mail so I'm sure that's why he did'nt give you any details. Anyhow, good luck and I hope he gets out of that hole soon.

I must say Im feeling better thanks for the support once again I talked to his counselor today but he didnt answer any of my questions...But I do know he is getting moved...because i asked him and he said yes and that he made some recomendations where to get moved so I dont know whats up I hope he calls me soon....Any ideas why he might be getting moved??

I must say Im feeling better thanks for the support once again I talked to his counselor today but he didnt answer any of my questions...But I do know he is getting moved...because i asked him and he said yes and that he made some recomendations where to get moved so I dont know whats up I hope he calls me soon....Any ideas why he might be getting moved??

Well since he went to the hole, I'm sure his points went up. I know my man's did. But there could be other reasons.:shrug:

Monzie- I think I recall someone else who"s man went to the hole at Chuckys but ended up being moved to ISP because Chucks doesn't have much room. Maybe thats why... just a thought! He'll call you as soon as he is able. Communication (open) is going to be tough during this and you may need to go a long time not "knowing" for sure whats up. Hang in there... sometimes it is better for us not to know, if you know what I mean. Take care of you and just keep loving your man!

I think he said he will be moving to tehachapi or corcoran but i dont know im waiting for his letter....hes lagging it or maybe the mail room.....

Monzie- I think I recall someone else who"s man went to the hole at Chuckys but ended up being moved to ISP because Chucks doesn't have much room. Maybe thats why... just a thought! He'll call you as soon as he is able. Communication (open) is going to be tough during this and you may need to go a long time not "knowing" for sure whats up. Hang in there... sometimes it is better for us not to know, if you know what I mean. Take care of you and just keep loving your man!

Can anyone give me input on what a SHU Term is?

Thanks in advance.
AGz Lady

SHU - I'm pretty sure it is segregated housing unit if my memories of lock up serve me correctly BY THE WAY LADIES ALL NEW EPISODES ON MSNBC :D