last night my brother stopped by my house. I am suprised he even still knows where I live. My neice is visiting (his daughter) and I allowed her to answer the door. OMG, it is what I expected from him, if I had answered the door, but not what I thought he would do when she answered. That we knew of, he did NOT know that the kids were here. I stayed in the kitchen, as, he and I cannot talk and I allowed my neice to go to the door. She came back to my kitchen, hurt, and I said to her, remember, I listened to him, and I just gently told her, baby, we know what the problem is, and it is not you problem, nor mine.

Ah sorry to hear about that Galgrif (((hugs)))

{{{{Big Hugs}}}} Hang in there

It is hard for kids when their parent is an addict. they never know what they are going to get out of them.I know that my girls just dont talk aout him anymore and when he does call and babble some things at them they know he really is not going to come through with these things.. If just once they could feel the pain that they cause the kids in all of this. I know that my ex their dad will never find a sober life, he just changes drugs!! Hugs to you and your neice!!!

Thanks everyone, I was just upset, and I hate it that these kids have to go through his crap. They know what is going on; we have not hidden it, it would be impossible to do. He went through a clean and sober year and his kids adore him, or the real him anyway. Personally, I just hope he gets caught before something BAD happens.

I am sorry you had to go through that and that his daughter did too.. It makes me feel so sad to see what the loved ones of addicts have to go through....

I am sorry! Thank God they have their Aunt!!