Well hello 2 all the lady's who takes the time 2 post or reply 2 some of the things said in each post,my question and concern is were is every 1 it seems like their i only a few that joins in or is there not alot of cci lady's out there? b cuz i don't feel the luv :grouphug: so come on lady's we have thye ability 2 voice our fellings and concerns so lets get on the ball b cuz its great having p.t.o so holla ladys if u hear me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:thumbsup:

No one hollazzz, Only when they have questions, and I have NOT seen anyone REALLY post but Diamond, me,and now you... so I am wondering tooo.......But hey it is what it is....

Maybe we just have some shy ladies in the house! If thats the case ladies dont be shy... We are all in the same situation and WE all need the same support from eachother. Nobody can ever say they understand what we go through except other women who have loved ones incarcerated. So ladies/moms/sister/gentlemen come on lets all pull together like a family because this website is a great support system and I am VERY GREATFUL to have found it and you guys!
Much Love always!

Allllll, itsnt that Sweet... J/k
No, I know that there are some shy ppl on the site, but sometimes I feel like the ONLY time ppl post is if they have questions, I honestly feel like NO ONE really is on here to talk and get to know one another, unless we are in the wrong post... But I am gonna keep the FAITH......

I'm here! I KNOW that I wouldn't have gotten this far without you ladies!

So often it seems like there is one thing after another to worry about. Sometimes life can seem so very grim, and at times I tend to wallow in pools of self-pity. I believe that everything happens for a reason, and this rough time is an opportunity for me to grow spiritually and personally. I know this experience has made me more compassionate, more caring, more loving, and more aware of others pain.

I hope that I can give back to all of you what you have given to me.

Thank you & much love!

I know the few times that I have posted anything was to ask a question and I am sorry for not posting as much as I should. This is a great support system. There are so many times that I feel that no one understands me or what I am going through. I need to learn how to open up a little to you girls cause so many of you are going through the same thing.I am just a very quiet person and I have never done anything like this. But for you girls who have posted on a regular bases THANK YOU so much. God Bless.

Your so welcome... PTO is my way of getting through the rough times... Sometimes I sit and get bored and the time really starts ticking slower than before. Thats why I post on PTO so much, it helps the time go by when you have something other than a phone call that may never happen because someone else had a bad day. Do you girls feel me???? So in my pass time I look at post and read what other ppl are writing because it shows me that my husband and I are not the only ones going through the same things that other ppl are going through! I found PTO about a year ago and this year has really flew by fast becuase I wasnt dwelling in my miseries all the time.. Thanks PTO and Thanks to all my new friends I have made here, without you guys and this site time would be going at a snails pace!!!!
Forever friends PTO ladies as we will never forget this time of our life...

Hey girls, We are here, and if NO one feels comfortable at first PM a person and then get to know what the site is about.. I have found my comfort thru Diamond415 as crazy as that may sound, it is true..LOL(( Di I am j.k)) Nah!! But if it weren't for her Posting and posting and posting I would NOT be so active on here, I have to represent for the women without a voice and our men without a voice, so ladies..lets hold eachother in prayer and have a great NU family in one another....Welcome to alll and hope I can be of assistance on day..thank you to all for your post, questions, and concerns...
In this together..
BVN

Thats right V!!!!!! We are in this together. The more we post hopefully we can encourage others to post and you watch our family will get bigger and bigger!!!! I cant wait until we have our G2G in Mojave!!!!!! Did you decide when it was gonna be??
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No Di we are waiting for you... Cmon and do the dayum thang...

Ok I say May or June..... April wont work for me I got too much goin on.

WELL HELLO THEIR ALL THE STRONG WILLING WIVES OF CCI I THOUGT I WOULD TAKE A MOMENT 2 SAY HOW WONDERFUL U ALL R 4 GIVING EACH OTHER SUPPORT B CUZ WE ALL NEED IT B CUZ WE ALL HAVE A HUSAND OR BOYFRIEND LOCKED UP BEHIND THOSE COLD WALLS SO WE MUST GIVE THEM LUV AND SUPPORT AND GIVE OUR SELF THE SAME SO LETS CONTINUE THE GREAT GOOD........:thumbsup:

Alll I can say is SAAAAWWWWOOOOP!!!!!!! Oh, and the write up that my hubby got because of me when they terminated our visits, HA... they thought that was gonna stop us.. Well my hubbys Counselor.. went to his cell on Tues and told him the write up was DROPPED... Praise the Lord.. What does that mean you aske, Ok, lemme tell you.. that means he is on a Level 4 Yard(( majority lifers)) and his Medium A Custody allows us to NOW get Family VIsits.. that is the Shizzznit... I dont know WHEN but we will be the ONLY ones on Level 4 to have them so you know I am gonna leave my mark, for the next lucky family... Hahahaha, Diamond 415 its on, I better start doing Pilates and Stretchin and shit.. Gotta take some STAY UP all night pills instead of NYQUIL...lol
I am pumped.. Hopefully after my visits I will be posting.. and welcoming into this crazy A$$ world..Lil BVN...lol
ohhhWeeee!!!!!Poppin my colla....
Shake them haters offffff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Its on and Crackin..Holla holla holla!!!!!!!!!!!!Yeeeehawwwww!!!!!!1

Yeeehawww huh? I feel ya girl that was exactly how I was when I got my visit the first time... I couldnt even sleep the night before. It was straight crazy. Just remember just as fast as they approve them they can end them... So you and your man have to be on your P's and Q's all the time. Dont trip off the little things because the family visit is better than a weekend visit by far!!! Enjoy and yeah you better get on those stretches~!!~~ Peace out!

LOL, I am only GOnna go up there for the FVs I am reqtn to Dayumm, Oh Damien that I want Fri - Sun.. that is the business and I will get in line to see him on Sunday and then just shake til the next one.. THat is how we do that thurrrrr!!! And ONLY positivity Di, I am NOT even gonna claim them taking my visits.. I use to tell him I wish I was terminated so I could avoid him and the BS I had to go thru, and BAM!!!! SO the POWER of words, then I confessed to get them re-instated, his 115 dropped and FV given..and in that order is how I am receiving my BLESSINGS..PTL Girllll.. SO G2G on NYrs is very suitable.. bringing in 07 before our men touch Base...SAWWWWWOOOOP!!!!!!!!!!!