Marci
07-31-2003, 07:34 PM
Ok, someone hold me down, I'm soooo angry with the jail medical care again. The court order telling them that Kevin is to receive all of his meds as ordered has been violated yet again. This is what Kevin was told last nite when he asked why he didn't get 3 of his meds: " Mr. FArris, if you wanted to hang out in a hospital then instead of committing a crime, you shoulda had surgery".
Yep, these sure are professionals. Silly me, I always thought that people who worked in a jail (at least medical professionals there) must have a reason why they like to work there - OR THEY WOULDN'T!
So, being the overprotective wife that I am, I call to speak nicely with the nurse, just to gently remind them that we have a court order, not to mention that I provide 100% of his meds, they don't cost the jail a dime. Not only was I treated less than a human being, she hung up on me! So, tonite when Kevin called, he knew I had called them because the nurse got snotty with him and told him "You don't need to call your wife to tell her every little thing, do you?" And then she missed several more meds tonite.
I don't know what else to do. i have his medical POA and truly don't usually get involved unless there's nothing that Kevin can do. I want to call the superintendant tomorrow and discuss it with him, but I'm scared that they will take it out on Kevin. Do you think they will? He wants me to, he's tired of being punished with withholding his meds - I just don't want to risk getting him in trouble. I know the jail handbook they can't get in trouble for such things, but I know that's untrue.
I just don't understand the theory behind withholding meds - except for punishment and to make someone uncomfortable. Kevin keeps a log of other inmates medication problems and send them home to me - he's not the only one. Kevin has been nothing but polite, never has a harsh tone with his voice, treats others with respect, has never been written up nor been disciplined for anything, and still they can't treat him with human respect. I've never committed any crime and I'm treated with disrespect because I care about how my husband is being treated.
Should I call the superintendant tomorrow? Is Kevin going to feel the repurcussions of me "tattling"? I want him out of there ASAP, but not to the cost of his health!
Yep, these sure are professionals. Silly me, I always thought that people who worked in a jail (at least medical professionals there) must have a reason why they like to work there - OR THEY WOULDN'T!
So, being the overprotective wife that I am, I call to speak nicely with the nurse, just to gently remind them that we have a court order, not to mention that I provide 100% of his meds, they don't cost the jail a dime. Not only was I treated less than a human being, she hung up on me! So, tonite when Kevin called, he knew I had called them because the nurse got snotty with him and told him "You don't need to call your wife to tell her every little thing, do you?" And then she missed several more meds tonite.
I don't know what else to do. i have his medical POA and truly don't usually get involved unless there's nothing that Kevin can do. I want to call the superintendant tomorrow and discuss it with him, but I'm scared that they will take it out on Kevin. Do you think they will? He wants me to, he's tired of being punished with withholding his meds - I just don't want to risk getting him in trouble. I know the jail handbook they can't get in trouble for such things, but I know that's untrue.
I just don't understand the theory behind withholding meds - except for punishment and to make someone uncomfortable. Kevin keeps a log of other inmates medication problems and send them home to me - he's not the only one. Kevin has been nothing but polite, never has a harsh tone with his voice, treats others with respect, has never been written up nor been disciplined for anything, and still they can't treat him with human respect. I've never committed any crime and I'm treated with disrespect because I care about how my husband is being treated.
Should I call the superintendant tomorrow? Is Kevin going to feel the repurcussions of me "tattling"? I want him out of there ASAP, but not to the cost of his health!