:o Can anyone give me advice on how to deal with doubts and insecurities about my relationship with my baby. He knows that I LOVE Him and I believe that he Loves Me too, but there are times when I feel he may have second thoughts about us. He tells that each and every day is different and that being locked up has it's way of changing your mood and spirit.
I understand that. I guess I'm spoiled and want him to treat me like I'm his BABY at all times.:o
Should I be ashamed of my feelings?
DM's Girl:thumbsup: 2010

Hi.. I know exactly what you are going through. I feel the same alot of the times.. No you should not feel ashamed about your feelings.. It's hard to have a relationship when you man is locked up. Believe me I know.. This is my second bid with my guy.. Although I wish he was just in some state crap now and not facing all this time.. ( 35 to life is his plea) You have to understand that although you may not be locked up like him that things are just as hard on you as they are him..Sometimes harder.. Especially knowing there is nothing you can do to bring him home right now..Just take one day at the time.. That's the only way to get though things like this... Believe me.. I've had alot of ups and downs with my boyfriend through all his bids but we both know we aren't living each other.. And it is hard to deal with when you are used to being babied by your boyfriend.. That's the hardest part for me.. He did everything for me and now I'm having to deal with everything again.. Just stay strong...

THANKS

og's bride


I needed that


DM'S GIRL 2010

I have the very same insecurities and completely adore my husband. I know he loves me as well but I also know that the depression of not being able to be with me and the kids is devasting on him. I feel as though I have to constantly be the smoother over of issues in order to help us move forward. He's right, every day is so different from the next and at times very unsettling.