i am new to this and have no idea how to do this but my husband is in prison until 2013 he has been gone for 6 months it feels like a life time i miss him teribbly and i want him home have no idea what i am going to do without him.

Welcome to PTO. Glad you found us.
I moved you down to the VA forum since your profile says you're dealing with a VA prison.
I know how hard it is for you right now since your hubby just "left". Keep your chin up. You'll find a great deal of support here and on PTO in general.

It is always hardest in the beginning. You don't know anything, how to put money on the books, how to set up the phone account, everything. We are here and glad to help you find your way. Welcome!