I use to smack my first wife and I regret it big time! I had anger problems:angry: Most people don't realize the black abuse problems because most of it goes un reported. I had anger problems but I am fine now. My homies in jail use to tell me that that is a white problem spousal abuse but then I found out on the net which I love now that blacks are 700% more likely to abuse their spouses! I am embaressed:eek:

This wouldnt let me post a link

Anyway as long as I have a 40 and a blunt I am fine and my new girl Vanessa is great and I would never dream of hitting here. She was the one that brought up the spousal abuse stats to me. I think it worried her.:) Hey Im fine though!

i always thought as long as i had a beer & a blunt i was as well.
but usually theres underlying problems to that.

alcohol is a depressant & smoking marijuana with it just brings you down

i have anger issues as well. but drinking & smoking just covers it up (and usually something brings out the anger) so why not get help for the anger issues & talk to a therapist about what it is youre trying to supress?

Wow, completely blown away by this one again. Almost every one your post becomes a race issue. Well, like you stated abuse goes unreported. Think of how many rich white people don't report they get knocked around on a daily basis. Glad a blunt and a 40 can make you not want to smack someone around.I use to smack my first wife and I regret it big time! I had anger problems:angry: Most people don't realize the black abuse problems because most of it goes un reported. I had anger problems but I am fine now. My homies in jail use to tell me that that is a white problem spousal abuse but then I found out on the net which I love now that blacks are 700% more likely to abuse their spouses! I am embaressed:eek:

This wouldnt let me post a link

Anyway as long as I have a 40 and a blunt I am fine and my new girl Vanessa is great and I would never dream of hitting here. She was the one that brought up the spousal abuse stats to me. I think it worried her.:) Hey Im fine though!

Buck - I'm glad you realize that abuse is a problem - doesn't much matter if it's black/black, black/white. But, having read several of your posts now, I'd suggest that you still have a fair amount of anger/violence floating around. If you really want to be sure that you don't suddenly go off on Vanessa some day, I'd suggest doing more than a beer and a blunt. Some day you're liable not to have them available, and then what happens?

This girl is not a Black Man:angry:

This girl is not a Black Man:angry:

I hear ya!

I hope you really are "fine" now. I am the victim of domestic violence with my ex and trust me he still does it. are you sure you're okay? and you drink too which usually enhances it...hmm...i hope for vanessa's sake you really are "fine".

Why do I keep getting the feeling that Buck is not a black man??? He seems very persistent in trying to persuade white females to stay away from black men, IMO!