Did anyone see that show last night on MSNBC? So sad! These women there are facing so many abandonment issues that are unreal. Women don't have to many visitors in prison! I wonder why that is? They showed a visiting room with only one woman there and her family that's it no one else had any loved ones to come and see them. They said the men in their lives don't come and see them anymore once locked-up,don't know how true that is because I never known any women that were in prison.

Did anyone see that show last night on MSNBC? So sad! These women there are facing so many abandonment issues that are unreal. Women don't have to many visitors in prison! I wonder why that is? They showed a visiting room with only one woman there and her family that's it no one else had any loved ones to come and see them. They said the men in their lives don't come and see them anymore once locked-up,don't know how true that is because I never known any women that were in prison.


no i didnt see that show... i know what they talking about.. they done get visits like the man does.. see one time we went to visit my homegirl.. it was only like 3 visitor... is true what they said one your busted your man wont go to visit you.. come on girl is alot of girls out here free you think they will have time to visit us... hell no... but yeah is different with us... we go every weekend to visit your husbands/friends... hehehe :D i wish the visitor room was the empty when i go visit my husband...

no i didnt see that show... i know what they talking about.. they done get visits like the man does.. see one time we went to visit my homegirl.. it was only like 3 visitor... is true what they said one your busted your man wont go to visit you.. come on girl is alot of girls out here free you think they will have time to visit us... hell no... but yeah is different with us... we go every weekend to visit your husbands/friends... hehehe :D i wish the visitor room was the empty when i go visit my husband...

Heck yeah! Betty. Once I get approved I'll visit my friend too and he is not even my man just a platonic friend.

Heck yeah! Betty. Once I get approved I'll visit my friend too and he is not even my man just a platonic friend.

does your man knows your going to visit someone else? hehehe but that good girl once you get approved go and visit him and ask him if you were busted will he go and visit you?

i ask my husband that question and he told me this yeah i would go and visit you... if i wanst on parole i will go... come on please you wont go... haha

does your man knows your going to visit someone else? hehehe but that good girl once you get approved go and visit him and ask him if you were busted will he go and visit you?

i ask my husband that question and he told me this yeah i would go and visit you... if i wanst on parole i will go... come on please you wont go... haha

Yeah! He knows it's his son:) I'm sure that he'll come and visit me if I ever get busted no doubt about it. He just would have a hard time with that felony hanging over his head from what I read on here.

i tell my guy the same thing it i was locked up you would not do any of the stuff i do for you i would not expect him to vist he said "no baby i would be there for you" i go hell no lol its not the same us women are stronger them men they have difftrent needs sexually they cant hang no no i don t think i would want him to anyway its just harder for them i cant reallty see them doing it like on pto there is harley men on here unless they are parents or used to be locked up

Statistics show that 70% of all men would not do (be faithful, wait, write letter's, visit, etc.) what we women do for our men in prison if the roles were reversed. Sad but true.

Statistics show that 70% of all men would not do (be faithful, wait, write letter's, visit, etc.) what we women do for our men in prison if the roles were reversed. Sad but true.


I think it's true also,that most men would not see their women in prison. That show was so sad to watch with all those women locked up pregnant and having babies and nobody shows up.

:( i had no idea!! i'd imagine their sisters or MOMS would go visit them, I've contemplated about this(women in jail)and thought about it but I never knew it was THAT bad...but come on, these women MUST have moms, and I should suppose all moms care about their children no matter what they've done or where they are!

heck, never mind the husbands/boyfriends...i just can't picture that scenario like many of you have said!!

hehe oh well...hey that just proves who IS the stronger sex...right? ;)

I don't know about this. I have a friend at VSPW. She gets a visit from at least her mom, sometimes her aunt, almost every week. Her mom and aunt were not doing anything for her while she was out. I have not really talked her about this but she would have said something if a lot of the women did not get any visits.

When I visited at CCWF, except for right before Christmas visiting was always half empty. (There's 50 or so tables, one inmate per table, on each "side" (A side, B side) of visiting. So space for 100 inmates getting a visit. At a facility with over 3,000 women. Very, very rarely was even the A side full (B side would be locked and dark), let alone both sides. Sad.