hey all, last week my man was moved to DMCC and hopefully this week my man will be seen by the doctor so I can visit him next weekend. I am kinda of nervous about my first contact visit with him. It's been a year since we have touched and I don't know what to do with myself...I am really excited but scared at the same time. what exactly are we allowed to do? he seems to think that we can kiss and sit next to each other but i don't see that happening. I told him that we would be alowed to sit accros from one another but not next to each other and he is still convinced that is not how it is going to happen. if you all have any information for me please let me know. i was reading all the posts on DMCC and didn't find anything to help with the contact part. is it going to be the same as when he was out, will it be more intense, am i making a big deal out of nothing? what do you all think? thanks,

howtodeal

hey girl, i know how you're feeling!!! i don't know how i'll react when i'll be able to actually touch my man!!! it's been 4+ yrs since we've touched, and it will be atleast another few months, because unfortunately, if i'm not his "wife" or a family member, we have to have visits behind glass....but girl, enjoy every moment!! i'm sure i'll have the same butterflies you're having when i'll finally be able to touch my man again!! and yes, you will be able to kiss him...at the beginning and at the end of your visit...atleast in texas you can...and you can hold hands across the table....let us know how it went!!! good luck!!

It depends on what table you get assigned. If it just you and they give you a 2-seater, then you are across from each other. If they are all filled, or you take someone with you, then you get a 4-seater. YOu can then sit next to him, but there are partitions under the table so you can't touch knees or anything.

You can hug and kiss (within reason) when you see him and can hold hands across the table while visiting. When you stand to leave, you can hug and kiss again. You won't have any problems if you don't overdo it.

I hope they clear him and you can have a hug :D

that is so funny, i just got off the phone with him and all he can talk about are the visits and how he can't wait. he is so excited about being able to eat with me!!!! i guess it is the small things that mean the most. i am really nervous....it is all i can think about.i hope i get a two seater, just so i can sit next to him and not accros from him, i am tired of standing accros from him looking through glass.

if u want to sit next to him you need the 4 seater... the 2 seaters are across from each other... no chance of sitting next to each other....have a great visit!

Enjoy ur visit.......

Now It All Depends Where You Go Kmcc You Have To Sit Across From Him Even When You Have 4 Seats. But When You See Him Its Going To Feel Like When You First Feel In Love When You Felt That First Tngle In Your Belly When He Touches You. It Is Going To So Great That You May Think You Our 16 Again. have A Wonderful Visit!