CCI ladys i was thinking about this thought so i thought i would bring it to our round table, Now after your man come home is there a time frame that u feel he needs to get a job? or is there no pressure?

When My Husband Comes Home Were Going To Kick It For 2 To 3 Weeks Because We Have A Lot Of Places We Want To Go, But After That He's Going To Be On The Grind. He's Starting School In The Summer Plus He Wants To Work. He's Going To Be Starting His Business Again So We Don't Have Anytime To Waste. I Don't Really Have To Say Anything To Him About It Because He Knows The Business. He Knows How We Like To Live And He Has To Be A Good Role Model For Our Kids. He's A Grown Ass Man And If I Have To Pressure Him To Work We Have Some Serious Issues.

Well, Since my hubby is on that psch meds there, it is possible that will transfer to him out here, and he will get SSI..BUT that does NOT mean SIT SLEEP and IGNORE>.. because he will go to school.. and if he does NOT get SSI then he will have a 3month period before he will have to go home to mommy.. may be harsh, but he lived for FREE in the PEN..time to be in the REAL world.. and that is that..

He's been making plans for work when he gets home so I dont need to tell him. I've made it pretty clear that I'm carrying the burden now so we he gets home its his turn.

BVN - I totally agree with you about living for free in the pen, not to mention the money and packages we still send them...

Yep Im with V on the living free bizz.... My babe knows what he needs to do!!! And best believe he will handle bizzness!!! The right way this time. He learned his lesson 4yrs and 8months later!!!!

and dont think I dont have RECEIPTS cause I am getting reimburst.. I am NOT joking.... That is the business....

Damn girl your hard core......but I hear you...He has made comments about a business as well but I would like for himto educate him self before jumping in I know theresre people who do it without schooling and a degree but I would rather be safe than sorry....I have been bustin' my behind alot and if he wants to do it it IS going to be lagit....

Thank u ladys for your post and us a man knows his place and he knows what he has to do and i'm sure this time around all our husands will do what it takes to remain free and at home with us and our families

I KNOW MY HUSBAND IS GOING TO DO WHAT HE HAS TO DO. HE BETTER OR ELSE.:banghead: ....LOL:D

That right Hagan u go girl........lol butyall will be ok we all will

WITH GOD ON OUR SIDE WE WILL ALL PROSPER AND HAVE GOOD LIVES:thumbsup:

Mine aint got NO CHOICE... I mean well He does..Live free((go to jail)) Live And Work hard with BONUS' and PERKS..stay home wit Mami...Yup Thats right!!

Club Med........yall didn't know the hots spot around the world.......:D :D

i really think my baby is sick of not providing, so its wont be long before he is doing something, whether it is school or work. but im cool with him taking a break, not forever, but some time to unwind from the stress and adjust and give us some good quality time too

Well thank u discoball and welcome and hope tohear more for u and u continue to b strong and there 4 your man.........

I second that Groove

I second that Groove I third that what ever it was.....:blah:

UMMM WHAT ARE WE TALKIN ABOUT??LOL:confused:

I see u cought that 1 BVN :D :D It is the spot...........

Yeah I did.. and if I think I am thinking right.. then I am glad you are on here girl and that you started to become family... If I am right I am still gonna strangle that monkey....LOL
Good to see ya..

Be patient. If we waited until they were released then we can wait until they are employed. Be there for strength because we all know it will be hard for them.

I am PATIENT.. I have been waiting 10years, and patiently waiting for my family visits.. and waiting and waiting.. PATIENTLY.. But when he comes home, there is a thing called Patience running thin.. and I can NOT allow my husband to come home and do NOTHING.. he can do that there.. and plus my husband being the man that he is wont allow himself less than 2weeks, I mean he is already on the grind and is gonna have a job when he comes home.. So I stick to my statement..LOL
HE hase 90days... I want to rest now... And then I can wait..patiently for the checks from all his hard work..LOL
Nah... I get what you mean, I just think that if ANYONE wants anything outta life they wont stop til they get it.. I know xcons, and being an xinmate.. I know there are opportunities if you want um.. I am NURSE so it can be done.. I have a record and was VERY honest and got hired at UCLA so I know it can be done with FAITH in the LORD and ME by his side, my husband will never be just sitting around... WIshing.. He will HAVE.. WE WILL HAVE..and that is what all this is about..

V Preach On Girlfriend..i Know My Husband Wants To Make A Good Life For Our Family So I'm Not Even Worried. It's Not Even About Being Patient. A Man Should Know The Business No Matter What. I'm Handlin My Business So He Best Handle His And If For Some Reason I Can't Handle Business, I Know He Will. It's All Good.

Ok BVN I SEE U GIRL TELL IT LIKE IT IS.......and Yes WE HAVE ALL CAN TO FAR FOR TO LONG SO WE WILL BE AT THE GATES POST ON RELEASE DAY..................:D :D ;) ;)

Be at the gates..Ha, I am gonna be sleeping on the FRONT door step in my tent.. I am NOT going out like that..RELEASE... Hmmm that is all I have to hear and I am taking 3weeks off, we have ALLLLOOOOOTTT to do...Legit stuff first, PO,DMV, and RESUME starter..then SHOPPING...yeahhhhhhh!!!! But first he has to put in WORK...ALL DAY no BREAKS, well some breaks.. LOL

C BVN u r off your rocker but dont for get the burger king location.....lol:D :D :D

I am NOT talking to you ANYMORE..you are going BACK DOWN MEM LANE FA REAL!!!! I got my lysol wipes.. and I want my coffee tooo

MEN THERE U GO ..LOL MOTEL 6 THEY WILL LEAVE THE LIGHT ON...........

Hmmmmmm you went all the way there, and back again.. I cant even say nothing on that one... LOL

WAKE UP BVN U KNOW THE BUSINESS......LOL ON THE FLOOR FO REAL