View Full Version : Bailing your man out of his debts


blissful1
04-23-2006, 01:00 AM
Recently my comadre MissS? called me up asking for some advice,RE: her mans debts. ''She said her man called her up begging her to pay his debt Again:shake:''She was worried cause she didn't have the funds to do it,and shes afraid of what might happen to him if she doesn't ''.My advice to her was to PenutButter and Jam.'' being that she met him while he was incarcerated,:shake: thats all shes been doing is bailing his ass out of problems.:nono: Shes more like his Sugar Mama not his soo called lady:shrug:What advice do you girls have ,and WHAT WOULD YOU DO:idea:

lostintheweb
04-23-2006, 08:28 PM
What kind of debts? Prison debts to other inmates? Or debts for something else?

blissful1
04-23-2006, 09:16 PM
About every debt you can think of!:idea: He gets high off of her expense , then expects her to bail him out of his bull#@*%:shake:.I told her to get on.:yes:Ever since the day she met him thats all shes been doing, I think ,he thinks, shes his personal bank.

deeanna559
04-23-2006, 10:41 PM
WELL LET ME JUST SAY THAT MISSS. IS A REALLY NICE PERSON FOR DOING THAT, I KNOW SHE REALLY CARES FOR THIS PERSON, YOU COULD TELL BY HER ACTIONS. I JUST FEEL THAT SHE SOULDNT BE AFRAID OF TELLING HIM THAT SHE IS DOING BAD ON HER FINANCES. I KNOW SOMETIMES IT'S HARD FOR THEM TO UNDERSTAND THAT WE TOO HAVE OUR DEBTS, BILLS, AND RESPONSIBLITES OUR HERE TOO. I COULD RELATE TO HER SOMEWHAT BECAUSE I MET MY FRIEND WHEN HE WAS ALREADY INCARCERATED, AND HE DOES ASKS FOR HELP SOMETIMES, AND I DO HELP HIM OUT WHEN I CAN, BUT WHEN I CAN'T I LET HIM KNOW AND HE UNDERSTANDS. SO DON'T BE AFRAID, IF THIS PERSON CARES FOR YOU HE WILL STICK BY YOUR SIDE THROUGH GOOD AND BAD TIMES.

GOOD LUCK MISSS!!!