my soon to be husband in in FT. Sill rcf. about 3 weeks ago he got put back in lockdown for the 3rd time i havent been able to talk to him seens. the 1st time it was for fighting and i got to talk to like 3 weeks later.the 2nd time he got put in lockdown it was for back talking a guard. i got to talk to him that following weekend. buts it been 3 weekends now and no word from him. is there a chance he is not aloud to make phone calls? and if soo what must have he done to get in soo much troulbe? PLEASE help me im w/ child and the stress isnt good for me or the baby but i cant stop worring PLEASE help thanks phai

Phai,
Haven't seen any posts from you before, so first, Welcome! There could be any number of explanations as to why you have not heard from him in 3 weeks. Most likely, his phone privileges may have been taken away as punishment. As to what he did, I wouldn't guess. It could be anything and from what you've said about his disciplinary record, it wouldn't be surprising to know he is in trouble again. As to you stressing yourself and your baby, please take a deep breath. We can not control in any way what they do and what happens to them while they are confined. We can only be here for them and wait (im)patiently for their release. If you stress out every time you don't hear from him, you will go nuts before this is over! I don't think they can stop him from writing to you unless they have somehow removed you from his mail list for good cause. You can try writing to him at the facility and wait for his reply. In the meantime, try to relax, take care of yourself and your baby. Good luck and keep the faith. Keep us posted on what's going on.

~Lisa.