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mzford
09-05-2007, 04:51 PM
hey i am starting to get very nervous, i am going to see my my guy the 15th and i have to ride with his mom. ive never met her before but some of the people i know and him say she is a bit of a monster. And she will say things that will hurt me. now i am not easily offended but stupid people piss me and i can ignore only so much before my mouth starts to move and i don't want to say anything for her not to like me. It's crazy cause i don't care if any one really likes me or not but this is his mom, and well, i dont want her to come in between us or me come between them, now i am not used to passing people off when im mad and dont know if i can handle 3 hours down and 3 hours back in a car along without saying anything. He says tell her whatever he don't care but if i get pissed and say it that means she probably won't want me with him and give him hell till she gets her way. don't know what to do but i have to go down there i need to see him, oh yeah did i mention this will be when he tells her we're getting married and already have the day set?

MsRossi
09-05-2007, 05:19 PM
WOW! Don't be nervous, you never know that trip may go so smooth that she may not get on your nerves. You are a lot braver than me though I can tell you that. I get nervous when he tells me to call his mom. I never meet a stranger but I am still scared to death of this woman. I have met his brother and his sister but i still get scared when I talk to her.

mzford
09-05-2007, 06:55 PM
yeah i have met his dad and stepmom i met them like 2 or 3 years ago. They are fine but its crazy she has hopes of him marring his ex and she still wants it talks about when he gets back he can get her back after he gets a job, she knows i have been his friend but she don't know that we are in a relationship exspecially not a serious one, im really just scared she will leave me there stranded you know