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danielle
06-22-2002, 07:02 PM
Teenager's life of crime forces his father to give up on him

Suspect in brutal beating, robbery 'shouldn't ever be allowed on streets again'

06/21/02

By WENDY REEVES
Huntsville, Alabama


Kenneth Knabenshue Sr. has been praying for Barry Schrader since the pizza delivery man was brutally beaten and robbed late Tuesday night. But Knabenshue has given up on his son, one of three suspects accused of the crime.

Huntsville police charged Kenneth "Kenny" G. Knabenshue II, 17, with first-degree robbery and attempted murder Wednesday. He's been in state custody since he was 13, his father said.


"I don't feel bad for Kenny at all," Knabenshue said Thursday. "I would cry if he was sentenced to death because he is my son. But if he's capable of doing that, he shouldn't ever be allowed out on the streets again."

Knabenshue said he has "been sick" since he learned of the attack on Schrader, 57, who was in critical condition with two skull fractures at Huntsville Hospital this morning. He was struck in the head with a baseball bat.

"If (Schrader) needs money, I'll send it to him and his family," Knabenshue said. "I'll help him any way I can. But by no means will I help that boy."

His son Kenny had been out of jail less than a week on another first-degree robbery charge. He allegedly helped three others rob the Krystal restaurant on Jordan Lane at gunpoint June 6. He posted a $3,000 bond June 13.

Today, Kenny Knabenshue remained in jail in lieu of bonds totaling $60,000.

Two others were also charged in the attack on Schrader: Billy Joe Hawkins, 16, and Christa June Bott, 17, of 3809-A Westwind Circle. Both remained in jail this morning in lieu of bonds totaling $40,000 each.

If Schrader dies, the teens will face capital murder charges, which carries a punishment of life in prison or death upon conviction.

The teens attacked the pizza delivery man to get a car to get out of town, said Huntsville police Lt. Rex Reynolds of the Major Crimes Unit.

Knabenshue, a self-employed painter, planned to return to work today, but with some dread.

"I just don't know what to say to people," he said.

He said he has tried to talk to his son about learning some type of skill and finding a way to make an honest living. The youth, he said, just stared off into space, "like it didn't matter."

Knabenshue said he last spoke to his son after he was arrested for the Krystal robbery.

"He has no fear," the father said. "It's like you're looking at Charles Manson or something. Kenny has no regrets about anything he's ever done."

~cheenna~
06-22-2002, 07:28 PM
A very sad story,,,

BillnDenise
06-22-2002, 08:21 PM
Yes it is sad.... :(

Sandy
06-22-2002, 11:43 PM
I don't think I could ever give up on helping one of my children, like this father has.....it's definitely a sad story!

Joy
06-23-2002, 06:52 AM
No, never give up. However, I would not try to make excuses and get him out of trouble. He would have to take the consequences of his actions. I WOULD be there though standing beside him every minute and every day to let him know that even though I do not agree with his actions, I still will love him unconditionally.

B-Ray
06-23-2002, 08:02 AM
>>>No, never give up<<<

That's called "bonding" that doesn't happen, with some males. To them, a child is just another mouth to feed or with child support, another bill that has to be paid. In fact, most likely, he didn't even have a "bonding" (love) with the female that he was with or married too.

That's something that a woman, that gaves birth to a child, can not understand, let alone relate too.

BillnDenise
06-23-2002, 08:56 AM
No never give up, but there is a certain time when a parent has to stop taking responsibility for their children and let them learn from their mistakes. That doesn't mean that the parent should stop loving the child, just stop making excuses to get the child out of trouble. The child will never learn responsibility that way.

danielle
06-23-2002, 10:00 AM
This attitude is the same attitude my husband's father has towards him and is one reason I posted this article. He has completely "given up" on Wayne and even if they are in the same room, won't acknowledge him. My husband blames himself totally - he spent his entire life trying to make his dad happy and now his dad has disowned him. Becasue Wayne's dad is such a control freak and Wayne's mom doesn't want to cross him, she has little to do with Wayne either. She'll sneak and send a card or make a phone call, but won't openly accept him. It's very painful.

Last year we went to Wayne's grandmother's birthday party. I had to work, so we were a little late getting there. As soon as we walked in, Wayne's parents walked out - in the middle of the party. The same thing happened at a family reunion a few weeks later.

jdswifey02
06-23-2002, 02:39 PM
In reading this story, I can't help but wonder what the rest of the story is regarding this boy.... drug addiction? mental illness?? I would suspect that this father gave up on his son long before his son committed this crime... and that probably didn't help anything.... I feel badly for all involved...

Steve&kids
06-23-2002, 02:56 PM
I would like to know what kind of a relationship the father had with his son in growing up.Steve&kids

soraya
06-24-2002, 02:00 AM
I can't understand how you can give up on your own child, no matter what!

sherri13
06-24-2002, 07:45 AM
JDS- I THINK "THE REST OF THE STORY" IS A KEY ELEMNET IN EVERY STORY YOU READ LIKE THIS- PEOPLE DON'T JUST WAKE UP ONE MORNING AND COMMIT THESE TYPES OF CRIMES-I HAVE READ SOME SOCIAL HISTORIES OF MEN WHO HAVE COMMITTED HORRENDOUS CRIMES AND ARE ON DEATH ROW OR HAVE BEEN EXCEUTED AND IT IS APALLING THE THINGS THAT HAPPENED TO THEM AS CHILDREN, ADLOESCENTS, AND IN SOME CASES YOUNG ADULTS-

I AM CERTAIN THERE IS MORE TO THIS STORY TOO

Budwoman
06-25-2002, 11:08 AM
SHERRI:

VERY WELL SPOKEN.... THIS IS A PROBABLE 100% OF PROBLEMS THAT HAVE A VIOLENT CRIME INVOLVED.... THERE IS SO MUCH THAT IS NEVER HEARD...

OUR CHILDREN ARE OUR FUTURE.... IF WE DON'T INSURE NOW, THAT THEY ARE TAKEN CARE OF AND LOVED AND TAUGHT THE RIGHT THINGS, THEN 10 YEARS FROM NOW THERE WILL ONLY BE MORE VIOLENCE...

THERE IS AN ANSWER.... TOTALLY DISREGARDING YOUR CHILD BECAUSE HE/SHE HAS COMMITTED A CRIME OR DONE SOMETHING WRONG IS DEFINATELY NOT THE ANSWER...

THERE IS SUCH A THING AS TOUGH LOVE THO..... WE MUST TEACH THEM THAT THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES TO THEIR ACTIONS.....THEY MUST FACE THOSE CONSEQUENCES.... SOMETIMES WE TRY TO PROTECT THEM TOO MUCH.

MAYBE SOMEONE IN A CHURCH CAN HELP AMELIA WITH HIS PARENTS...... I TOO HAVE BEEN ANGRY AT BUTCH, BUT I HAVE SINCE STOPPED AND LOOKED AT THE WHOLE SITUATION AND HAVE REALIZED THAT HE IS A VICTIM OF HIS CHILDHOOD....

I SEND MY LOVE AND PRAYERS TO YOU.

DONNA