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Thank you kintml2u for starting this post for federal identification. We need a spot to relate in this forurm. I need huggs, huggs. My dearheart is being transfered to Allenwood Low about 4am this morning. I have just got off the phone with him for the third time today. We do not know how his process will be coming from NY to Penn, he might have to hold in brooklyn for a min :( So he is going to call me and tuck me in. Sigh, I miss him already. Just wann hug him and say I love you in person. Tuck in his issued sheets and put his favorite oil on them 1000 flowers. Wanna caress his face and rock him to sleep then I would disappear. So because I can not do any of this I came to share with my PTO family while a await his final call until he reaches his next destination toward his Queen. :D

Ok this is dramatic for me so please bear with me. We have had our last call (11:20pm shut down), so I am going to go to sleep now with these feelings of not sure yet. Thanx for listening

Just be patient during the transfer - and find some things to keep you busy. There may be spaces where you don't hear from him but trust that you will eventually! Z.

Just know you're not alone - others out here are thinking of you. Keep busy, I find those stupid sudoku puzzles keep my mind off my worries... Hang in there, he'll call the second he can.

Good morning. Thanx u2 for the encourging words. This is my first time with transfer and I pray for patience. I am in school online so this will keep me busy and I will be working. Most days it is just getting starting. So big girl stuff and will type when he arrives. Ann:thumbsup: Knowing me, laughing it will be before that <<<<mood swings when it comes to him.

Hey fam, update. I have received call from My dearheart who arrived in Brooklyn MDC which is very close to me. I will be going to see him on the 26th if all is well. He does not know when he is leaving and is currently in a dorm which he is not use to. Because all of his belongings are being send to PA, he has nothing to reflect on from me or his family:( however he is good and we will get through. His fam lives close also so he will get to see his children, mother, and daugthers. This is a good day. Thanks for the support will keep posted Ann:thumbsup: Oh and a got a A on my final paper. :D

Grr, hey fam. good and bad news. The good news is my dearheart will be going to PA on either tues or wed. He is also changing his address to be with me once he get down to his year :D :thumbsup: The bad news is that we will not get to see him as planned next week sigh. Ok so I am learning change happens, I am just grateful, I am able to speak with him during this stop. Ann

hey fam, my dearheart is in his new facility. :D He was in the shu last night because they had no bed for him yet. He called me and told me that because I am not imm fam, I will need to fill out some type of form every time I vist, and it has to be done weeks in advance. In addition, his children do not have his last name so this applies to them also. Please any info would be helpful regarding visits. Thanks Ann

You won't have to fill out a form everytime you visit, just once to get approved for visiting. He will be sending the forms to you and you will send them back to whoever it is addressed on the form. Takes two or three weeks to get approved.

Thank you. I am already on his list however in Allenwood low this is what he is saying. He was getting this information while in the shu so suggested to him speak with his counselor. Ahh you know when you are in love ;)

I just got off the phone with my Boo and I am feeling some kind of way. :argh: I had not heard his voice in two days. It always feels good to hear him. I received a letter from him saying he was going to call me tonight at 9:30pm. I was so ready for a long conversation and next thing I knew it was the second beep. This is the second time that I was not aware of it, he had to remind me. :angry: I started screaming NO NO and he kept saying til Friday because we have to talk every other day :angry: :cry: My heart is crying and I am so hurt right now and feeling like weak. We have not been approved for visits and I am so needing to see him. I am so grateful that I was able to his voice. He did tell me some bad news about not getting to go for college classes however he is going to look into something else. :thumbsup: Family I am just so lonely right now and can not talk to anybody else. So until Friday I must wait because I love him so. Now I can get back into school work and pass the time. Somewhere in another posting someone wrote Feds stick together so I wanted to share with my Fed family because as he reminded me tonight, he is a federal inmate and people trip because of this so I am his Fed Gurl 4 life. Missing My Man So it hurts, Ann.

You hang in there ! I waste time yelling no no no on that second beep too and was denied visitation when he moved out of state (Long story short, Its a real long story and I can not tell a short version that makes sense lol) have not seen him in a year and a half but we are counting the days now, only 99 NINTY NINE more to go.

Thank you bzz. Today is Friday it am still breathing. :clap:

Today is a Federal Holiday. For my love, this would have been a day of visit. However I am here and he is there for obivous reasons. Just chating cause I believe this is the thread for chatting. Sigh, I will see him the end of this month. Just getting through the day.:grouphug: :love: