I was talking to my man the other day about comiing for my first contact visit and how excited I was. We got to talking about the Private visits and he was telling me that he wonders if they put something in the food to decrease the sexual urges of inmates. He tells me he hardly ever even thinks about sex anymore (thats not normal for him). :eek: I told him I would ask and see if anyone could help with this question.

Well if that infact was going on I think it would create a massive riot and worldwide news. Im sure they wouldnt do that let alone pay for the additional expense of whatever it might be.
You know prison can be very depressing and with depression some people end up with a decrease in their sex drive, it also can happen for prisoners who are recovering from drug addiction. Im quite sure he will be just fine when he comes home to you so dont be worrying about that ok !!!
Just reassure him that it doesnt matter now and things will all work out when he comes home to you.

The more that I thought about it I wondered if me being so excited about these visits has put to much pressure on him. Maybe thats why he mentioned this to me? Tomorrow when we talk on the phone I will be sure to let him know that whatever happens I am just greatfully for the time to spend with him. I realize that this is a priviledge that we don't all get.:)

:) Well I think you have it figured out !!! Treasure your moments together, just to be in the presence of those you love is a blessing. :)