View Full Version : My First Contact Visit At Sussex


Jamahal'sWifey
05-01-2006, 12:24 PM
Yesterday I went on my first contact visit!!! While waiting for him to come down I was looking through the glass window impatiently waiting for him. Then when he came I started jumping up and down like a little kid getting their first bike!!!:fb: :yay: I didn't care who was watching me. Then when we finally were near eachother, I just gave him the biggest hug in the world. I wanted to melt in his arms:faint: , I felt so protected... I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. It felt so good to feel his touch after a little over 14 months. We kissed and his lips felt so good and soft.:drool: Then when we went and sat down it was like heaven:blush: . I didn't even wanna get up to get the food because I didn't want to leave him and also didnt wanna waste our valuable time. So we talked about everything. It was so great. I wish I could've went back to his cell with him!!! When it was time to leave we stood up and kissed for like 3 whole minutes, he was all over me and my shy self was trying to move his hands from off of my butt, beacuse I didnt want him or I to get in any trouble. The guard was cool he didn't say anything. We even kissed during the visit. OOOHHH I felt his you know what while he was kissing me on my hot spot and I had to stop because my hormones just started racing, I wanted to as they say jump his bones right there on the visiting floor. We went to the front of the visit room to say goodbye and of course he started up again, and this female guard saw him and was like visit is over now:argh: :no: :blah: :rolleyes: . She was hating but anyway needless to say my visit was WONDERFUL, and I can't wait to see him this Saturday. Two times a month won't due I need to see him every weekend!!!

ceehatch
05-01-2006, 04:16 PM
Congrats on such a great visit... Just be careful with the kissing and so forth, some places can terminate a visit early, if you get a really bad one they can stop visits altogether for a while. I am happy for you though! Just hang in there!

G's Sunshine
05-02-2006, 07:00 AM
Glad you had such a good visit... I told you it was not so bad. Please follow ceehatch's advice though and be very careful about the display of affection. There is one group there that works about one weekend a month who are more lenient than others, and it sounds like you got them this weekend .....good for you. But there are several who are pretty harsh and won't think twice about terminating your visit even for holding hands.

Daveswife
05-03-2006, 10:03 PM
That's great, glad you had a good visit!

darkchocolateon
05-21-2006, 04:47 PM
I'm glad the you enjoyed your visit with your man!! I know the feeling of not being able to visit for a while and when you finally get that visit you don't want to waste any second of the visit for food and or otherwise. I am the very same way when I go to visit my man too. I get so involved in our visit, that I don't want to get up for anything. LOL, I'm shy too when my man gets a case of the touchy feelies too, lol :). Just be careful, and YES they will hate on you too if you appear to be having too much of a good time. Good luck on the your visits, and I hope that they all go well for you.

tmaven
07-18-2006, 10:21 AM
My boyfriend just got transferred there! I am impatiently waiting for them to approve my visits. I just sent the form back. Not long now. He was at Powhatan and the visits were awesome! After not being able to touch him for like two years! I went crazy!:dance: The guards there are a bit nicer than others. But we didn't care!

tmaven
07-18-2006, 01:10 PM
What kind of pictures can I send to him? What size? Do I have to be fully clothed or what?:confused:

tmaven
07-18-2006, 01:20 PM
i know what you mean when I visited they looked at me like I was violating or something!:blah: They are there to make sure the inmates and vistors don't break the rules not to be hating like that! I know the last time I visited we had a little fun ourselves:blush:! I was so nervous. But like you said you have to really careful. They know inmates have limited services and they hold visits over their heads.

dwfighterva
07-18-2006, 05:06 PM
What kind of pictures can I send to him? What size? Do I have to be fully clothed or what?:confused:

You can send in pictures that are 4 x 6 that are regular photographs. You can send in larger ones if done on a printer with regular paper. As for the clothing, I would limit it only to what you are comfortable with. Also know this, they do share pictures with their friends to show off their women and children, etc. So unless you know he won't show any nudes, or you are comfortable with it if he does, then by all means, go for it!

dw

Tony's BX ChicC
02-18-2007, 04:46 PM
Wow I Cant Wait 4 My 1st Visit Which Is Next Weekend.

LeAnn1821
06-10-2007, 12:06 PM
GOD!! that sounds like the absolute perfect visit!!! I pray tha mines turns out that way!!:)