I couldn't believe it when my man wrote to be about his social visit with his Lt. on duty. See i was a CO and when my man in khakis and I realized how we cared about each other someone up there did too and I got fired. Well, we have been having one heck of a time trying to get visits. The Lt who escorted me out of the state pen had a social chat with my man last weekend and asked how I was doing and how our relationship was doing. He gave us his sincere hopefullness in getting our visits and hoped that my man gets out early for good behavior. I wish this Lt. Would climb up the chain a little quicker. I respected this Lt the most of my shift. He was fair to staff and to the inmates. Him asking about me really made me feel good and having my man tell me that he said "if she were to pick an inmate she couldn't have picked a better man" So, I just had to share this with everyone. Its not everyday that you get something nice from from inside staff. Made me smile. And we all know, we could all use that a little more! So, Hope everyone has a great night. Just wanted to share!!!!

Wow, that is really nice! So glad you shared this little tidbit with us! :)

Thanks for sharing....we don't hear enough about the C/O's who are there for more than a paycheck. I love hearing stories like this!!

mrs. d

in all things....there is HOPE!!!

kath

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Have you received your visits yet?I know in TDC that you have to wait 1 year after being unemployed by system before you can visit.Then they list you as friend,Non contact visit. But wala Proxy and its on they can't stop you from contact visits.Yes there are still a few people whom I worked with who ask me how me and my husband are doing.Were great been a rough road but he gets home in 2004 sooner if I can figure this A B C credit stuff out,Thats another story.You keep your head up.I meet the greatest Love of my life in prision and I would not change a thing.

Actually I found out yesterday that I am going to get approved on my next visit request app. The states ombudsman called my man and in return I called himt o hear him say it too, but he talked the warden of my old facility to let me in to visit my man. I am so exciited, nervous as hell but ready!!!

wonderful able to talk the warden into something must be great. glad you have friends on the inside!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's so great it's working out for you to visit! Congrats!

Deb

that's great!

It is good to hear that there are a select few that work at the prisons that actually care about their job and not just there for a check and benefits. Thank you for sharing and enjoy your visit!!

Becki