Hello out there PTO members! Just an update about my situation with Tee. He hasn't called for three weeks now and I am getting a really bad feeling. I called the prison yesterday and he isn't in trouble, not in the hospital, nor moved to another camp,or in the hole. I don't know what is going on! The chaplain said he would tell Tee to call, but I don't think he really did cause' Tee always call right back. Tee hasn't written at all either. I feel so alone out here and I am starting to think he just doesn't want anything to do with me and he might have been playing me all this time. I don't know!
I thought he loved me. This is a scary feeling and I wish he would communicate with me! Help!

Really sad!

Moved to 911 emergency response!

Please don't get yourself stressed out, believe me, I know the feeling all to well. I use to get myself so worked up. Then things would be fine. Does he have money on his books for stamps or has stamps? It could be to hot to write as my husband says. In my situation I am the one not writing so I will hear about it, in a little while. But my husband use to tell me something, "always be positive and strong" and you must be we all must be. I will light a candle for you, maybe he is just a little stressed himself. I am insecure, that is my fault and we always argue about it. But give it another couple of days. Please hang in there, ok

Cherokee

Ya know I don't know if he has any $$$ on da' books! He usually get's it from his older brother but he hasn't called him either in the last 3 weeks. I was in a financial pickle I would say, but should be out of it soon! Yeah! Maybe I can just send a little for now! I know he probably needs it! His mom never sends any-she doesn't work. What I think he is worrying about is his pregnant 19 year old girl who doesn't want her child. She is 6 months now! Not taking care of herself. And he can't do anything about it! Poor guy!
Thanks for the encouragement and you hang in there too!

Hanh in there, you will hear from him!Steve&kids

Nice to hear from you Steve&kids! Hope you are all doing well and staying happy!

Susanne, another option may be to call on the weekend and ask for the captain or sergeant on duty for that shift...Just tell them that you and his family are worried about Tee and he usally calls and you haven't heard from him in 'almost' a month...Ask questions...like does he still have access to the phone, etc...
It may be a long shot, but it worked for me 2 times...the officier in charge actually 'looked into it' and I received a phone call very soon. It's a lot in how you talk to them...
Good luck!