Well I just wanted to stop by and let everybody know that I will offically be filing mine and Lee's divorce papers Tuesday the 26th.I'm sure if y'all had been reading some of my post then you already know things were pretty rocky around here.Lee had been sleeping in his own room but we we're still remaining on a friendly bases and he was still visiting my room from time to time.Well today I was off work so me and Stephanie had went to Montgomery to do some X-mas shopping and Lee called to ask would we be home for dinner or eat there?Well I told him we would probably just eat there so he told me he was going to eat with Mr.Terry and his wife(some people he's worked for before)so I didn't think much of it and said ok.Well when we got home around 7 he still wasn't home and again I thought no big deal he'll be home shortly.At around 8 I called Mr.Terry's house to be told by his wife we haven't seen him or talked to him in quite a while.
So as I had told y'all before about his friends that he suddenly wanted to spend all of his time with...I went by their house well he wasn't there either.And while all of this was going on I kept trying to linc him on his phone which was cut off.Around 8:30 I finally got in touch with him and of course my first question was where the hell are you?Then he tries to tell me that he's been at this other guys house which I knew right away was a lie.(You would just have to know this guys wife)So when he finally got home and we had our cussing match and everything boiled down....He has meet some b**** and he was at her house.:angry: :angry: :angry: All I can say is I hope she really knows what kinda s*** she is about to get into.I really can't express the way I feel.......part of me is Sooooooo mad,part of me is glad,part of me is in shock,part of me is hurt.This is all really something else,I know three different guys personally that had women that stuck by them through at the crap with ADOC and they each done this same mess.Well thanks y'all for letting me vent and I hope that all of Y'all have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year,I'm not sure just yet how mines gonna go.

Hugs to you. I"m so sorry that things did not turn out how you hoped. I wish you the best and I hope the new year brings you peace..

Ive been wondering about you and i hate to hear what has happened. You deserve better anyways and one day you will realize you are better off, but it still sucks the way he did you. And as you said, you are not the only woman that has waited for a man to get out of prison and be done this way. Its funny cuz it seems like the better you are to a man, the worse he will do you. And when you ignore a guy and treat them like crap they will bend over backwards for you. Last christmas the guy I was living with (who I had met while he was in prison and we moved in together after he got out)I found out a week b4 christmas he was out robbing people and I got caught up in the police investigation. I also found out he had got another girl pregnant and was with her when the police finally found him (he had been on the run for about a month) Anyways, i felt all the same things you do, BUT, it was also a huge relief to finally know the truth about him instead of wondering what he was really doing. You will be glad when its all over with.

He has meet some b**** and he was at her house.:angry: :angry: :angry: All I can say is I hope she really knows what kinda s*** she is about to get into.I really can't express the way I feel.......part of me is Sooooooo mad,part of me is glad,part of me is in shock,part of me is hurt.It hurts to hear things didnt work out and Lee decided to go against your wedding vows... Allow yourself time to heal from this hurtful situation so that you will be able to find someone who will love and respect you and your heart.:grouphug:

Uuuggghhhh! This has to SUCK and especially the timing of it all! Having been on a similar path once myself, I can imagine what you feel like right now and I am sorry! I hope that you can somehow find a way to enjoy Christmas, and keep the strength to move on.

Oh gosh....I hate to hear that things aren't better. I was wondering about you the other day. I hate that he has put you thru all of this. I am hear anytime you want to vent. We all are hear for you.

What makes all of this even worse is he is trying to say I made him do this.I'm like I don't think I held your hand and lead you to another women,you done this all on your own.We had talked about just putting this all behind us and just going forward but I can't ever even look at him the same again.And to make it just a little worse Lee builds houses for a living and this women lives right across the road from where he is working.When I found out about this other women he lied to me about who she was and eveything else I had ask him about her and I just kept finding out bits and pieces and putting 2 and 2 together and figured out who she was,where she lives and her phone number.He told me nothing has happened between them and I told him I couldn't believe him since he lied about everything else he had told me about her.I told him last night that a divorce was not what I really want but there's no way I could ever trust him and forget about what he done so I think a divorce is the only option now.

That is their famous line. You pushed me to it. No we did not they do it to themselfs when they dont want to talk about what the real problem is. I'm real sorry that you are going though this.Hang in there, they say it is Darkest be the Dawn!!