Ok, here is another HOT one... I was talking to my husband on this topic... Now, Do you think that when your Husband/boyfriend/penpal..whatever has ALOT of time and NO visits((Fam Bam)) having a relationship((sexually)) with someone of the same sex is considered CHEATING...And would you do that, or would you cheat with a guy , or NOT cheat at allll. Would you leave because of the sentence, or would you hang in there and be HIS support and backbone??? Yeah I told you girls this is a HOT one .... Lets put it on the table..

BVN's OPINION:rolleyes:
ok, First I believe that with a male or female CHEATING is CHEATING.... Well, from reading my post before about the FAITHFUL thing then you already know that I could NOT hang in there in the beginning... So I would have been the Leave and cheat....
Now, if Hypothetically he got more time now and we could NOT get Fam Visits... I think Honestly I would be a Nun, or a Full fledged Lesbian.. HE would be my dude.. My husband.. But I would want that companionship I am sure.. and this would cause tension between he and I , BUT not as much as being with a guy or leaving him for dead.... and plus I can NOT see me with another man... I take my VOWS very serious...
THEN THERE IS THE QUESTION:confused: ....WHAT WOULD HE DO IF THE TABLES WERE REVERSED... and then my answer is a whole nu one..:eek: LOL!!!
I just thought this would be an interesting Topic..so rate the thread and get to posting.... Diamond415, Groovin, Hagan, Ay2b, and the rest!!! I can NOT wait to see what you post......Holla at yo girl.....I just might Holla back....SAWWWWWOOOOOOPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!
BVmuthafuc$$$n N..............Can't stop, Won't stop!!!;)

Girl cheating is cheating!!!!! What ever, there has to be a common agreement between the two parties. Shoot some folks get off on that I personally dont want my babe with another women! I also take my wows seriouse Now I couldnt never cheat on my man... I told you I learned alot from by bad choice!!!Thats my perspective whats your?????

It was a Hypothetical ques...If he got MORE time then he has NOW and NO fam visits... what would be your vice... Girls, guys, stick it out, or just give up???Me, I would be married to him either with a BIG arm from getting busy so much or a nun, or lesbo!! This is hypothetically women I AM NOT A LESBIAN!!! just to clear that up, I know some of us read really quick and miss the message.....

:confused: Help??BVN u r off the chain:) :) now its like this i'm down and i luv my husand and the only way i would except him and more time he better had 2 protect himself because i need him or i will tell him his wife is going 2 the left & having sex with the same sex thats a sin and 1 must talk with god on that 1 plus a disrepect to the marriage or relationship u feel me.But i will wait as long as i can but i'm going straight crazy already:eek: :eek: :eek:

Dang groovin so LOUD????? Its a very contrversial subject but please its all in fun!

YES DIAMOND I KNOW I WAS LOUD WASN'T I??? WILL GIRL SOMETIME I LIKE 2 BE HEARD OR I GET CARRIED AWAY:) :) BUT IT IS ALL GOOD

I haven't cheated but I've thought about it for about a second. My ex showed up around the same time my man got locked up (he had no idea he was gone). Then I started to think... well no one would know... it would be just a sex thing... what's it going to hurt? I came as close as to us having a date in mind to get together when it hit me like a ton of bricks. MY MAN was the only one I wanted to be with and no one could replace him, not even for a moment in time.

So I will wait for him always. There is no one else for me. And if it meant I was to be alone forever, well... that's what vibrators are for right?!

Real luv is hard to fine and when u do find real luv u must hold on to it..........

Groovin PUMP your BRAKES...LOL
I know what the bible says and I do NOT mean sexually I am gonna be going with the girl, but as companionship..YUP!!!!!!!And I will be a NUN...LOL
STOP YELLING GROOOVE, you will wake up the slackers on PTO..and you catch laryngitis

BVN dont worry i'm on low key and i feel ya.

Wow, Groove is that you?? You are so quiet I did NOT hear you come in..LOL!!!

Hey groove! That low key stuff is cool... You kinda freaked me out I thought you were gettin mad!

lol..... Groove was just letting herself be heard.. Now she has laryngitis...LOL

Okay First Off If He Gets More Time For Something He Caused I'm Going To Be A Pissed Off B**ch. If He Has Sex With A Man, He Is Not Putting His D**k In My Stuff After It Has Been In Some Man's A**. I'm Not Against Being Gay, But If You Wanna Be Strickly Di**ly Like Me Then Please Just Leave Me. If He Cheats Then I'm Going To Keep It To Pushin' Wheher It Was With A Male Inmate Or One Of The Hooka Co's. Now When He Gets Home We May Be Able To Work Things Out, But I Would Go About My Business. Not Saying I Would Be Out Looking For Someone Else, But I Would Just Keep It To Pushin. I Can't Predict The Future, But Damn Cheating Is Cheating.

OK BVN & Diamond u know i know the business :) lol but i'm here when yall need me...........:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

LOL, you better be Groove you got some kids to watch((refering to post what when where and how.. )) exactly,.. so get ready cause here we come!!!!!!!!

I Want To Babysit, Too..lol

Oh and you willl... I am saving all these offers to my documents...**winks**

;) Should I Just Pm You The Address Right Now..lol:d

BRing it..

Ok BVN i will b waiting 4 the kids but if they get out of line i have something 4 them..lol:D

Girl.. My kids are gonna be like those kids on SOund of Music..LOL

Girl whatever you are drinkin', smokin', or takin'........LOL..... I want some because you have to be on something if you think yo kids are going to be like that you are trippin' they all get wild eventually........

Only BVN has the jokes that will have u LOL:D :D

YEAH V IS OFF THE HOOK

Yes BVN where r u??? come on post up..........:D :D :D

Wiping eyes... Yawning... Well I had to put them BAD ASS kids to sleep((LOL)) I have a PINK stuffed hound dog that I act like is my baby and take her EVERYWHERE even to the visits..LOL NOT IN THO..n my hubby plays along with his crazy wife..ahhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!

OK BVN thats it u even have your hubby acting crazy.........lol:D :D i'm seeking family help for u all

I accept the help.. and you must get the billl....

Don't worry BVN as long as u and the hubby except the HELP i will handble the bill........lol

Wow,. what in the HELL did I get me n B into...LOL I talked to him and he asked how our daughter was..LOL
that is sooooo cute.. HE knows our son was in Fiji with his family and now he is in Belize with mine...U see, we want our children to have all the education on their heritage, and my daughter stays with me learning..shopping, cooking, nails and feet done, and shopping..LOL
Groove get outta here, stop tryna have me committed before B comes home, cause then you gotta watch my stuffed animal, I mean my daughter..LOL

Its all good BVN i know how she is so i know she need her mommy ....lol so u have to with her b cuz i dont want her wrap u in a ACE bangage agaiu....LOL:D :D :D

Like others have said depending on what he gets more time for , his fault I gone "things happen" I'm still down. Already I am trippen but fish I can't get with and the itch can make you crazy and it has crossed my mind but I am afraid of God and karma. Lucky me there hasn't been a guy in reach first thing in the morning or late at night. lol

If he messed with a man hell no OVER I have gay male friends so thats not the issue I can't mess with a man that swings both ways.

Cheating is cheating.

Ok..Groove you did NOT have yo go there.. And it is you who broke the back bone... Hmmm Watch out for flying purses everyone..LMAO..I have 2 Ace bandages now.. Because she fell off the bed...5xs...Wow..B is gonna Kick my Bootay!! And look at you Ms 4ever..I see you cant get enough of the topics..do yo thang girlie..!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL ......O MY GOD BVN WHAT R U OVER THERE DOING U REALLY NEED SOME HELP.......LOL

YEA... FIjian Tea.. And some B meds.. I am gonna be alright come next year and I am gonna really PLAY crazy..well B knows the bizness.. I mean it takes a crazy to know a crazy..so hey what does that make you Groove....KRAZY!!!!!!!

BVN I'V BEEN KRAZY AND OFF THE CHAIN FOR A LONG TIME SO ITS ALL GOOD......AND U KNOW U AND B R AMDE FOR EACH OTHER.............

LOL..BVN til the END....He knows the routine..His grave my prison term...yeah

IT'S ALL TO THE GOOD U KNOW I KNOW THE GET DOWN.........

And maybe the ONLY one that KNOWS the REAL BVN...LOL

IT'S ALL 2 THE GOOD LETS DO WHAT WE DO AND LETS KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK COME ON V U CAN DO IT....LOL........:D :D :D