View Full Version : My birthday is on Wednesday...Tho my hubby wont be there to celebrate with me...


I_miss_my_Hubby
01-08-2007, 07:12 AM
Hey guys, it's my birthday on Wednesday.... im gonna be 22..
it'll be a lonely birthday this year... No loving hug and kiss from my hubby. Just me and my lil bubz.... So sad he rang me and asked me what i am doing for my birthday? i said i am not in the mood to do anything... I hope he calls me on Wednesday....I think thats the only thing that will make me happy...i remember this time last year he made such a big party for me n called all my friends.... thinkin bout it now just makes me sad... Sometimes life is so hard to live...i try to take everyday that comes... but still, its so hard!!!

gemgem
01-08-2007, 07:35 PM
Happy Birthday for Wednesday IMMH. I hope you have a good day. Its tough thats for sure, and im sure there are pleanty of other ladies on here who have had Hubby's miss special occasions. It is difficult, and let me tell you it does get a little easier. I think in your situation, once Hubby has been sentenced, you may find it gets easier then, i hope so for your sake this happens soon. Try to have a good birthday.

butterfly59
01-08-2007, 07:42 PM
Hi I miss My Hubby
I do hope you have a great Birthday. It is hard when we are not able to spend special days with the ones we love. My Birthday is in a few weeks too. I am also like you (just alot older lol). I will be spending alone. But I do have alot of good memories I draw from.
Try and have a nice Birthday.... You are only 22 once :) Live it up!!!!

LeaAnn
01-08-2007, 10:57 PM
Happy Birthday!

Em77
01-09-2007, 12:20 AM
Happy Birthday hope you do something special for yourself.

sticking_by_him
01-09-2007, 05:46 AM
IMMH, my birthday was LAST Wednesday so I know exactly how you feel. Try to surround yourself with family or friends to lift your spirits but give yourself a bit of space for that "me" time if you need it!

Hey, make sure you log on to the chat room on the night of your birthday and we will all help you celebrate!

I_miss_my_Hubby
01-09-2007, 06:05 AM
Hey there,
Thanks for the early birthday wishes...it is 11:58pm on tuesday am stii 21. By the time i finish this post i will be another year older. I know that sounds kinda ironic but anyways... Not feeling very happy. But wat can i do...nothing... i think its the feeling of not being in control and not knowing wat the future will bring. Thats the hardest atm....I will be going to my mum's house on wednesday... I will try go online to chat no promises tho. Its been so hectic around my family lately that my mum has been getting really worried. Worried about my husband, worried about me and the baby and also worried bout my grandma, my grandma's has been sick lately... She been worrying so much she fully forgot it was my birthday . anyhow, am now offically 22. I wish my hubby was here with me now, he would hug and kiss me and wish me a happy birthday? I will go to sleep soon, hoping i will dream of him....

nortynou
01-09-2007, 01:44 PM
Happy Birthday IMMH!!! Hope you have a great day!!

rooby
01-10-2007, 04:45 AM
:) Happy Birthday :)


hope you had a lovely day I_miss_my_hubby

tatersalad
01-10-2007, 06:53 AM
:) Happy Birthday :)




hope you had a lovely day I_miss_my_hubby


:beer:

yup what she said

I_miss_my_Hubby
01-13-2007, 07:04 AM
Thanx peoples for all the birthday wishes? My day was quiet good.... My hubby called home and we got to speak for a whole 30mins... Even tho he only had calls for 12mins each, but he waited to call back so it was great. Also he made a big effort to make me laugh as well... thanx again peoples...

kellz
01-13-2007, 06:38 PM
I hope you had a lovely day. It is hard on these special days, when the one you love cant be there, I am sure he would have loved to have been there.
Im glad you got to talk a fair bit.

I_miss_my_Hubby
01-15-2007, 08:07 AM
Isn't it ironic, the people i usually call friends seem to disappear, yet i get so many birthday wishes from people i haven't even met, and are also from the other side of the world....Thanks again!!!

sticking_by_him
01-16-2007, 05:36 AM
Your right I Miss My Hubby. It's sad that is takes such tough times as this to make you realise who your real friends are.