i had a idea.. would anyone be interested in asking their loved one what THEY would ilke to start a thread about( then you post it) with his, and your responce to it.. then we all would post our answers, and of course as soon as we pass along the thread info to our loved one, we'd come back and fill in their responce. think it would be VERY interesting!

anyone want to go first?
and if your not interested.. let me know also...

In my next letter, i'm going to ask him to start a thread.. so as soon as i get it back, i'll post ours.. maybe someone else will have one up and going before then...

I would, But B would be like erm.... No!

So, I'll leave that to the rest of ya lol!

I'l do it. I'll ask him in my next letter and get back.

can't wait to hear what ya guy comes up with Rhondaerika!

I'll ask Kenney...we'll see what smart ass question he comes up with!

i can't wait.. what will be so funny is their answers ... think this will all give us something to look forward to .

okay, I'm back.. I had wrote telling him about this thread, and this is HIS responce,
HE wants to know the ONE thing in yalls relationship with your guy that yall value the MOST? ( what yall consider the Most Important) AND the ONE thing that is the HARDEST to deal with?
so, yall send this question to yalls guy, (or pen pal, loved one, friend, family member, or whom ever it may be that is on the inside that you have a relationship with) so they can answer it . You can go ahead and answer it for you now, but don't forget to come back and post Their answer to this question. and remember to have yalls men(pen pal, friend, ect) to send what they want to post on their own too* along with their answer of course also* i think this will be pretty neat.. it can be about Anything. I can't wait to see what everyone comes up with.
He sent along his Answer which said, The thing he values most in the relationship is the Level of Trust that is shared. Knowing that i'ts never bullshitting each other, or keeping secrets, or haven things that could never be shared with each other. KNOWING the other is always there. Always will be.
The hardest to deal with... is knowing :heart: deserve the World, but not being able to give it. Not being able to SHOW what :heart: really mean to him, haven to Love with Words, when Words will Never express it the way he feels it.
my answers would be, The hardest part to deal with is , knowing no matter how hard i pray,wish, cry,be strong, hope,dream,want, I can't get him out of that place!*one second Chance* is all that would be needed!
What i value the most is, our Bond. It's not something i can describe totaly, i'ts like a mesh of things, all combinded to form this Bond that we have. But to try to break it down, it's honesty.. being able to be open, being just who we are, and that being okay, and totaly accepted..knowen that we go back so far with one another, our Bond started long before we ever realy even knew and knowen it will Always be there, growing strong!
So .. now we got this started.. Lets keep it going, who is next??? yall don't leave me hangin out to dry!

Well, he says he values our true freindship most. Many people use the word freind too freely and he said that it means the world to him to know that in me he has true loyalty which is what real freindship is about. He said the hardest thing in our relationship is to be away when things for me get hard. he wishes he could be here most in times of need to help me out and pick up some slack.
I would say my answeres are pretty much the same. I also find it extremely difficult sometimes to enjoy moements that should be happy because I am too busy being envious of others who can be with their loved one everyday in a normal environment.

Thanks girl for yalls responce... Did you ask him if he has a Question that he wants all of us to answer? what about anyone else? any other questions, or responces?