heidi77
08-24-2006, 01:56 PM
My man was convicted on a domestic violence issue. Is there any possible way to get a family visit. I desperately want another baby, but with the same daddy as my other two. i know this sounds crazy. Maybe i am a little. I love my man though weve been together for 10 years and i dont plan on going anywhere. I just am getting old and i dont want to wait till im too old. Plus its been so long. This the longest i ever went without, uh you know.
luvnstarz67
08-24-2006, 03:45 PM
Well guys accused of domestic abuse CAN NOT have family visits =( Sorry but it seems like you have to wait =( good luck!
Joshsstepmom
08-24-2006, 04:03 PM
I ralize you may have been with him for 10 years and he is in prison or jail on domestic violence. Question - Why would you want to have another child with someone who would hurt you? Sweetie abuse is not love. It is about control. I know, been there and done that. It only took one time and I walked and never looked back. Yes I raised my child by myself. I didn't want my child to be raised in a abusive environment and I have to ask why would you. You have two children, you should start thinking about your children first. They are innocents. I am being honest as honest as I can be. No you are not crazy but I do believe your priorities need to be readjusted. I am sorry but it is the truth...
RMDILUV
08-30-2006, 04:06 PM
I know how you feel when I turned my man in I was very upset and he was facing 5 years.. At that time I was like I'm going to be 26 when he gets out and I would like 1-2 kids more but have him be the dad. But I had to come to my senses and realize that I put him in there for a reason and why would I want another baby by him? Well hun guess what I still want another baby by him that hasn't changed by I need to know deep down in my heart he has changed because it's not worth me being scared for my life everyday.... I hope all works out for you and your family and that both are men change!!!