I didn't make it to chat last night because I was too upset. :cry: Hubby has not been doing too well this week, and he has sent me huge letters everyday.The biggest letter was 20 pages, then 16 pages then 8 pages . I am just snowed under here, and I am not even thinking straight.
The part that upsets me most, is I cant see him, and we have very little time to talk until the weekend. I will show you a paragraph he wrote in one of the letters, and I need some help to answer it.Pleeeeze give me some ideas here.
This is a part of it.

Baby, I want to thank you for loving me.Your love has changed my life in so many ways. I am now very intouch with my self and those around me, and I only have you to thank for that.Huni, I love every part of you, and I love everything about you.My whole world is built around you.Thank you for allowing me to be me.I love you more than you could ever imagine.

How do I respond to this? I love him soooooo much and I am missing him terribly.I know you guys understand how much this kind of stuff breaks our hearts. This separation is hurting us big time.
I guess when we hear something, it might be a bit easier to deal with.
At least when he gets moved from remand, I can make a booking to go and see him again.I wish they would hurry up.

I hope everyone else is doing ok at the moment.

ROZ

ohhh... Auntie Roz, that is so sweet! "I love you too" just doesn't cut it!!!

Neice..:) .Thats what I think too hun..I need to write something more than just that.
You must be getting sooooo excited now. Just over 2 weeks to go.Do you have a visit this weekend? If you do, have a great time making plans for the big day. :)

ROZ

Yeah, I'll see him. 2 visits to go. Man, i can't wait.

He told you the things he loves about you.. maybe you could do what i did for my honey for our anniversary- I wrote a list- over 100- of things I love about my man...

Thanks hun, thats a great idea!! :) That shouldn't be too hard for me to do.
I am really happy that you are so close to having your darling back home with you.You better warn him on the weekend to have lots of energy the day he gets out. LOL...he's gonna need it. :)

ROZ

I know... BUT If he's anything like me, he won't be able to sleep for the week leading up to it- and will crash on the night!!! hahaha

Roz how is it all going. It must be really hard on you both right now.
I can only imagine how close you both are growing because you are both so far away from eachother.
Im not a romantic so I cant help you with what to write. I hope you are able to send him something just as sweet :)

Amanda,
I have finished my 100 things I love about him list, and I will send it off tomorrow. Hopefully he will get it early next week. That should cheer him up heaps. :) great idea, and thanks again. OMG its a new day now, 15 days to go ??..woo hoo!!!

Kellz, I have sent you a PM, but not sure if it went or not. Please let me know if you didnt get it, hun. Hang in there. :)

ROZ

:) That sounds like the perfect reply Roz. I thought it was such a good idea i made up a list for BF's birthday. 101 things i love about him.

Roz, that is so sweet of him!!! I am sure that he knows how much you love him too!!! :)

roz,
My soon to be husband writes things like that too and sometimes there is nothing to say in reply that quite fits. However i have found many cards these days say exactly what i feel just at the right time....take a chance and see what kind of cards you can find... i buy many at one time and then i always have one to send when the need fits....i hope that helps.... however i think i am going to work on my 100 things i love about my man and send it the week before we get married... what do you guys think? is it okay for me to take from your suggestions...
have a great day
msmomto4

Nessy, he does know because I always tell him at the end of every letter, and phone call.
Mikes girl of course you can share our suggestions.I am sure Amanda wouldnt mind at all. I think it was a great idea too...thanks again niece :)
I cant wait to get hubby's response. He will be really pleased, he loves it when I send him something different.
The card idea is a good one too Mikes Girl, but I think I have almost sent him all the ones they have in the newsagents. :) I even bought heaps of different ones at Valentines day and have just used white out to cover the "happy valentines day" messages, and then written my own.
When are you getting married Mikes Girl?
I got married in prison last August.We plan to renew our vows as soon as hubby comes home.

All the best to you.

ROZ

is it okay for me to take from your suggestions...
have a great day
msmomto4

Sure, go right ahead (to be honest, i stole it from someone else on another part of PTO) I shouldn't take all the credit- although it has beennice for the days i got away with it.