View Full Version : Is Prison A Security Blanket ??


jennalovesmark
02-27-2007, 10:10 AM
All my baby's life since he was 18 years old has been in and out of jail.
HE told me when i met him that it's became a security blanket and he felt safe there and it's they only time he is sober and i remeber him telling him me that And recently i told him i want to be him security blanket.. not some cold dark cell
Does he know how to brake this cycle??
Well he change and quit drinking??
He is an alcoholic it's in his blood??
Alcohol is a disease/badly??

anybody have the same or deal to?? and anything somewhat to this ??

Zachary's Woman
02-27-2007, 10:38 AM
Yes alcholosim is a disease.

catcat73
02-27-2007, 10:44 AM
He Needs To Go To Aa Asap Prison Shouldnt Feel Comfortable To No One That Goes There Not Even Us With Our Husbands,boyfriends There

balletgirl78
02-27-2007, 10:48 AM
Aw hon, this is awful for you. You should go to the AA meetings they have for families of alcoholics, cause if you really love this man you are going to really need to understand his disease. It's a rough road and it sounds like you are young, so you need to seriously consider if you can ride this one out. Prison can be something that guys get used to - it is like a second home. shoot, they get free food, free showers, a structure to their life that maybe they never had on the outside. I suppose maybe they could get addicted to that life. You need to step back and get objective about this, get some help from people who know all about the problem, and then you can make a better decision for yourself.

sunmoon728
02-27-2007, 03:29 PM
some might think its a security blanket. my loved one also said something similar but he really wants to quit drinking and doing drugs. he has gone to AA and NA meetings which do help. be there to support him. i let mine know that i care and other people care for him as well. and it is regaining his confidence.


All my baby's life since he was 18 years old has been in and out of jail.
HE told me when i met him that it's became a security blanket and he felt safe there and it's they only time he is sober and i remeber him telling him me that And recently i told him i want to be him security blanket.. not some cold dark cell
Does he know how to brake this cycle??
Well he change and quit drinking??
He is an alcoholic it's in his blood??
Alcohol is a disease/badly??

anybody have the same or deal to?? and anything somewhat to this ??