Cronesong
07-16-2007, 09:37 PM
Well I feel I should post as I too was one who said sure this is a good idea . I still feel that .......
My story around prison death is that my first husband died in Paremoremo Maximum Security Prison New Zealand two and a half years into his sentence.The post mortem said 'heart attack' the rumours said ' murdered by screws ' ( co's ) the coroners court didnt want to know .The judge actually stated in court that as he was a con he didnt deserve to have medical treatment anyway and it was no loss that he died so no investigation needed.
That was a long time ago , we grieved, our daughter and I , we moved on but years later the pain is still there at what happened to him and the anger at the way he was treated. My girls Daddy never got to come home. His prison sentence was his punishment for his crime of stealing money....not denial of basic human rights ....not death...nor shame in death.
:) Blessings
Keltria
07-17-2007, 01:32 AM
My thoughts are with you and your family. It might have been a long time ago... but you will always want to know the truth irrespective.
Jonathan
07-17-2007, 01:41 PM
I too offer my condolences to you and your family. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
tebkrg
07-18-2007, 03:42 AM
I am sorry that you have this to remember... I am sorry that the judge was so cold. Hopefully you can find some peace for your heart here at PTO.
PT ROSE
07-19-2007, 09:45 AM
I am so sorry for your loss, My thoughts and prayers are with you.
momof271
07-21-2007, 07:17 PM
I'm sorry for you loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you!
FriscoLady
07-22-2007, 03:35 AM
Our condolences to you and yours. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Patti and Linda
Cronesong
08-02-2007, 04:35 PM
Thank you for your thoughts
Life does go on indeed and what happened becomes a part of my story like the wildflowers growing on the banks of lifes ever flowing river.....the seeds are left there to grow in the sun, the river flows on.....
guvokikam
08-17-2007, 06:31 PM
My story around prison death is that my first husband died in Paremoremo Maximum Security Prison New Zealand two and a half years into his sentence.The post mortem said 'heart attack' the rumours said ' murdered by screws ' ( co's ) the coroners court didnt want to know .The judge actually stated in court that as he was a con he didnt deserve to have medical treatment anyway and it was no loss that he died so no investigation needed.
His prison sentence was his punishment for his crime of stealing money....not denial of basic human rights ....not death...nor shame in death.
:) Blessings
I find it to be an outrage! It begs the question on how many other murders were deemed "heart attacks" The judge's conclusion is*shrugs* "oh well" Makes one wonder how many others died in like manner under his watch?
I am sorry your daughter and your family had to go through this Whitebird.
Tigger Mom
08-18-2007, 08:46 PM
Whitebird,
I am so sorry for your loss. Even though it has been a long time the sorrow never goes away. You will always feel his absence. It has only been 10 mos. for me but I have already learned that it will never go away nor will I ever be the same. What that Judge said was wrong, very wrong and he should have been called up on that. No matter what an individual did they are to go before a jury of their peers and therefore be sentenced. Your Husband like my Son were both willing to take their punishment and it did not include death!
Tigger Mom
stinkerbell
08-20-2007, 11:21 PM
OMG They arent even considered humn beings anymore when they are inprisoned so sad I had no clue until my brother was locked up :(
my condolences to you and your family. Prayers are with you.
kimberly1976
09-08-2007, 12:23 PM
No one deserves to die and be treated like that! We all makes mistakes...some just never get caught and some do. Regardless we are all human beings and we all deserve to be treated fairly!! Im sorry you had to go through this!
Nannerghost
09-09-2007, 05:08 AM
Hello Whitebird,
"Years ago" is to you as if it were "today". Pls. allow me to understand your feelings. You are being thought of and I firmly believe that your loved one is near you all the time, as there is a connection between the two of you. I know that you can feel it often, as well.
Theres much much more to the construction of our "life" here on earth, than the physical being, aka the body. Our soul is much greater in meaning and is the essence of love itself.
If you surf onto jenseits-de.com you can become educated in the research of the Afterlife, I am sure you will take great comfort in then knowing that your loved one is well and doing fine, trying to let you know out of love for you, that he is. The link is also found under my Name. This is not my website, but I can assure you that it helped me to be able to see everything much more clearly and I extend it to you as a gift.
Sending you love and good thoughts,
Nanner