:idea: A Question 2 all the CCI ladys??Now i have a concern and i want 2 know some of yall input now we all know that some of these c/o females r no good and have their eyez on our mens 24-7 and some of them i know have made passes or have tried acting like they had 2 become involved with some of these inmates, now how would u feel if 1 of them approached your man? and do u think he would tell u if 1 did? Please give me your inputs???????? Thank u

I am not trippin off the female c/o's at all. I also try not to let negativity get into our relationship. But sometimes the devil does try hard to push his way in so I just PRAY even harder! Another thing if my man left me for a c/o then he would be stupid because that women could never be me! Amen!

Dont think that it is just tha Cos tha men have alot to do with it toooo. Now, I know that they have tryed to holla at my man, but I am NOT trippen, what we share is to deep.. The COs are like a gang, and believe me they will save their butts before anything, and they try and set some of them up tooo. I am NOT insecure and have NO doubts in my mind when it comes to my HUSBAND.. I mean I put NOTHING past a man, but I have FAITH in my Lord and my vows.. Plus, I have seen them Cos on his yard...((Scally wags)) and as far as him telling me if that happened, I know he would... Because he told me bfore..so that is what I am thinking of.. and as far as them hitting on the inmates...It is a 2way street!!! And with God for me who can be against me..Bump them Hos!!!!!!!

Well thank u ladys for your input and yes i trust my husand but thoes c/o's are no good and i dont trust them..............

Well, As long as you trust your hubby, then that is alll that matters... Because Again it takes two!! so if he aint wit it..she gotsta move on... Ya heard..Holla Sawwooopn

That is so true it definitely takes two to tango. And as long as we have faith in our Almighty God everything will eventually be OK. The devil will always try to interfere but with God by our side it is all good. Trust in our men is so important. I God has created the rock that both my man and I now stand on.

God Bless!

AND YOU ALL R SO RIGHT I GUESS THATS WHY ME & MY HUSAND BEEN HANGING IN THERE SO LONG AND LUV EACH OTHER THE WAY WE DO BUT I THANK U FOR YALL INPUT........

THEY HAVE THIS POST ON ANOTHER MESSAGE BOARD AND I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW MANY INMATES HAVE BEEN HIT ON. THESE WOMEN CO'S DO IT BECAUSE THEY ARE INSECURE AND THE FEED ON THE FACT THAT OUR HUSBANDS, BOYFRIENDS, ETC. ARE AWAY FROM US AND VERY LONELY. I TRUST MY HUSBAND AND I AM NOT ABOUT TO BE WORRIED ABOUT SOME "HOOKA" AKA CO TRYING TO GET AT MY BABY. I HAVE TO MUCH TO WORRY ABOUT AT HOME. I THINK HE WOULD TELL ME IF IT DID, BUT I WOULD TELL HIM TO LAUGH IN HER FACE FOR ME.

HOOKA'S Thats what they are!!!!!!!

Im witcha on that one girl!

Oh my goodness girlys that is the perfect word for them "HOOKA'S"

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Thats what they are girl. If they are that low that they have to hit on our vulnerable men then they are straight HO'S! Hooka's and some more words I dont want to post! Always stay trustin your man! Thats where the business is at!!!!

Yes Yes hookers,hoes,tramps,etc this is what these c/o females r 2 me but we r not going to trip off them we will continue to show our luv and support 2 our men and not allow them 2 think they have it like that.........

Thats right groovin!!! See thats what I am talking about! Girl!

I WAS WRITING MY HONEY A LETTER THIS MORNING AND I KEPT THINKING I SHOULD ASK HIM IF A FEMALE CO HAS EVER TRIED TO HIT ON HIM, EVEN A MALE CO..U KNOW THEIR ARE SOME MALE CO'S WHO THINK ARE HONEYS ARE FINE;) , BUT ANYWAY IT'S NOT EVEN WORTH IT TO ME. IT DOESN'T MATTER BECAUSE HE'S MINE AND WE LOVE EACH OTHER WITH EVERYTHING WE HAVE. I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT A CO HITTING ON MY HUSBAND UNTIL I READ SOME POSTS. LADIES HONESTLY OUR MEN LOVE US AND WE LOVE THEM AND WE HAVE SO MANY OTHER BURDENS IN OUR LIFE THAT THINKING ABOUT IF SOMEONE WANTS OUR HUSBANDS/BOYFRIENDS IS RIDICULOUS. IF IT HAPPENS TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT. TRUST IN YOUR MAN AND KEEP IT TO PUSHIN'.:thumbsup:

Thats right thats how I feel. You gotta pick your battles wisely if you wanna win them and thats not even a battle to me.. I mean really what could ever come of that drama! I trust my man to the fullest and I am not gonna let the devil even try to get into what I got! FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!!!!!!

That's Right

See, I knew I was gonna have to show up on this one again... Stop given this women POWER the more we post about it the more our MINDS wonder.. like I said before, it is NO different then the MEN((A$$holes)) on the streets that try and hit on us, especially when they find out where our men are.. and then again it takes two... so she can hit on him, he can hit on her but regardless, they will both have to agree or that is that.. That is the same thing for these men out here, does not mean we are F"ing them or that they are this or that, we say NO... so I look at it this way, I trust my hubby., and he trust me... so Hagan, dont even open up a can of worms, he is coming home.. Who cares if a CO hit on him, if that is the case we might as well get mad about alllll the women that have hit on our men.... Right ladies, you know I am Right on this one.. AND plus, truth be told most of the men hit on them and try and cover it up!!!! I mean come on, lets keep it real.... IT is NOT the Hookas fault, shit it is the TRICKS as well, and Yeah I am saying any man that falls victim to that and any woman on the streets((and her man is locked up)) is a TRICK!!!'and the CHEATER in general is INSECURE!!! so lets talk about it.. Tha majority of the CO women are single.. ok, so lets say it does happen WHO is more at fault.. the CO or our MEN...thats right..our men, because they are in a relationship..she is NOT..just like the ones who cheat while there men are in jail...C'mon it is the cheater NOT the one who is NOT committed...Unless they both are...then mmmm, whole nother story!!!!!!!
Well, enough on that... My man has his HOOKA right here and he is my Trick, and we are gonna make Pimpish love..LOL(( on the floor laughin my ass off)).......Shut up Diamond..I can hear your a$$ now!!!
BVN
Im Out ((leanin to the side, with that gangsta lean)) LOL

You are sooooooooo crazy! You knew I was gonna crack up on that one... You know me to well!!! V you are the a very unique friend and I am glad I found you girl! You are about the realist female I have met besides myself in along time. Everything you said above is so tru!!!!! What does the song say "Gangsta's dont dance they LEAN wit it, rock wit it"? So when your makin that Pimp Luv girl just know that you are a down ass female that knows how to handle yo bizness!!! You Hooka and tell the Trick he betta stay in pocket! ahahahaha! You know I cant even laugh right now because of my surgery and you had me yes on the floor hollorin!!!

LOL... I just laughed so loud that I could NOT believe that I laughed that loud...I gotta keep it real and I think that is why some females Hate me soooo, and that is ok.. Because I keep my homies CLOSE and my enemies CLOSER!!!!! and yeah he is gonna stay in pocket. and it is the business....Pimp Pimp on.... Im in love with an inmate... (( bump a stripper)) LOL
AND if he gets outta pocket.. then I am gonna have to put my PIMP hand up...LOL

Ok BVN u need help u r really crazy :) but what u said is so true and i'm not mad at u,,,,,,,,,

I do NEED help...I need MY dayum NYQUIL!! ANd I am NOT getting it.. so I am on one, but tonight I check in to the hosp. to have my surg tomorrow..REAL SHIT!! NOT The mental ward..they turned me down.. so I am on my way!!
I am CCCCRRRRAAAZZZZIIIIIEEEEEE........SSSSAAAWWWWWOOOO OOPPPP!!!!!!!

Your gonna have something better than Nyquil girlfriend its just a matter of time you watch! Ill say a prayer for you tonight!
Luv Ya
Di

OK A QUICK POST NOW MY FELLOW CCI LADYS WE HAVE A MEMEBER WHO NEEDS OUR HELP AND SUPPORT SO IF SEE HER CALL 911 OK HER NAME IS BVN SHE IS ON 1:D :D :D LOL

Bvn My Prayers Are With You While Your In Surgery. Anyone Reading This Post Please Take A Moment And Say A Prayer For Her And Her Well Being. I Hope You Have A Quick Recovery. God Bless

When ever u post in BVN u will see every 1 really miss u and is keeppin u in pray.

My Bestfriend Told Me Last Night That Her Oldest Daughter's Father Is In Prison For 25 Years To Life And He Married A Co He Met While He Was In County. She Said She Is Tore Up Too. I Think Those Co's Are Just Insecure And Aren't Very Strong Minded.

Hey Hagan i just red your post and yes this c/o females really don't need 2 work in men prisons or jails b cuz they r nothing but trouble the females need to work with womens and the men need to work with the mens on the real..........

i see it like this.....as an ex-co.....u will always have good and badd...but thats any and everywhere u go!!!!!!! i know that co's approach my husband and its nothing for him to tell me.....hell they was after him at the unit i met him at so its nothing new to me!!!!!!! but heres the bottom line.......i trust him....if i didn't then i dont need to be married to him.....period!!!!!!

MY HUSBAND HAS TOLD ME ABOUT THE ONES THAT ARE SWEET ON THE GUYS. I KNOW THAT HE DOESNT PAY THEM NO MIND. I TRUST MY HUSBAND, SO THERE IS NO QUESTION.

I can't believe the how self centred you all sound. I was a Co (upgraded myself and became an addiction worker)...I am not a "hooka" and neither are my friends. Remember next time you visit your "man" remember the CO who choses to turn a blind eye at what you are not suppose to be doing (kissing touching).......remember who allows "special" privillages to your man? My husband has done 18 yrs total time behind the wall. When we first met (he was not in my custody) he got busted for something. We went away for 6 months. I hoped that there was a CO that liked him.....that is how I got longer phone calls, longer visits, he got extra meals, smokes, yard time.....and to boot he was given a job working outside (we don't have chain gangs in Canada). Working outside means the CO's have trust and respect in that inmate. And yes it takes 2 to tango. I got hit on all the time. I never instagated it or encouraged it. Yo'll watching to much Prison Break!
You all are so "God" fearing???? then who are you to judge these women?

:blah: HERE WE GO AGAIN. SOME PEOPLE REALLY JUST READ TO MUCH INTO THESE POSTS AND TAKE WHAT WERE SAYING HOW THEY WANT TO. OPEN YOUR EYES AND TRY TO GET IT THIS TIME. WERE NOT TALKING ABOUT EVERY WOMAN CO. WE ALL KNOW THEIR ARE SOME THAT ARE GOOD TO OUR LOVED ONES. HATS OFF TO THE ONES THAT ARE RESPECTFUL TO OUR LOVED ONES. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT THE ONES WHO GO BEYOND THAT AND FOR REAL TRY TO HOOK OUR LOVED ONES UP AND HOOK THEMSELVES UP AT THE SAME TIME. WE MUST HAVE HIT A NERVE WITH YOU RANGER. I'M GLAD YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING TO ENCOURAGE OR INSTIGATE ANYTHING(IF THAT'S TRUE). THAT'S ALL FINE AND DANDY, BUT THEIR ARE ONE'S THAT DO AND THEY ARE "HOOKAS". BE REAL. GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE AND COME BACK DOWN TO REALITY. IT'S ALL GOOD TO FEEL THE WAY YOU DO, BUT WHY DO YOU HAVE TO NAME CALL AND THEN TRY TO DISRESPECT US WITH SAYING SOMETHING ABOUT OUR BELIEFS? YOU ASK WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE THESE WOMEN. WE ARE THE GREAT, STRONG WOMEN WHO STAND BY OUR HUSBANDS SIDE AND ARE THEIR FOR THEM EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. WE HAVE A RIGHT TO JUDGE SOMEONE WHO IS HITTING ON OUR MAN KNOWING THAT THEY ARE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE ELSE. WE HAVE A RIGHT TO JUDGE THESE WOMEN IF THEY ARE NOT FOLLOWING THE RULES AND BE INSUBORDINATE AND VERY UNPROFESSIONAL. GET A LIFE AND STOP JUDGING US.

Well i see we have some 1 from the other side visiting us well hello Ranger i see u took a moment to read into our post and persnoally its all good b cuz their is alot of good women in here and we ALL love our husnads very much and see these C/O female need to do their job and not try and do the inmate and it does happen and yes it takes 2 to tango but some use their position as a weapon so we respect you input but we all have feelings and thats why we post and Hagan good looking out i and the rest of the ladys got each other back..........

I LOVE WHEN WE HAVE VISITORS. THIS IS NOT ONLY OUR FORUM, BUT EVERYONE'S FORUM TO POST, OFFER SUPPORT AND RECEIVE SUPPORT. I JUST DON'T AGREE WITH ANYONE PUTTING SOMEONE ELSE DOWN OR NAME CALLING. WE ALL DON'T ALWAYS AGREE WITH EACH OTHER AND THAT'S WHAT MAKES US WHO WE ARE, BUT WE NEVER BAD MOUTH THE NEXT PERSON BECAUSE OF HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT SOMEONE OR SOMETHING. YES WE ADD OUR OPONION AND IT IS RESPECTED BY EACH ONES OF US,BUT WE NEVER DISRESPECT ANYONE.

Well hagan she is just a visit so it does not matter b cuz we all know the real...........

this is suppose to be a place where we can give our opinions on a subject right???? well i dont understand why u 2 are trippin on ranger when all shes doing is saying how she feels....so now who needs to get a life?????

Welcome CMHURD and RANGER glad to see that you are sharing your opinions on the forum.... Please keep it clean ladies its all about respect......

cmhurd~I AM NOT TRIPPIN ON ANYBODY. I'M GLAD YOU AND RANGER HAVE POSTED HERE. IN FACT I WELCOME BOTH OF YOU AND ANYONE ELSE WHO WANTS TO POST TO POST. THE MORE THE MERRIER..ALL I AM SAYING IS PLEASE DON'T CALL PEOPLE NAMES OR BE DISRESPECTFUL.

I can't believe the how self centred you all sound. I was a Co (upgraded myself and became an addiction worker)...I am not a "hooka" and neither are my friends. Remember next time you visit your "man" remember the CO who choses to turn a blind eye at what you are not suppose to be doing (kissing touching).......remember who allows "special" privillages to your man? My husband has done 18 yrs total time behind the wall. When we first met (he was not in my custody) he got busted for something. We went away for 6 months. I hoped that there was a CO that liked him.....that is how I got longer phone calls, longer visits, he got extra meals, smokes, yard time.....and to boot he was given a job working outside (we don't have chain gangs in Canada). Working outside means the CO's have trust and respect in that inmate. And yes it takes 2 to tango. I got hit on all the time. I never instagated it or encouraged it. Yo'll watching to much Prison Break!
You all are so "God" fearing???? then who are you to judge these women?

She never called anyone any names that I see. The only names I heard called are the ones referring to the c/o's, which by the way is against PTO Rules. Now about the thread.

Never worry about it because my man loves me and me only. No matter what female trys to make it different.

Well i believe in Freedom of speech and i do respect others as they respect me so to all those who post thank u 4 your input and all i have 2 say i luv my husand and he loves me and we will b as 1 soon thank u.........

Well, It Doesn't Matter What Was Said, I Guess. If She Didn't Call Out Any Names(self-centered)then She Didn't. It's All Good. I Wasn't Trippin Anyway. I Was Just Saying Were Not Out To Dogg Anyone Out For No Reason. These Questions Are What If Questions And Plus Some Of This Stuff Does Happen. Anyhow Good Lookin Out On The Postssssssss. Keep Postin

Thumbs up to u Hagan b cuz we are better women then that and yes all POST will continue.......:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

I see I have to step in again... This is how it alll starts off.... We POST a THREAD(( sometimes in FUN and others just to see where it goes)) I think that The MAJORITY of the NEW PPL that come to CCI threads DO NOT READ ALLL AND EVERYONES POST... because if you did then WE WOULD NOT HAVE TO DO this all the time.. Ranger, Hon you are more than welcome to give your opinion.. BUT..DONT start it off by calling everyone SELF CENTERED... I realize you are/were a CO right?? Well, alot of us(( including me have delt with the BS from women COs, in any and ALL aspects, an hookin it up..Hmm, that would be the MALE COs... sorry.... I believe that a WOMAN CO has NO RIGHT to HOOK a MAN up with anything, because it leads to the TOPIC OF THIS POST... and I am gonna keep it real, I could careless about a CO male or woman, they do their job, sometimes a little off the charts and NOT the way it should be but they do what they think is right.. I think that if someone calls COs HOOKAs.whatever..small shit to giants.... I tell you the TRUTH.. PPL take these threads to LITERAL... It is like BLACK and whites GAys n Straights..WE ALL HAVE OUR right to speak on any subject.. but keep it on the topic... She or NO ONE else directed the HOOKA comment to anyone, these ladies have had some hard and bad experiences with the COs, and I have tooo... SO if ANYONE, anyone post...PLEASE read EVERY post and give your opinion, and if you disagree, do it with TASTE and TACT... this is the 2nd THREAD that we have and NO ONE READS .... COME on... Lets go to other THREADS girls...AND continue our love...CONTINUE TO POST And STAND for something or fall for anything...
THANK YOU TO ALL WHO HAVE POSTED...PLEASE LETS JUST READ READ READ..its NOT HARD, that way EVERYONE can see how to disagree with taste.. I mean I am a CCI wife, and I disagree with some of the POST. BUT never talk down to the THREAD STARTER or ppl who dont see it my way..THIS IS IT...I HAVE SAID ENOUGH..God bless you all....

Thanks V for puttin it down in a tactful way and I only hope that you comments aren't twisted into something else.....see you on the threads

And......................that was another great post by BVN!!!!!

Shhhhhh Di I am trying to be incognito...Dont say my name to loud..I am a WANTED woman, Thats it.. I am going to change my name... !!LMAO!!!

V you can change your name all you want but we would all know it was your crazy behind the minute you posted....LOL

LMAO..Yeah there could ONLY be ONE me...LOL
So I guess I am BUSTED!!! Hahahahaha

Undeniably god broke the mold when he made you!!!!!!!!!

((Smiling)) Yeah I guess HE did...and I am happy..and he broke it when he made B tooo, LOL
2 peas in a bucket, Fu...It

thats the way it should be...right!

THAT'S RIGHT:thumbsup:

With all said we will continue to post get alone be happy and enjoy all the luv and support we give each other and keep it pushing........:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

hallalujah!!!!!!!!!

AMEN..........

Peek a boo.. I see you.. Yea we found the Threads....

I'M RIDING ON THE SIDE OF U SO I WILL SEE U ON THE 405 SOON...........LOL

Oh, now the yellow bandit and I am gonna strangle that monkey..eyeballn me

ITS ALL GOOD BVN ME AND MY MONKIES R ROLLIN 2 GETHER..........

LOL, I am gonna have you arrested for Animal cruelty... Stealing monkeys from the zooo, PUT UM BACK!!!!!!!

LOL........THERE U GO THEY R ALL MINES :D I HAVE PAPERS ON THEM,,,,,,,,,,