Hi there,
I've been writing 2-3 times a week for 3 weeks now... haven't heard a word back. I got a letter my baby sent me, postmarked the first day he was in Wasco... I sent him a stationary packet, and just kept on writing... figuring he'd know I think of him every second of everyday. Now its been 3 weeks, and no word. Nothing. I had feared (deep down in my gut) that in someway... he was kinda homesick... and the home he was thinking about was his cell. I fight the thought, but everyday I start to try and accept the possible reality -he believes life is easier in there, and things "arent so real".
We're engaged, and were to be married at the end of August. He had been on parole for 13 months, and was taken in on a parole hold... no new charges, but the day he was to be released (I waited for his call to go pick him up from county)... he was instead transferred to Wasco.
My knees gave out, I couldnt breathe, my mind went blank... and I'm still in limbo. I dont want to go on and act like he doesnt exist... I cant even fake it.
I guess Usher said it best... "You got it bad".

Any advice?

-M-

Hang in there girl, your love will arrive. We have to wait so long sometimes for a simple letter, yet it is what keeps us going on. As women, we always read too much into it when we dont hear from our loved ones, just hang tight, you will get a letter soon. Good luck.
Cindy

Some of the mail rooms are so far behind it may take 3-5 weeks for one letter you sent him to arrive to him, hang in there keep writing and once they know for sure he is there and he starts getting them he will love everyone of them :thumbsup: