my future brother in law is 4 months younger than i am and is in prison, he was arrested Oct 2004 and was sent ot prison May 2005, I havent wrote him in awhile and feel really really bad. myboyfriend, (his oldest brother) is in prison so i spend all my free time on him. So much has happend and i want cody to know bout it but i dont wanna stess him or make him feel bad. He gets soo upset when i mention his niece (my daughter) and tell him how big shes gettin but yet he ask every letter on how my girls are doin... Where do i even begin on writing aletter its been since his birthday in july when he got a letter :(

Mandy2002, instead of trying to think of what to write, how about a simple thinking of you card? I am sure something is better than nothing.
The little means mean just as much as the long letters!:)

I agree just send him a card, or you can find things off the internet if you know any of his intrests .. And you can also check out the discounts and frug forum here on pto .. and you can sign them both up for magazines.. this way its like a present

Thanks guys... I just feel SOOOOO bad. I never ment to just stop writing him. But again thanks the gift idea was great,itsll work for my future brother in law but with my fience im not so sure since he only have 5 months left inside.

Stop feeling so guilty! If all I can do is pray to God for the all the prisoners then that is a start I am sure that your future brother-in-law, will not hold it against you.

Print jokes, inspirational stuff, etc off the net and send cards.
That's nearly all I ever do for my cousin, and it's just a way of letting him know I'm thinking about him :-)
lis