Hey ladies...well it sure has been a minute but here we are. I thought we could all come in here and catch up, especially the wifeys that we truly haven't seen in a while.

I'll catch up first...life has been good, no drama in my relationship and prison will be a thing of the past in 24 days!! Yeah that's right...did I say how many days on PTO??? LOL....I am not having a countdown thread so I'm hoping that this meeting spot can still help pass the days with laughter and love.

A special shout out to my ladies....cause you know I love you!!! Has, LanaJo, Irsh, ACarter, Jojo and Treys....ya'll are my ninjas for reals!!!

Glad to be the second to post..... Thank You for starting a Thread for us Screams.....I mean can I honestly say How I am honestly feeling with out getting Ostracized?? really really can i?? lol...Haha..Thanks for sending me the link....And thanks for being my friend Girly....
Ok enough with all the mushy stuff...I think Im glad to be back!!!

wooooooooohooooooooooo.....girl you need to take down that CFW crap!!! LOL....can you really tell me how you feel? LOL. I can say waves and not get in trouble...LOL. OMG...too funny!

Girl how about after I posted I saw it...and I shook a little..lmao...we march to the same tunes..how crazy

I LOOOOOOOVE YOU! LOL....I love PTO cause when I'm in this thread I can see who's in it...can't wait to see who shows up.

She's baaaaaaaaaaack!!! Thanks so much for starting this Deb!!!

Will the REAL Fed WIfeys please stand up, please stand up!!!

well alright then Mrs. Carter is in the house!!! Let the party officially start!!! It's strange a little knowing that it's drama free....

Hi billydakari....

Here I am!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

Please note my second baby daddy - lmao. Don't even try it CS you know whats good. hahahaha

Whats poppin today wifeys?

Yes Cs... its official I am here! Lets start this thing off right

wait a minute....who is that???? Dr. Bush? omg, he's so dreamy....he sooooo dreamy. but I don't think I'll be thinking about him in 23 days!!!! woooohooo....23 is Michael Jordan's number and I love him too!!! Not that he's super hot he's just super sexy....nice shoulders.

Oh yeah... 23 days to go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


WOOHOOO!!!!!!!!! Girl you are almost there!

Can someone please tell me if you like these boots for Trey?

http://www.timberland.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2561560&cp=1779791.1761081.1761136&parentPage=family

He likes to have the latest styles and I get a serious discount through someone that works there. Do you think they are stylish or too much?

Me personally... I like em. I even like that outfit on the side but minus those other boots!!! I love Timberlands

ummmm....I'm not liking them too much but if he likes it then go for it. I don't have to wear them! LOL....hahahahahahaha

Timberlands are his thing, he doesnt owns one pair of sneakers. LOL and he never even wears them. When I looked at his boots the other day, they all are looking worn and shabby and I know he isnt going to want to put them on his feet when he comes home.

Wow Deb - you are almost in the teens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOO HOOOOOOO

I Like the plain ones E...lol...and who is ya First baby Daddy T.I?? I like me beats down Low...Id like him down low..real low..haha Let me go look at some Timbs and see what I come up with..You Know thats all Our dudes sport..well they do Vasquez too brb

Yeah you would lay it back with him huh? LOL...I'm diggin' T.I. his voice is sexy!!!

LaY it Back Front to da left to da left..lmao...hes a shorty but have you peeped his fingaz...lmao

Hey Kitty Kat ...what it do Pimpin!!

Ok, so since I didn't go to work today but now that I've called in I'm feeling better...I'm thinking of waiting for the mail then go shopping downtown...what????? Debbie shopping...don't faint Has!!! I went to Target last night to get his belt and wife beaters but they didn't have wife beaters in his size. So I just got a belt and a case and charger for his ipod. So I'll go downtown and probably find a cheaper belt and return the one I got yesterday and I know I'll for sure find his size wife beaters and maybe something for myself....

Has....what was the name of that cologne????

Has you are off the chain! I love ya girl



Deb... Target is my favorite store in the whole wide world. Oh yeah, I am supposed to be coming to CA in the summer... I'll have to holla atcha if you ain't laid up!!!!!! LMBO

I wanna kiss you everywhere between yo knees and waist
Hear the sounds that you makin, get yo knees to shake
Holla at me in the A, you feel you need to escape


Do he hit it from the back and make you feel it yo chest
Take advantage of what your concealing in yo dress
What, he think he too fresh to show that you the best
Compliment you on your intellect and treat you wit respect
Give you sex till you sweat, tongue kissing on yo neck
It's been awhile since she got it like this I bet
I can tell you ain't just another bitch I met
Ain't nobody got me open like this, not yet


HAHAHAHAH

Treys....you are too much....I could only ever understand part of it...but now my panties are getting wet!!!! LOL.

Izzy Miyake..I dunno how to spell it but that is my panty dropper..all Has has to do is walk past me....My kitty purrs..lol....

T.I.'s voice is oooohh...and when he folds his lip in..hahaha its a wrap

well, that song is about me --sorry CS.

And he can fold his lips around me ANYTIME...


LMFAO JK

Good mornin friends. Thanks for the link y'all. I'm baaack!

Hey Irsh!! Good to see you back!

OOOOH... Issey Miyake is an INSTANT panty dropper! John Paul Guettere is too but I know I am not spelling that right

YEAH JPG is good too...There is another one but i cant think of the name..Img oing to look In Has box later and tell you...Oh BLue Jeans is good to By Versace

A.Carter you are a mess..the only Fat thing on you is ya a$$...and aint no man I know complaining about that..and from the pic you sent me that you sent The real AD Hes is definately Pleased..and I mean that in a non Lezzie way of course..haha

Look at all our Guests..lol...I wonder if one is purple

Twinny, watch out or you will get a poopy email! LOL. Purple is lurking! Heehee.

Ok I remembered the other Cologne is Black by Kenneth Cole...thats also a really really good Panty melter..lol

I am screaming. Has you know I am trying to be funny!!! LMBO for real

LOL...well I guess she wasn't a REAL wifey...LOL....hahahahahahahahaha....don't come in here if you can't be real...if you want advice post it but be ready for it to be real, love is love and I love you ladies and I will tell you it real even if it might hurt a little, even if I have never been in your boat...I still have a thought on everything....I'm not gonna dig for info but if it's out there expect us all to keep it real....so the ones that aren't REAL don't post expecting us to be fake...take a look and move on....6 guests....hmmmmm....NICE!

A.Carter i am a lil slow sometimes but today is not that day..lol.. I know you were being funny I just had to bring it up because i just noticed it.

I Love you Too Screams!!!

LOL I am off to lunch. See ya'll in a bit

P called...I got busted for not being at work!!! LOL...hahahaha, I said I'm sick...he said you don't sound sick....LOL...hahahahaha, I said yeah I'm SICK of work!!! LOL and those chickens there....thank goodness we have this to escape to now, so no chickens at work or on the net today!!!

But I just have to say I love my man...he so sweet...he sounds so good!!! I can't wait till he comes home cause I'm missing him like crazy!!!

I love you Twinny! I love you too Deb! Mental health days are good! AC-muah! Enjoy your lunch. Jojo--you are my steel ninja as well.

I'm gonna jump in the shower and wash my crunch and fabulous hair...then hopefully the mail will be here and then I'll go shopping...issy miaky?

Issy Miyake something like that....And go head girl wash that Crunch.lol...air it out...how about when i was home the day cause i was suspended..lol..Gosh I felt like i was in the time out seat

Hi Twinny! You take care of your crunch last night? LOL.

Love You Too Twinny!!!

Lmao...I sure did..I was jamming to Lloyds "You" in the shower..I have heard that song probably like 600 times and im not tired of it...I dunno its something about always gets me grooving...

I stand in my bathroom mirror and dance and say this is what I am going to do when i go out for my Bday..lmao...Like how old am I?? Or In Honor of Our Decept that is TEARING UP TEXAS..How Old Im Is?? hahaha

So I was thinking I want to go dancing for my Bday but then again Im thinking about being out that late and I want to (yawn) lol...Then I hear Has in my ear saying " you can't just sit around the house doing nothing" but I am content with that..at least for now...Dinner and Shopping would suffice..what do you ladies think??

It is Hailing like crazy outside

well ladies...I'll be back later...but I just wanted to ask if you guys have any strange habits cause I have one...when I wash my hair, I run my hands thru my hair to get the strands that are coming out then I stick them to the shower wall and I keep doing this until everything is rinsed out of my hair then I make the hair into a ball and throw it into the trash....well I used to keep them to compare to see if I lost more hair one day than I did the day before but I stopped doing that....I'm nuts right? But at least my drain isn't clogged!!!! LOL.

Girl....go get your groove on!!! You'd be surprised at how little yawning you will do when you are out dancing. Music and dancing frees the soul...I hope when you are on the cruise you hit up the club on the ship and do the freaky deeky....LOL...hahahahahahaha....if you lived in CA I'd drag you out!!!!

http://www.drjays.com/shop/G1-V2917-R319-N4/timberland.html

E check some of these out

Buy some new shoes Twinny and go dance!!!!

Ok...when I am washing my hair i pull the loose hairs and i do throw it on the wall till im finish....I notice that when I am in the shower I wash my navel really hard so it just about hurts every night..lol

OMG dont say Buy Shoes while Debbie is in the room..lol

LOL Has!! I am speechless! Heehee.
BUY SHOES TWINNY!! BUY SHOES!!!

I love Buying shoes...hell I love shopping...I remember when I didnt have much of anything....Back in The BD days...I had what he bought...gosh what a life..lol....

You have come up Has! I am proud of you. Muah!

I want to say that I also am Proud of myself but that May sound like im trying to say I am "better" than others.. lol...so I'll say Thank You Twinny

LOL!! Well I am proud of you too and that is REAL!! But, you know people might disagree cuz obviously being a rider for 25 years makes ya fake! Heehee.

Just wanted to say hi!! Peaches and cream ladies!

HEY LADIES !!!!!

Good to see everyone, as usual I see I'm late!! lol

We've been erased out of existance on the other site, whats up with that? Everything, I mean EVERYTHING is gone. So sad to see so many hours disappear <poof> into nothingness.

Well, good to see everyone!! Love you ladies!!! Gotta work, but ITS FRIDAY !!!! yeah buddy!!!

I am kinda happy that everything is gone... Don't need nobody sending our pics to their pen pals pretending that we are them! LMBO let me stop

I am back from lunch now!

We wouldn't want to scare anyone away by sending the wrong pictures. Some of us are just so darn cute anyway

AManda thats Nykki.I told you she wasnt happy in her skin so she had to go and change it so others didnt know who she was.I peeped that months ago...you know that crazy chic who thinks that people go around one upping themselves trying to make them or their relationships sound/look better....Basically because she hasnt had a real one...

Its sad even when ya BD wont even FLUCK you twice...Talk about stick n move..I tell ya

Oh that's big mama... oh I see. yeah she doesn't like the skin that she is in... bless her heart!

Oh and Carter A fat Assa and A FLAT asssa is No comparison.. Fa realz

Anyway...this is not what we are about...I say ignore the "mule" we didnt come in here to get into BS....We came to chat with our Friends....so I would utilize the ignore feature we were built with.

Okay I'll stop

OTRA !!!!! The Oracle has joined us!!!

Hi ladies, whoa is all Im gonna say and leave it at that. Then I'm gonna sprinkle my Oracle dust and chase away any blues and funk that is troubling us. Wishing everyone a blessed weekend.

I've written something for CSM's P, feel free to add to it ladies so that he sees there is support for the two on them as they are about to travel down a new path in this journey.

CSM this is for P. Wanted to sends congrats on making it thru and soon you will be starting the second part of your BOP journey. My prayers and postive thoughts sent your way for a smooth transition. Having someone supporting and rooting for you in your corner makes this journey so much easier to endure, in Deb you have this. Making you a very blessed man indeed.

I've spent many an evening in chat with her, though I may have come into the room feeling alone and sad in time I knew she would have me laughing. It helped me pass my time waiting for my turn to have my hubby back home with me. I'll always hold those times close to me and it brings a smile to my face thinking about it. May you be blessed with the sound of her laughter in your ears and heart for many years to come.

There may be times when the whole hwh stuff gets to you and under your skin, please try to remember its " but for a short time" that you will be there. It was something I used to say to hubby when it was all getting to him. Many postive thoughts for a job that you will like and be happy at coming your way quickly. For this is the ticket to getting your life back in order and those precious home passes then home confinement.

The second part of the journey will be the home confinement, please remember what I've told all the ladies, PATIENCE will be your best friend. Though it can be overbearing and hard at times to deal with, it is DOABLE!!!! Been there, done it with hubby and made it thru, so can you!!!! Keep the faith, life does have a way of turning around and being happy once more.

Whatever path the two of you travel in life may it be blessed with much sunshine, good health and much happiness filled with love to the brim for many yrs to come. At the end of the day that's really all that matters in life, being happy and happy for those that mean the world to us. Have faith that all will turn out good, alot of people out here are rooting for you both. Otra

OTRA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hey there. Good to see you. That is beautiful!

Amen to that!! Can I just say -- ditto and sign name too Deb? lol

I think that was perfect Otra. Thanks for putting it so eloquently for all of us.

OK...Oracle you made me cry...lol.....Debbie was so upset that she wasnt there to actually view it..altho you sent it to her....And from me until she gets here..lol... I have to say Thank You on her behalf.....Thats My Ninja right there.....

And I so Ditto Two like JoJo..another Beautiful lady.....

Thanks for sprinkling that Oracle Dust on it....The devil is working hard...but TRUE LOVE amongst friend can never be destroyed...Ya Heard!!!

Deb N P sitting n a tree kissing...first cums lub then cums marriage then come these cackling kids with Fabulous Hair..lmao

Aww thanks JoJo

Hey there Acarter lifting grandma up in prayers and sending postive thoughts her way.

Okay now I'm asking ya all to indulge me with putting on my mama's hat. Please remember first and foremost we are all LADIES!!!! Nuff said.

When I'm angered I can get and be one of the nastiest witches around but there's a time and place for it and here isn't it, okay?? Okay taking off the mama hat now, lol. Thanks for not giving me the evil eye for that, its much appreciated.

LOL Has, yep Deb's kids will have marvelous hair styles no doubt about it!!!

Ok this has nothing to do with this but i had to share...this customer just called and said that there was a fire in her building and her apt was TOTALLY burned so she was calling to close her acct until she found another place to live...and I have to ask when I am closing an acct is there a fwding address they may want the bill sent to...and She sighed and was Like....I dont know yet....I dont have a place to live...

So I have to say I am SOOOOOO grateful for my Apt that I complain about...lol...but i am glad that I can provide and have a safe haven for me and my babies

Amen Has, puts our lives into perspective doesn't it?? Prayers for this lady being sent out.

Oracle I totally agree..thats why I said what I said up there...I know sometimes its hard but really its not worth it...Some of us cant email at work so its great to have a mutual meeting spot..and I guess this is it..its where we all started with each other and where it should end....I mean our friendships will always be....ya know what i mean..lol

I love life!! After all, the alternative is kinda scary!!

60 million containers of pet food recalled

Store brands sold at Wal-Mart and Safeway tied to kidney failure, deaths

The specific brand names wont be available until tomorrow...

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17650075/ news story
http://www.menufoods.com/recall/ mfgr. posting

9 people in here and no ones posting...hmmm..... well I will......
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Sixth grade science teacher, Mrs. Parks, asked her class, "Which human
Body part increases to 10 times its size when stimulated?"

No one answered until little Molly stood up angrily, and said, "You
Should not be asking sixth graders a question like that! I'm going to
Tell my parents, and they will go and tell the principal, and you'll
Get fired!"

She sat back down.

Mrs. Parks ignored her and asked the question again. "Which body part
Increases to 10 times its size when stimulated?"

Little Molly's mouth fell open, and she said to those around her, "Boy,
Is she gonna be in big trouble!"

The teacher continued to ignore Molly and asked the class, "Anybody?".

Finally, Jimmy stood up, looked around nervously, and said, "The body
Part that increases to 10 times its size when stimulated is the pupil
Of the eye"

Mrs. Parks said, "Very good, Jimmy." Then she turned to Molly and
Continued, "As for you, young lady, I have three things to say: First,
You have a dirty mind. Second, you didn't read your homework. And
Third, one day you are going to be VERY, VERY, VERY disappointed!!!"

LMAO ..that was cute JoJo....omg...You wanna know something i didnt know that the size was a big deal until after I had my kids..lmao...Thats why I tell My BD it must have been love..I mean there are smaller dudes then he BUT for him to be as big as he is...He sure has some smalllll feet...lol..

Hey NIna B!! Welcome!!

Ok this Is "P's" shout out!!! lol

It's been quite a road trip for you that I can't even begin to imagine, but I Like my Ninja Deb have been walking right along side my Baby. So I know what and How she is feeling. Im ecstatic that its almost over for you both. Now is the beginning of the rest of your lives. You get a second chance at so many things, life, career, hobbies and the ever so popular LOVE. Okay wait I forgot Sex..hahaha nah really. This your chance to do over all of those things you may have thought of doing differently. And because of the man I have learned you to be through Your Fabulous haired woman. You will do it, and You will succeed!!!

You have a very smart, talented, quick witted, sensitive and loud woman (hahaha) that has been your support. I wish the two of you a rich and fulfilling Life, an abundance of Love, healthy family and every and anything you have planned for yourselves..

Welcome Home P!!!!!

Has -- I'm Verklempt !! That was good!

treys, c's- what it do my soldierette mami's......lol.....

AC/has/jo/otra- ya'll are not on but i gots to show my love glad to be away from all the BS......thanx for pullin me into the "realest" club alive....my CFW sign died today.....lol

by the way treys i'm feelin the timbos.......i loooove em......
and deb- you go momma 23 daayyyzzz and you gone get that azz waxed....lol

REAL as opposed to FAKE fed wifey's?????

ok...I'm crying....LOL...thank you ladies so much. It really means alot to me and I'm sure will mean alot to "P" too!

((((((((((((Otra)))))))))) I think it was you that brought me out of the blue that I was in...you made me feel welcome and not so alone....you helped me thru some rough patches....and instead of telling me not to worry sometimes you made me worry more! LOL...days before my first visit you tell me not to wear an underwire bra and I just about died. I'm so thankful for you....THANK YOU for all the laughs and all the love and most of all the inspiration that has helped me thru and helps me see into the future and past HWH and Home Confinement because I know you and Mr. Otra made it thru too.

Has...Am I that loud??? LOL...Thank you also for your kind words. You know I love you bunches and bunches. You have been a great friend, someone to cry to, to laugh with and to argue with but it's all real and it's all love. Thank you for being excited for us and with us!!!

I will print this out and send it to P as I am sure he will appreciate it very much. I know he already appreciates that I have friends like you. I know he likes ya'll better than the chickens at work. I hope he'll have something to say personally in reply to you all!!!!

Venice....real in a sense that we keep it real...no frontin' or fakin' which some of us have experienced lately.

Well i guess i qualify then.... Those of you who have read my posts know - i'm not the sugar coating type!

Girl - you know I had to crash the fed party. I am SOO excited for you, you can't even imagine how nice it is to be on the same side of the razor wire - YET. Soon, my friend, soon.

God bless - ENJOY - and DISH!

Hey ladies! I enjoyed reading all the supportive posts cuz that is what it is supposed to be about. Otra, I always enjoy and am humbled by all of your posts. Thank you for being you. Twinny, I am so glad you shared that story about your customer. She is in my prayers. I, as usual, am at peace because I am working tonight and have dealt with death and pain. I was able to give support (and meds!) to those who needed it. I think humility is such a wonderful thing and I know that all that junk is not important in my life. It is my family, my real friends, my precious patients, and of course God. I am so grateful for everything. Even that 25 years because he is alive and I will always be supportive, loyal, and faithful. I have been all my life to those I love and that will not stop just because he is away. True love is without end.

Hey Venice,,,,and Long Haul crashing parties is fun as long as you bring something...lol

OMG its 6:12 in the am I have to work in 3 hours and i am WIDE awake..lol...I was contemplating posting this crazy PM i got BUT...In the back of my head I am hearing the words of Our dear oracle...so im going to leave it their....

So through my eyes in came the evil and out my booty it goes with this horrible gassa I have...lol...Tuna with Eggs always does it for me...lol hahaha...

I guess im going to try to blend with my sheets for another hour cause i know when its time for me to get up im going to be sleepy....Lata Lovlies

Sorry Zo didnt mean to forget ya baby girl....XOXOXOXOXO

And You Too Twinny...I so agree...True Love isnt Boastful or Proud and can not be felt as long as their is HATE lingering in your soul....Im grateful for all I have...even My annoying BD..lol..Life is too short to be filled with regrets and even un happiness ..I know some times we feel down in the dumps but its temporary....I feel like altho Has is away I am happy...heck I know i am and I am fully responsible for it...Life didnt stop so why should I...Im just going at it alone for a lil while...The best part of it..is that we have each other...We RESPECT each other...without Respect where does Love fit? ok im rambling now...gotta go to bed..lol..talk to you lovelies Lady and Twinny enjoy work!!!

IM at work....(sigh)

THANKS Has!!!! For waking me up.....YAWN.....

Venice....girl I know you are really REAL...that's what I'm talking about...no sugar coating...if we put something out there then I want the realness back from anyone....not just someone that's exactly like me but all different kinds and I can take or leave what I want. It's good to have REAL wifeys in here.

LongHaul....LOL...girl I knew you would crash the party!!! LOL. You are my girl for reals and I'm so happy for you!!! He's home now right??? So I think it's you that needs to drop the dish!!! LOL.

Otra...thank you for telling us to keep it classy....I for once was keeping it in line cause you know how I can get....I did have to say my piece this morning but I kept it off here because I want this thread to be about love and peace, it's already stressful enough as it is without dealing with the drama of people that just can't be real...enough said.

Well ladies...I got the form yesterday after I got back from shopping and the letter with it was so sweet. So I packed the box but with the backpack, it's on the list so thank goodness I bought one when I was out shopping, that didn't fit....so I went and bought a new box but the one I got is too big...so back to the box store this morning to try again then off to the post office!!! It was strange packing the box, like wow, is this really happening? OMG...yes it is...I'm packing his clothes...it was nice.

I'm done shopping for him too!!! Unless I see something but really I'm done, I've gotten everything that was on my list to get so anything else is just extra. I tried out that Issy Myaki or whatever it's called it was nice but then I just had to smell the perry ellis and it just transported me back in time, back into his arms and I just had to get it. I smell it and I'm with him....I don't care that it's old school...why should I listen to Sammie??? I didn't LOL.....I clowned her that day when she tried to tell me what to get...I said...ummm...when was the last time you bought a man cologne? Then I said do the dudes you hook up with actually wear cologne? I doubt it....they probably still rock Drakkar. LOL....hahahahaha. So anyway, I sprayed some on my arm and there I was on the freeway with my arm wrapped around my face smelling my man...I sprayed his clothes that I'm sending....sigh....22 days..22 days...22 days...22 days...OMG OMG OMG....O M G....LOL. really OMG, 22 days, WTF???? that's so nothing...holy crap....22 days...22 DAYS....I'm nervous, excited...worried and all that....but most of all and most importantly I am HAPPY!!!

Awwww Sorry I woke you up..lol....But i shouldnt have been the only one up this morning..hahaha...Im Happy Your Happy..lol

G'Morning BoFlip!!!! I like that name...whats it mean?

FIRST CORINTHIANS 13:4-8

LOVE is PATIENT; LOVE is KIND; It does not ENVY; It does not BOAST; It is not PROUD; It is not RUDE; It is not SELF SEEKING; It is not easily ANGERED; It keeps NO record of WRONG; LOVE does not delite in EVIL but does REJOICE with the TRUTH; It always PROTECTS; Always TRUSTS; Always HOPES; Always PERSEVERES; LOVE NEVER FAILS.

I'm gonna go with that!!!!

I did it in orange in Honor of Otra....

Has...did you get my e-mail....I edited it.....

where did u email it??

Happy St. Patricks Day!!!

I guess ya'll can be Irish like me and Irsh today!!!! LOL. So I'll be sending you all some blood pudding today k? LOL. So in honor of my Nana, my Irish blood I will post the blessing that was on the back of her funeral card, I know you've heard it before but it never gets old to me. Happy St. Patricks Day Nana!!! I love you!

An Irish Blesssing
May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the sunshine warm your face
And until we meet again

May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

where did u email it??

to your j o b

Nah Man I didnt get it...You are hardheaded..lol...where did i say to send it..i could have read it already sheesh....are you not sleepy again yet??

I Miss Laney I hope she is having a Fabulous time..Im going to text her!

Happy St.Patty's Nana!!!

I have on My green and My Kiss Me Im Irish Beads...lol

My Great grandPapi's name was FitzPatrick...lol...What do they say for short??lol

Ok, ok, I'll PM you.

I talked to Laney like 3 times yesterday...she got to town around 7pm or so...long freakin' drive right?....then the last I talked to her they were getting ready to go out and get tattooed then go to some bars!!! I'm trying not to think about it so I don't worry cause you know me, I worry like crazy about the people I love.....

I don't have to wear green today cause I'm always Irish....

And NO girl I am not back asleep cause you woke me up....I can't go back to sleep now till after I get a new box and get this package sent....then I can take a nap and dream about my man putting on those clothes and how HOT he's gonna look!!! He's so handsome!!!

what does who do for short?

I sent it...check it!

This Lady was BUGGING me about wearing green Shes Irish...so if i didnt come in with it today I would have been hung lol....
And all of the Irish people that will be partying at the limelight for the rest of the weekend will be sporting green beads so u can be irish and wear green ..dont start..lol

omg...sigh...yes Irish people wear green too....but they also get a pass if they don't.....don't get me started....LOL.

I just Pm'd You Back...lol...

Girl I am wishing i didnt come to work...i mean Ill be happy when I get my check..lol...altho I was suspended for a day I still got a raise last week...lol..does that make anysense?? but im not complaining..thats the only thing i love about my job..frequent raises and anytime OT and my benefits of course...Well and the fact that I have a job..so let me stop..lol

This morning while i was getting dress I was looking at the documentary they made after Hurricane Katrina. and you know I was crying...This guy hes an actor I dont know his name but he was in waiting to exhale the chubby dude that was messing with the Pretty girl Sunshine..ANyhoo he was born and raised in the New Orleans and his Dad who was in the war purchased the home he grew up in with his last $10...in the 1940's...SO when Katrina Hit they went to see the insurance dude (they had Allstate) they told him they would send him one check for $670 and another for $460 and $40 a day for the time being out of the house but only up to a certain amt of days....His House was WRECKED like many others..what was he going to do with a lil over $1100...The Actor was like I could care less about the house...he could purchase another for his dad BUT he remembers being lil and his father was so proud to come home to him and his momma and say he just purchased a home for them...So his dad who is hard of hearing didnt hear much of what the Insurance dude was saying so when they were leaving he turned to the insurance dude and said just remember to be fair cause I know u will...When they reached home the Guy told his dad that they werent paying up...and the old man said why didnt you tell me when we were there I would have killed him..lol..His son told him I know dad I know..He said the hurt in his eyes was something he will always see....
His closing remarks were your NOT in good hands with Allstate..lol....A tree fell on the shed in the back yard..totally demolished they said they wouldnt give them money for it because it was "fixable"...Unbelievable...

I know that Debbie...Your the worse..lol

G'Morning Twinny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It says there are 3 Members but i can only see 2 but no guests

I've seen that and you know I cry too and then I get really angry!!!! I'm not even gonna get started on that stuff....just a mess....a complete mess.

invisible!

Hey ladies! How are you all doing? Okay I dont know what happened but I do know that I have no beef with anyone so I am going to be talking to you all no matter what. But anyways how is everyone doing? I have missed so much not being on in the past week!!!!!

Hey Ellis...no beefs here...yet...LOL....just kidding. How are you? Is your man federal??

Hi Ellis.....GoodMorning...No beefs..as a matter of fact I think were in need of some beef...if Ya catch my drift..lol..Hows the weather in N.C??

Where's the BEEF?

Haha remember that commercial....

Im getting a headache...maybe i need to see a neurologist....what if i have a tumor or something

Good mornin Twinny! Good Mornin CSMC! Good Mornin Ellis!
Has...I am at work too right now. I had to attend a death this morning and am trying to finish up the paperwork! I cannot talk about Katrina cuz you know I used to live in New Orleans and I get sooooo upset. I check my PM.
csmc...22 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! O! M! G! Yea! I am so happy for you both! Muah!
Ellis...It is good to see you. How are things?

Sweetness (a/k/a Has), you don't have a tumor. I love you. I will send you some helpful info on headaches if you want.

Lol....Thanks Twinny I know I am being dramatic but two young people I knew complained of headaches and major pressure one went to the hospital when he couldnt take it any more he never came home...he had an anneurism(sc) and the other get help in time but he had a tumor..so that freaks me out..I have been having headaches for Months...And I want to go to the Dr. but then what if they tell me that..9 times out of 10 i wont be cured

Go to the Doctor. The fear of the unknown is worse than the actual event. I support you Boo.

I just sent you a PM back Twinny

I thought you went to the doctors? We thought my sister had a tumor once cause she was in complete pain, migraine for days and she was screaming it hurt so much...so they ran a ctscan and there was nothing, she just gets migraine...she had a headache the entire time she was pregnant...but couldn't take anything that helped...some people are just prone to headaches...I had one yesterday...but if you feel something is wrong you HAVE to go to the doctors....jeez...now I'm worried about you again....

Interesting seeing ya'll back around, always hopping full of energy.

Anyhow...I see some wondering about seeing members and guest viewing...well I must be one you can't see as I have myself blocked from being viewed on the list. Chalk one of the unknowns off...I pop in from time to time!

Curious...you are missing one or two wifeys that were quite active in past post. Can only imagine the drama you all must have landed in where ever you chose to hang out! But on the real...I'm one who is glad to see you all back around! And also...I think we all know that no matter where we land in life, we will always have something fake around us! Even here...but whats new!

Can not remember which one of you helped me out with some information on one of the federal locations not long ago...but just wanted to thank you again! Still waiting to find out whats gonna happen but something will change soon enough!

Glad you are back!

Hey Kintml2u....it's great to see you!!! LOL thanx for dropping in...LOL, you cracked me up with your post, yeah you can only imagine this kind of drama but it's all good....yeah I have fake people around me daily...I just choose not to deal with them on my personal time. How are things going with you? What are you waiting for to happen?????? Is it something good?

Hey Kint it was Me who helped with the Facility...lol... How are things?? and did he get switched?? I thought of you the other day when Has told me that they are switching wardens(which should have happened this past week)and that there is talk of them removing the weights...But I didnt have your emaill addy anymore and I hadnt been back to PTO yet....
Glad To see You Too!!! And thanks for the welcome back!!!


Oracle...GoodMorning...I see ya Down there..Im gald to see you two days in a row..lol...we need ya!!

Hi kintml2u! Good to see you.

Happy Sat all. Got a few minutes so wanted to wish everyone a great weekend.

CSM, only a couple more days, then the TEENS are on!!!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!
And yippee to mailing the home coming clothes, this is a special day indeed.

Has, I agree with Irsh and CSM go get checked out. Had a friend who suffered for yrs from migraines nothing helped. It turned out one of her teeth was the problem all along. So it could be something simple. Take care of you.

Hey Kin, yep these ladies do keep the room hopping don't they?? lol

Hi Bella, good to see ya stop on in, Getting some Zo love today are ya???

Hi Ellis, don't think I know ya, welcome to the zoo as we call it sometimes.

Okay time to get my butt moving here and get some things done. Soon hubby will be back from the dreaded home depot, lmao.

PS thanks so much ladies for the kind words and lets show the love around here. Time and life is too darn short for hatin and ugliness.

As you can see by my join date above...I've been around PTO for some time! Actually, will most likely be around until this timer below comes down unless the powers of the universe choose otherwise. Prior to PTO, I was with other smaller groups and the shish some people come up with is trifling! A great positive about this place is...as far as federal information and those dealing with it is concerned, there is really no other place like here. Like in your everyday life...you can choose not to deal with them no matter where you are! I do too! :p

Things are going good. Still waiting on the downward security move and it shouldn't be long. We started this bit out on a meduim level, went up to the high where he seemingly got stuck...and been doing time hard since that move. I'm ready for the cruise...so ready!

otra!!!!! Muah! Good to see you! I love Home Depot! LOL.

kin--I will keep you on my good thoughts list! Hopefully they will get on the move! Is he high security still?

ontheroadagain...LOL, it actually says the whole thing...I forget sometimes, it's been otra for so long. HI otra...can you believe we are all on here on a Saturday morning??? what's wrong with us????

LOL CSM, well at least we are among those that care for each other right??

Now I really got to get my butt in gear. Love to all. Be back on Monday.

Kint...are you going on a cruise too? Has is going on one in a few weeks!!!

22 days???? what?

Otra I smile knowing that he is coming back from the Home Depot...so you can work on home improvement together....sigh....so glad he's home!

lmao...I'll never keep up with you all, so I'm not even gonna try!

Has...I thought it was you but my mind is incarcerated! :p Thanks girl! No move yet but hopefully it's between the couple we hope for in the northeast area. Minor setback...all cleared up and just waiting on redesignation.

I haven't even hit the reply button yet but feel I'm behind! lmao...

Kint...since we last spoke we had a points reclassifciation and hes now qualified for a low...but had to put in a verbal management to keep him there for at least 18 months because there was no openings where he wanted to go..so he signed up for this class...no sooner than he did that they started shipping people there..lol..and he has to finish the class and he says they are full..But I know that they are about to ship a bunch of people from the facility he wants to go to..simply because I read one of the letters his boy sent him..lol....yes im a wee bit nosey..lol....its crazy tho cause id rather him stay where he is..but as he said "Ma Im going to be alright wherever they send me, Trust That" You know they are such big boys..lol...Whatever!

LMAO@ Kint you keep up just fine..lol..Yeah Im going on a cruise in a few weeks and Lord Knows I cant wait...I want to sink my feet in the sand...And feel the warm beach air whipping my sarong..LMAO @ Me....My hair is falling out ..thats how bad i need to go...lol...

And Deb you know I would be half sleep if I was home..lol

Oracle I LOVE home depot..its such a great place...lol...Hubbies got a great interest...and I know it probably disturbs you that hes doing the repairs..hhahaha but I Like Deb am Happy that hes there to do them and I know you are too!!
Is he washing his own draws yet??lol...Have a GoodWeekend!!

Yeah...we all have big-boys!

What happened to make all the populations in the mid atlantic and northeast regions jump in early Feb, do you know? Playing this ole waiting game (for the one who asked, currently he is still at high but scored at a meduim now) I've been following the weekly population...it was a noticable change.

Any downward level is a good thing, congrats! Who wouldn't take note of it..lol! Is the distance to the low favorable for you too?

No cruise for me...just a downward move out of the USP sets in as more of a controlled cruise then what high brings. Thats the cruise I'm talking about...setting up for cruise control to finish up this journey we've been traveling!

Kint--that's great for y'all.

Has--Live it up on that cruise for your vanilla Twinny over here. The only place I get to go is Colorado, if they ever get that visitation stuff finished! LOL.

csmc--do what? 22 days!! Yea!

The Low is closer to home and hes trying tomake it easier on me..being as to im the one who brings his mom and son and myself..lol..But its Ft.Dix and Ft.Dix is HUGE and i hear its like the hood...and I dont doubt him but i just feel more people in a confined area calls for anything...I know him and know what hes about but It bothers me none the less...

Well i know they did a sweep of re classifications and they opened up a few new facilities(one being in N.C.) and they are shipping people all over the place..Like a mass of groups were sent to GA the USP..they asked if they wanted to go...and some figured to break up the time theyd go to a different facility...lol..that cracks me up cause youd have thought they were going to a new country club...but from their letters they HATE it..lol..poor things...
But it may have a little to do with the up and down numbers..Its crazy cause all hes been thinking about since his reclass is Lobster and shrimp..hahaha...from the looks of your timer Kint we are close in time

Twinny you know I will...The best part will be buying the souvenirs..I love getting gifts for people..lol...and I have more people to shop for now..

I just want to post a break down of this "form" I got for his clothes....

1 pair of pants $30
1 shirt $30
1 undershiRt $10
1 pair of socks $10
1 pair of shoes $60
1 belt $20
1 jacket $60
1 duffle bag $30

they have it broken down like that with the prices....that's a total of $260. So I guess it is different at every facility...

Coming home...priceless.

ok, ok, I'm gonna go mail it...omg omg omg....yeah!!! wooohooo...I think it's fitting that I am sending Pat his package on St. Patricks Day!!! :) ok, let me not cry at the post office!

LMAO..Twinny you beat me to it..lol...

Deb so his stuff can total $260??

GoodMorning...or shall I say Now GoodAfterNoon JoJo!!!! lol..I just returned your PM.... Your A WOnderful Chica..Thats why Your JuanNOnly Loves you Mucho!! lol

Twinny--great minds think alike on the "priceless" LOL.

We are going to Have to make Jojo A decepticon...lol....#5 You gotta pick a name girl..lmao

Hilarious...that would be great. I know I am Astrotrain (heehee), but what are you again? I am extremely sleep-deprived right now.

I was just thinking what is my name..hahahahaha Im Shockwave!

Oooooh Yeah!!! LOL.

You should go to sleep Twinny....Do u have to work tonight?

I am officially leaving the office! I am on-call from 8am Sunday to 8am Monday. I am going to nap a little bit today! I love you Twinny!

Wow -- I've just been reading trying to catch up on all the posts!!!

Kint -- hey girl, congrats on the reclassification. I'm looking at close to the same time left as you too, so hope to be seeing you more.

Deb -- OMG OMG goin to the post office!!! I'm soo happy for you!!

Bella -- you made it girl, so glad!! I lub you ma!!

Ellis - hey girl.

Irsh- sorry I chatted your ears of last night. It wasn't just me, Bud Light helped!! lol

OTRA!! I knew it, I knew it -- Home depot!! Good seeing you this morning!

A decepticon??? moi???? I'm honored!! I have no clue what the names are!!

Hey jojo! It's cool! I enjoyed talkin to ya!

Hey roadie--I didn't mean to leave you out! You know I love ya!

I didn't say hey to Has -- I'm sorry girl! I think since I pm'd ya I already said hi, I'm not fully awake!! I know, I'ma lazy assa today!! Sorry you have to be at work.

I agree, you should go to the dr. to see about the headaches. Wouldn't it be a hoot if it was your tooth?

I gotta be more on the ball and start remembering new names again!!
I missed a couple from a few pages back, 'cuz my mind went blank. I wanted to say hello. More coffee!! lol

I'm back!!! LOL. Something nuts happened when I went to the post office but I'm not gonna put that out here....crazy!!! But the package is in the mail and I'm so excited about that 22 days!!! I can't wait for these days to pass so I can see him in those clothes smelling all good and ish....I'm so excited and I just can't hide it!

Hey Jojo...how are you doing this morning????

WOW. I bet you have butterflies dancing in your belly right now!! 22 days, thats less than I thought. All I can think to say is ... wow.

You mentioned Lana earlier, if you talk to her again, say hey. Did she tear up Texas last nite? lol

I have this shadow of a headache trying to start, danged Bud Lite!! But other than that, its ALL GOOD!! Getting ready to jump in the shower and head over to the parents house for a bit.

Thats Fine JoJo...Your my Peoples..lol...
And I hope its possibly just a tooth..You know I have never had any problem with a wisdom tooth or anything...

I Love you too Twinny and hopefully by the time im home your napping..lol..I have 1 hr n 2 mins to go...YEAH!!

Venice, Roadie and Ellis -- Hey ladies!! Ells you look familiar, glad to see you girl!!

I had this email message from Dell:
Shipping Method:Next Business Dayhttp://i.dell.com/images/global/general/spacer.gifShipped Date:3/16/2007http://i.dell.com/images/global/general/spacer.gifEst. Delivery Date:3/19/2007

YEA!!!!! It seems like 3 weeks I've been waiting on it, its only been 1!! hahaha

Im happy for You JoJo..have your kids been hogging the new one?

http://www.tfracetrack.com/instructions/g1/decepticon/

JoJo thats a listing of the decepticon names..lol....Laney Has Ravage...aww I hope she is having fun!!

Im going Home!!!! I may be going to the Gym Later...so Ill see ya later..if i can drag myself to the computer...

Love You Ladies!!!! AKA Rebels With A Cause!!!

Fort Dix...I just looked at that number the other day, it's more then a confined city! Over 4000...I'd be leary too! Thats the whole thing with this move...we still got this time left so he still wants to remain somewhat comfortable...thats why certain things when I emailed you were important but he is also trying to make some time easier on me. Working together is always a good thing! I think it may be the other though...not the one we spoke of. It's all good, within a couple hour drive would surely beat anything we've had this far! 5 1/2 was the shortest...and to think I once complained about that!

My ticker....add 6 months. It gives up when we reach HWH!

jojo ~ I've been around here for a while! Most likely will be for that (down below) much longer!

Get to the gym Has!

I picked a name. My daughter's nick name is "Naah" and my son's is "tater", so Nautilater kinda combines both.

kintml2u - I hope he moves somewhere close then, and somewhere he is comfortable. I guess it's worth the drive if he's not constantly looking over his shoulder 24/7.

I have a good 3½ years left to wait too, then I move south of the border, arrrrriva!! lol I try not to think about how much time is left though, I hadn't counted in several months, it only gets me depressed. So, I live as much as I can in the moment to help myself get by!

Kint Girl Im glad that you are here posting with Us!!!!

And I am making a Promise to you and me to be at the GYM bright n bushy tailed tomorrow...lol...I sent you a Lonnnnng Winded PM..hahaha

JoJo aka Nautilater...Welcome!!! hahahaha That kind of reminds me of Nautica....I cant seem to get shopping off my mind....And your doing great with your time JoJo...Thru this time you have been a Blessing and a honest to goodness Sweetheart and to feel that its authentic means alot...

You too Kint!!! You probably know more about us then we of you since you were in the "cut"..lol...But you've always been fair and give off goodvibes..

Thanks Ladies for being YOU!!

Oh yeah and Kint..its a Zoo in Ft.Dix....I hear its like "The Block" in there...dudes are Truly "flossing" like they are at home..lol...
And my worry is not Has its just sooo many people,,anything is bound to jump off..And as he says if he has to "punish" someone he will and I just dont want that affecting his points..So I dont mind driving 2 to 2 1/2 hrs...altho they are petty as hell there its not so bad...I mean I know i am not in but from what he tells me it could be worse....

Hey everyone! I am just stopping by too see what's going on!!!!! Has, I love the signature!

lol...my gym is closed on Sundays...so I have the day off, no guilt trips about it! But I will ask you tomorrow...hell, your paying for it, might as well use it! :p

Were..thats it! My opinion is solely my own...and not often agreed upon with others when you are talking larger numbers. I do piece together things...as you might see with some of my curiousity behind the door but I try to keep some things offboard!

Close...thats all I ask for! Well, for now anyways!

A Carter is in the house!!! You and Lana tear up the town yet? Take it easy on them!! lol

Awww Has, you helped me so much thru all this. Thats why y'all are my wifeys!! Go get some shopping done, and wash that hair!!! LOL

We did some yard work today. My kids complained saying I turned them into a couple little hoe-ers! lol They're nuts! Then, we had barbeque, now I'm ready for a siesta!!

Kint -I agree, it is the diversity and differences that makes a group unique. That is why it should be celebrated!! I think everyone has a special place in a group.

A.Carter what it do Miss New Booty!! hahaha...Did you get to see Laney yet??

JoJo you made me think of Laney just npw when you said your kids said you made them lil hoe-ers..lol...Laney said she was part jewish and nappahoe nappy-hoe..hahaha shes crazy..I Miss her!!!

Kint Im going to complain about how my legs feel like they are still moving while i sit on my couch,..hahaha...

Well I am about to make love to my pillow..lol...G'Nite Lovlies!!

Well its about 12:30 am here, so good morning to you all! I missed you all so much...BUT ITS ME TONYSWIFE...if you dont remember me since i have been gone forever, I am the one on house arrest.

Otra- Yes you do know me...Im TonysWife on the other forum

Irsh- Im glad to see you again! How you hangin? im still just sitting here everyday

Alright time to go to bed.....I will talk to you all when I get off work!!!

Hey tonyswife....LOL....hahahahaha, you have to tell us cause you know we know you as tonys...LOL...glad you found us mami!!!

I'm tired...been on the go most of the day and just got back from dinner and stopped at a bar where I watched my cousins drink...LOL...my cousins boyfriend kept saying to me...so you really don't drink at all????...and you are related to these to lushes??? LOL...yeah and I'm part Irish but I can't stand the spirits...yuck...I went thru my very first soberity checkpoint...and they put that ish out early...well they should since my cousins were at a bar at 8am...hardcore Irish right there...so the cop is all talking to me asking me like 3 times if I had had anything to drink...no sir...not me...so you know what he gives me...a drink coaster!!! LOL...WTF is that about...don't drink but if you do here's a coaster...LOL...too funny...I felt all anxious though like they were gonna pull out and ion scanner or something...LOL....that's the prison in my blood right there....

Jojo...I'm glad the new puter will get here sooner rather than later...your kids being hoes...that's funny!!!

Has...I love that feeling in my legs after I have exercised or walked hard...it's strange and I like it....you know that no matter where your man goes he's gonna do it right!!!!

Kint...I hope things start moving along for you and the thing you want to happen too....I'm so glad that you have been in here posting...it's always good to have the PTO vets around!!!

Irsh..how was your St. Patty's day? I was annoyed that it's just taken as a day to get drunk...it seems that it's only about that...maybe that's why I never really celebrate it that much. I can't be Irish...I don't drink whiskey or tea!!!

Well ladies...I'm gonna hit the hay...I have a date with the sleep fairy...Love you all!!!!

I see you Has....GOOD MORNING!!!!

Good morning Deb -- I see you down there too!!

Tonys, I thought that was you !!! Glad you made it!! Hope the world is treating you right girl.

Has - you must have been on early, I bet you were on your way to the gym -- such a good girl!! Not me, sipping coffee and trying to talk myself into going back outside to finish getting dandelions from back yard.

My friend here in town called me last night and told me she wants to go to lunch today. She will try to escape the clutches of her hubby for up to an hour (she's feeling suffocated right now) so we can go to lunch or something. I hope she can get away!! poor thing.

I have to agree with Csm...the way I feel after a good workout is actually part of what motivates me to push harder each time I walk through the front door of the gym. I do more then hope...you made like longggg journey to the gym this morning Has, :p As strange as it sounds to me, I just can't get the hang of a treadmill. I just feel like I'm holding on up top...and losing my bottom half! Any walking I do will be on still ground! Funny thing, I just read one of meowmachines post (I think it's her) where she talked about walking the track inside. I fear getting so use to walking and enjoying the different sites that I will end up 10 miles from home and not have the strength or feeling in my legs and feet to get me back home! :p

Hopefully...things will move along right on schedule this time. It wasn't nothing on his end that caused this minor setback but...we'll sit tight and wait for the bop to do their thing.

Thats the truth...just so many different types but each holds a value. Not all will be shared but it doesn't have to be. Thats what is beautiful, the differences! :p

Enjoy your Sunday Ladies!

IM Back from the GYM YEAH!!!! lol....Kint I just sent you my cool down PM..lol...I Was nervous..very nervous going in but i did it..lol...So the second time I should feel a lil better...I wore three shirts and they are soaked thru...lol....I feel like I did something....

TMI but my crunch is sore...lol

Hey JoJo...Im glad you are relaxing and enjoying your sunday..You deserve it...did the comp come??

Deb I know he will do it right...BUt You Know I Worry...sound like anyone YOU know??lol

Ellis...someone just asked me the othe day if You were Tonys..lol....I said ummm I dunno...Since I hadnt been on PTO in a minute I kind of forgot what some of the screen names here were

TWINNY.....Its about time for you to relax again...How was work?? Miss you!!!

A.Carter...You called me when i was "walking it out"..lol..NOrth side Walk it out..hahaha..Ill hit you up later on this evening..XOXOXO..

OK Im going to get my funky butt in the shower...Talk to you Lovlies Later have a Blessed Sunday!!

Oh..Hey DuneBUggy...

Hey y'all! Quick drive-by. I am at the office getting ready to go to a couple visits about an hour away, or so. Only 14 more hours to go! LOL. I have been hustlin since 8am and am off at 8am tomorrow. Sooooo. I will try to post later. Love you all! I'm off! No individual shout-out time! Sawwy!
Muah!
Okay Twinny, I just saw your post about your crunch! Heehee! You better wash that!!
Hey Ellis! I actually knew that was you from before! Missed ya!

Irsh- You better have known it was me...LMAO

Well how is everyone doing? I just found out some bad ish, I may have cervical cancer, so of course I am freakin out, but anyways I will find out for sure in 10 days, everyone please PRAY PRAY PRAY for me. I cant be 19 gettin a hysterectomy(however you spell it)!!!!

Ellis...you spelled it correctly! Did your PAP come back abnormal? It is not always cancer. Just sometimes an abnormal growth of benign cells. I will keep praying for you. Let me know if I can help at all.

Ellis...I will be praying for you, I'm sorry that you have to deal with something like this right now. I hope that everything is ok.

Irsh...you still at work? When do you hear about the new job?

Ok, I think it's really kicked in now that he's coming home. Sending the clothes really didn't have an affect on me, I didn't cry or get emotional. But yesterday I started to feel extra nervous then last night the dreams kicked in. Which is what I didn't want to happen. I have issues with my dreams especially ones that aren't so good and last nights wasn't. He was out I saw him then he went to HWH then he didn't call and I couldn't get in touch with him...it was just unpleasant and in kept waking me up. 20 days...I thought I was gonna breeze thru and not get worked up but I think that's about to go down the drain cause I already feel sick to my stomach!!!

Irsh- The pap came back abnormal and they said I have displagia. Then the other doctor said I have pre cancer cells so they did a biopsy Thursday and I will know more in about 10 days. They are pretty sure that it is cancer but if we caught it in time then she can treat and maybe just cut away a little of my cervix. I dunno, Im just waiting on the results. I am going to PM you about something I dont feel comfortable putting out in the open.

CSMC- It will be okay. You are supposed to feel like this, emotional, happy, butterflies, scared. i know I feel like that everytime we have a court date or everytime we get good news even though I know the good news will turn into bad news in the end. It is all going to fall into place just like its supposed to. Just sit back and take a deep breath!!!!

Okay everyones CFW MEMBER # Something so what is my number? And if I dont have one how do I get one?

Thanks Ellis...I know it's normal I just hate it....LOL...I'm ok with emotions until they start to get physical...which they have...I feel like I'm gonna vomit.

We are here for you, I know waiting for the results is gonna be hard but we are here to help you thru. Keep positive. I know a woman that have ovarian cancer when she was 20 and she was told she would never have kids but she did, she had one....Adam...who is now a grown man. So keep hope alive, I will keep it alive for you!!!

We took our #'s down...we are no long CLUB Fed Wifeys...we are just Fed Wifeys....and we are all #1 in the eyes of our men!!!

Oh okay, sounds good enough. But what were them numbers?

Thank you all so much for sticking by me in this time of need and helping me out. I really need friends like you all in this world!

What numbers?

Morning Ladies.....

Ellis You are in my prayers as well.....As for our numbers we havent a clue...

A.Carter she is in a Better place where she feels no pain!!! I Love YOU!!!!

Screams what it do Pimpin!!!

Twinny I know you are probably KNOCKED right now...see ya later Homie!!

JoJo.....My sista..lol...Did y ou get your comp?

Good morning my REAL wifeys! I hope everyone had a great weekend. I saw ya'll online Saturday afternoon!

Aie... did you go and see Has this weekend? I know you enjoyed that workout.. something I need to be doing! LOL. Thanks for the kind words! LOve ya back!!!

Deb... are you in the teens yet? Almost anyway! I am so happy for you... calm down, take a deep breath... get ready to have your BBO!!!!!!!!! I love it!!!

Errbody else... what the business is?

No I didnt see Has this weekend..I probably wont go see him until the weekend i leave to go on my cruise..just in case I dont make it back in one piece..lol..Ill see him before i go..cause I will be at work for the next 3 saturdays putting in that OT for spending Money....Im looking forward to going on Tuesday..just to be in the reg swing of things

Hey MzNave..Happy Monday!

Kint girl where you at!!!

Oracle..hope everything with Home Depot worked out great..lol

AC...I'm at 20 days today!!! How nuts is that? I'm gonna print out the thread today to send to P. I'm wondering if I should send the whole thing or just the posts directed to him....I can't imagine him reading our daily chatter...LOL. ((((((((((((((AC))))))))))))) I'm gonna hug you all day ok?!?

Has...I woke Amy up...LOL...I had to talk to someone so I called her. Sorry Amy!!!! I'm not happy to be back at work...I saw one of the chickens in the kitchen and she had her hair done this weekend so it's long and straight and I just happen to have my long and straight today too...I said awwwww, Tamela...you have hair like ME today!!!! LOL.....hahahahahaha, I was so laughing inside.

I'm up! I'm up! Thanks Csmc!!! LOL.

Ellis--no pm yet. Throw it at me! I'll help however I can.

Twinny--MD used to give me early AM calls, now it is csmc!! Her voice is a little feminine for me! LOL. Muah.

Csmc--I GOT THE JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mo money, mo money! It looks like I will start in a couple of weeks. I have to get this other nurse trained to do what I do. Deeeeeep Breath! 20 days! O! M! G!

Lana--when are you coming home? I hope you are doin me proud!

AC--This is nice, huh? I want you to know that you and yours have been in my thoughts and prayers. I will hit you up thru email.

Jojo--No late night calls from you this weekend? What's up with that? Is tomorrow computer day?

zo--where my roadie at?

Kin--How's your Monday? (my saturday, yea!)

otra--hope your weekend was outstanding.

Hey ya'll I just talked to Lana and she is leaving. AWWWWWWWWWW I missed her I am so sad!!! She is going to see her brother later today and I think she will be going back home tomorrow or the next day.

YAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaY Twinny Congratulations!!!!! Im happy for ya...Now youll have to get your body adjusted to being up when we are..lol

yeah where Zo at?? Gettin her BBO...lol nasty girl!

what....11 guests???? LOL what's the draw?

I saw zo online this morning but she wasn't in the thread....

Thanks Twinny!!! I am actually going to have FREE weekends too!! Monday-Friday 8am-5pm!!!!!!!!!!! Yea!

heeeey wifeys good mornin!!!!!!! well it looks like i missed alot so i'ma have to go back.....lol.....for now this is a drive by.....by the way...lol....didn't get my BBO....that's tomorrow ;).....lmao.....j/k......by the way i need to get some BC......

any suggestions?

condoms.

Iud?

Ewwwww... condumbs suck!!! No seriously... either condumbs or bc pills or the patch... it really depends on what you like

lol.....AC awiight condumbs out,..lol... BC out i bled 2mnths strait, and what is an IUD, hmm? i was thinkin bout the patch.........i meant to get on sumthin before he came home but....i was caught off guard...lol

An IUD is a birth control device that they put in your uterus for 5 years (you can have it removed at anytime) and I barely have a period at all. The first month, or two I cramped a little and spotted some. I love it personally.

I have a question...


Do people just come in here to see what we are talking about? Just wondering...

Zo... you better do something cause we don't want to hear about no little zo coming soon!!! LMBO

Irsh- awiight i like that one, but is that like a surgical procedure or something?

has any tried the patch?

AC-lol.....gurl you kno wherever we go....the people gone follow.....lol....but yea....people just come in here to see what we talkin bout.....and lmao....on the lil zo.....i wasn't even thinkin about it till he brought it up....you would think he is the female all scurred and ish....

by the way has i saw ya shout out a few bars - i mean pages back....

and C's how many more dayzzz? i ain't forget :)

20 days!!!!!

Zo--naw, not a surgical procedure. They just insert it during your pelvic exam. Takes 2 minutes. You cramp a little at first, but that is it. I love it. I don't even think about it. Plus if ya ever decide to have a baby, you just have it removed and get it on!!

20 dayzzz!!!!!!!!! congrats momma, let's see in 20 days ms. csmcgrl will be bustin all kinds of csmc's.......lmao;)

Irsh... where were you when I was getting my tubes tied? I wish I would've known that!!!

20 days!


OMG!!!!!

lmao.....lol...irsh ur a mess...okay i'm likin that i don't have an appt until apr. .....dayummm....i need to call and make a sooner one...but i think i might chose that

LOL...Zo you are nuts!! Cosmic Orgasms...LOL...I love it...I will for sure be seeing stars and bursts of colors...no doubt about that.

lmao....AC

hahahahaaa.......C's ......i knew you would looove it hearts, rainbows, horse shoes, clovers, and balloons!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

I tried the patch...and its cool..but I hated getting out of the shower and drying off and the color or material from the towel getting around the edges of the patch...it looks so tacky and they tell you to alternate spots weekly so that spot doesnt get irritated....
They are like the pill tho...if you forget to put it on for a few days your "flo" will come until you the patch on and it will take a day or two to clear up....

That IUD sounds so scary to me..My Bestfriend is going to get it.

Deb - 20 days!!! Its getting down to breathing in a paper bag time Debs!!! I'm so thrilled for you!!!!

Zo!! good luck on the BC, I cant help ya there 'cuz I've had a tubal ligation, supposed to be pretty permanent.

Ellis, hang in there lady, we're here if you need us, ok? (((((Ellis)))))

Has -- no computer yet -- its on the FEDEX truck out for delivery. Debs is gonna slap me but I'm getting butterflies over that!! lol

Irsh !! YEA!!! Come into the light (8-5) ! hahaha I love it that you will have regular hours, will probably take you a few days to adjust tho, then you can call Deb for wake up calls -- you're 2 hrs ahead of West Coast!!

((((((AC))))) - I'm so sorry for your loss, and also that you missed Lana. She is a sweetheart of a person!

Lana -- be safe driving home!!!

Guests -- come on in and say hello!!

DOnt forget the green clovers...frosted Lucky Pat..hes magically Delicious!!

lots of hearts, and rainbows....clovers and blue moons....pots of golden rainbows and the red balloon.......i mean red lights!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah Laney..I know your wishing your vacation wasnt ending but we MISS YOU!!!

What a great week -- I made reservation to go see my 1&ONLY this weekend!!! I haven't seen him since my birthday!! (2/4) I'm so in love with that man.

hahaahaa has i re-did and put clovers....lol.....yea deb gone is magically delicious she about to get that clover eaten up...lmao......okay and i like the patch idea.....some girl i kno did the patch and had 2 kids while she was on it....she has 4 all together now....and she's 21

Jo- thanx ma.......and congrats on the reservations.....lmao....lol...syke naw have fun though....

lana- hope ur havin a blast ma.......come back soon

DOnt forget the green clovers...frosted Lucky Pat..hes magically Delicious!!

LOL...you know he has a leprechaun tattoo right?? LOL...and he is magically delicious and so am I!!!!

by the way though...just wonderin....who would you tell first that ur preggers.....ya man or ya wifeys....lol

Csmc--P could say...she's always after me lucky charms! LOL.

Twinny--it's not scary! I have had mine for a little over a year. No problemo here!

Jojo--I will have to get on the ball cuz y'all know I love sitting around in my pjs for half the day! LMAO!

AC--I was here, in my lil hick town! LOL!

Zo I would tell my man first...hmmm...well I don't know cause I'd be telling my wifeys that I was late on the period...so I'd tell them at the same time...LOL.

Zo...She wasnt taking them Effieciently...I know some cases people have gotten pregnant on Birth COntrol but id have to say alot of them were because they didnt do what they were suppose to do....

Like my bestfriend for example swore up n down she got pregnant on the pil...But ummm she was late in taking them and im like THEY WILL ONLY WORK IF YOU TAKE THEM!!..lol...when your suppose to not when you remember to...

Id tell my man and no sooner would it be out my mouth that id be dialing... to hear hmhmhmmpf Hellllooooo...lol

I would tell my man and WE would call my real Wifeys...

hahaaaaaa....ya'll r some pieces of work.....lol....has.....hmhmhhmhmhmhpf though? lol...i like that...lmao....

I would tell my man first then I would call my REAL wifeys!!! I love that

is that me???? LOL...sounds like it.

lol......i like the real wifeys too...lmao

Lunch time ya'll. I am going to James Avery.com to look for another bracelet and charm, then I am going to eat... talk to ya'll later!

Muah to y'all!!!!!!!

I am sooooooooooooooooo sleepy!!!!!!

yeah Deb it does sound like you doesnt it...lol...You are the only person who sounds like she aches when she answers the phone...lol

Smooches back at ya Twinny!

Hey JoJo...youll be getting it today tho for sure huh?? I want a new computer...I want a lap top actually..maybe ill get one for myself for Christmas

I am so Bored...

AC and Irsh- mwah.....hurry back

C's- you better get all that sleep out of the way now.....syke naw...what chu be stayin up late?

what has bored?????? where r all ur co-workers......lmao.....

AI -- can ya see me ??? Hello....Hello....Hello....

I'm still in the hizouse! I was just blowin random smooches!!

lol@Twinny

I see ya now Jojo I unignored you...lol....

Yes Zo...Im an Aries I can get bored extremely fast if im not a place id like to be...lol...thats why books are my bestfriend...and all of these Mofo's are sitting around me...lol...Im still bored =( I want to go home! and rest my aching groin... it feels like it weighs about a 1000 lbs...I mean I got a Phat Kat anyway but sheesh..lol

lol.......phat kat.....lmao......i never heard dat...lol...well naw i'm lyin we called this one fione azz skinny dude fat cat....hmmm? now you got me wonderin....lmao...

OMG!! I am crackin up Twinny! MD says he loves my phat kat! Hilarious! Oh, I am rollin over here.

Hi Otra!!!!!

I am screaming! I am back from lunch ladies... I see ya'll were bored without me well... I am back!!!

LMBO Phat kat!!! Don't you just hate when it feels like that!!! lmbo

cluck cluck cluck, I see the hen house is bustin once again, lol.

CSM, today is the LAST day for the 20's, OMG tomorrow the TEENS are on then SINGLE digits!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YIPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE so happy for ya. If ya really gotta puke, away from the screen please, I gag easily, lmao!!

Zo, whatever BC ya choose just be SURE to use it the correct way, otherwise it'll be ooppssiieee, lol and there's plenty to enjoy and do in life before ya get to that part of life.

Irsh, yep HD went okay but me, I hate that dang store, guess its cause we had to do some many things around the house while he was gone. I swore I wouldn't go there when he got home. But of course have been a couple of times, lol.

JoJo, congrats on the upcoming visit, have a great one and yea on the puter coming so quickly.

Ellis, will be sending out postive thoughts and prayers for ya, hang in there.

Has, aww poor kat feels heavy, lol. thats too funny but keep up the good work with your workouts, wish I could get into the right frame of mind to work out!!

ACarter, hello, did ya find a bracelet and charm???

If I found out I was preggers, hubby better run for the hills cause I would be one pissed off woman, lmao. Waiting to become a grandma not have another baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well...I leave a lot to be imagined at work so I stand clear of PTO.

I sent you a pm...

See you all are just rollin along! Have fun!

Hey Otra... I found the charm... I love it... I am going to order it hopefully I can have it by Saturday for the memorial!

Hey Kint

http://secure.jamesavery.com/images/item-photos/medium/md-CM-744.jpg (http://secure.jamesavery.com/jewelry/search/product/CM-744/Very-Special-Grandmother-Charm/) This is the charm and I want to have her name engraved!


http://secure.jamesavery.com/images/item-photos/large/B-300L.jpgThis is the bracelet...

I like it AC.

OTra...I can't think single digits or I will puke!!! LOL. I'm so excited though.

Hey Kint!

Its beautiful ACarter and everyday you wear it will be a reminder what a special loving grandma you were blessed with. My condolences to you and your family on the passing of a very special woman in your life.

well it's now my lunch time...sometimes I hate that I'm behind all ya'll...

Okay CSM guess we will have to send ya some of the puke bags like they have in the airplanes, lol.

Yeah I feel that way with my necklace that my Nana got me right before she passed. When it's on it's like she's with me giving me hugs and kisses everyday.

I love it AC!

Hey Kint!

Otra!!!!

Csmc--get some Phenergan for the nausea, I'm sure it's only gonna get worse! LOL. It's good nausea though.

hey irsh, well ladies time for me to get moving along, have a good evening all and see ya hopefully tomorrow.

Have a good evening otra! Steer clear of the HD!!! LOL.

I Am Screaming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!

Lmao Ac!

I just don't understand... but maybe it is not for me to understand!!!

WHat are ya'll doing?

Home Depot A.carter..thats HD..lol

okay lmao......i'm bacckkkk~!!

Otra- heey ma, thanx for the shoutout and your right i have plenty to see and do before i get tied down......lol

AC- playin with what other place? by the way i'm diggin the bracelet and its charm that's nice.

Otra and I were talkin about what she calls the dreaded HD, home depot. I happen to love it though. When I lived in New Orleans, we had one in Metairie that was open 24/7!

Yeah we are making a Wifey House...I pick for it to be on coki beach in St Thomas..lol

Ill Paint...I love that!

Sounds good to me!! Warmth, water, and beach! Yup, I am there.

hahahaaa....coki beach? i guess there should be no reason why you shouldn't be feelin high while on ur dream place....lol

girl, you are insane in the membrane! LOL.

LOL.........i guess we gone have the new definition of the mile high club but on the sandy beaches of St.Thomas......syke naw let me stop....lol

You know how they have that drink "sex on the beach"? We can make one called, "sand in your crack". ROFL!

lmao.......dayuummm e'er body either gone think we were pissy drunk when we made all this stuff up or we we're some stone cold freak-a-leeks.......lmao....and the answer is.............lol

Irsh.... LMBO!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey since you said sex on the beach drink... have any of you ever had the better than sex cake? I have and AINT nothing BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I guess I am having a moment!!!

Jen sorry I missed your call, I was in a bad area and it went straight to voicemail. Thanks so much for calling and you can call me back if you want!

hmmm...better than sex cake...where can i find me a slice.....cuz i wanna try this.....lol

I'm right here, but you can't have a slice. It is reserved for MD!

You can bake it... let me get you the recipe lol...


2 cups self-rising flour
2 cups white sugar
1 cup water
1/2 cup butter
1/2 cup shortening
4 tablespoons unsweetened cocoa powder
1/2 cup buttermilk
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2 eggs
1/2 cup whiskey
4 fluid ounces strong brewed coffee

1/2 cup butter
1/3 cup buttermilk
3 tablespoons unsweetened cocoa powder
3/4 cup confectioners' sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract

I've had that cake and it's too much for me....but it's funny cause people be having a look on their face like it is better than sex cake.

iRSH... LMBO

Has will we be playing tag tonight if I call? Should I just try my luck?? What's up on the 10 way???

I'm totally down for a 5-6 way....I have no plans tonight...

Y'all know I am already in my pj's. But csmc--no puter at home right now...it's off getting fixed. Just call me on my home #, I will be there.

ok...I'll call