HERE GOES ANOTHER ONE!:eek: I was talking to some girl when I went to visit my husband :love: the other week.She had asked me what would I do if I was in her situation?Let me tell you what the situation is,Her man was incacerated at calipatria, He ended up sending his stuff home to his sister's house.:no:well let me just say his sister must hate his lady, cause she sent her his package that contained his mail and his photos.:eek: In his pile of pictures she found pictures of her soo call best friend,:angry: bending over with only G-Strings :shake:Her friend sent him about 100 diffrent pictures over the years that he's been busted,and she also wrote him XXXXX-rated letters the most recent being about a month before he was transfered to KVSP.:angry:Through the letters she found out her friend was visiting her man, the weeks that she didn't go.:eek: And he had no idea that she found out about all this drama:(I forgot to mention that her man lives with her and they have2kids together.And now shes finding all this out about her man :cry:So what would you do!

Oh wow well that really sucks! I honestly have never been in that situation and I hope that I never find myself in a situation like that. But I think that I would just drop him, if this girl visited him repeatedly he could have done something about it and he should have let his lady know about it. And the pictures and letters he didn't have to keep them, he could of ripped them up.

I know that they have children and all but since you're asking for opinions will this is mine, I just don't know how I can trust someone that would do such a thing and with one of my friends. I think that they should talk about it but I also think that he should have told her that this girl was going.

I don't mean anything by any of this I'm just stating MY opinion. Best of luck to your friend and keep us posted. :)

Rebeca

WOW. That is crazy! Well, all I can say is that if that happened to ME, that man would be outta my life for good. I would NEVER let a guy treat me like that. And it wouldn't matter to me if we had children or not. Being a father is one thing, but being my man, NO WAY.

Laura, William'sBaby:heart:

YIKES is what first comes to mind. If it was me, I would definitely leave my husband, there is no excuse for that kind of behavior at all.. I would also cut the frienf out of my life also.

FIRST AND FOREMOST MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER I DONT KNOW WHAT SHE IS GOING THROUGH BECAUSE THAT HAS NEVER HAPPEND TO ME, BUT I COULD ONLY IMAGINE. I HONESTLY FEEL SHE SHOULD LEAVE HIM, A GUY THAT DOES THINGS LIKE THAT BEHIND YOUR BACK YOU DONT NEED IN YOUR LIFE. I KNOW SHE MIGHT HESITATE BECAUSE OF HER KIDS, BUT FROM EXPERIENCE I KNOW THAT IT'S WORSE FOR YOUR KIDS TO SEE THEIR MOM WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS DONE YOU WRONG.
I WISH HER NOTHING BUT THE BEST!!

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