Ronnie'sHoney
03-06-2006, 12:10 PM
I was just curious if anyone's husband or boyfriend was married when you met him. Did he divorce to be with you or were you willing to be with him anyway?
This popped into my head and I wondered how many men inside or women outside were married when they became pen pals with an inmate and then fell in love... Does that ever happen?
babygirl350
03-06-2006, 01:42 PM
It didn't happen with me, but I am sure that it does happen alot. We have friends whose wives and girlfriends have left them when they became incarcerated. Especially those with long sentences.
This journey is definitely not an easy one to travel and not everyone has the stamina it takes to make it to the end especially with a long sentence.
Definitely a good question, thanks for asking. Hope you will be getting some good feedback.
tera_calhoun21
03-06-2006, 01:50 PM
we did not meet when he was incarcerated but all i have to say let me find out that someone tries to talk to my man while hes locked up and they will meet one hot blooded itilian
mrsdragoness
03-06-2006, 03:04 PM
I'm the one who was married, however I'd been separated for YEARS!
HotLatinaMILF4U
03-06-2006, 04:09 PM
I'm the one who was married, however I'd been separated for YEARS!
Same here, we had lived in different states for years, yada yada finally did the paperwork and I've been divorced since January of this year. Sebastian's never been married so I'll be his one and only...
Patty
IKEsBabyGIrl
03-06-2006, 04:39 PM
i was i have been seprated from my kids father for 15 years. i filed for divorce before i met ike it is not complete
HeSoHandsome
03-07-2006, 05:38 AM
He'd never been married, no children, no womens' names tatooed on him. And then he met me. But because I can't do the children thing unless he's living home in the house with us, there are no children.
I was divorced; left my first husband in '94 and a year later divorced him. So when I met my husband there were no ties to my past. I was totally available and he married me shortly after.
honeyg
03-07-2006, 04:39 PM
He is married but separated for over 8 years and she lives in another state. It's never been an issue. Recently he has been talking about marriage. Told him it's nice to hear but there's the little matter of his divorce to take care of before I'm going to go there with him on that conversation.
Ms Ray
03-07-2006, 08:45 PM
yes my now fiance was married when we met but he is now divorced and we have been together now for 5 years now.
timber_fairy
03-08-2006, 11:57 AM
He was married but they had not talked in years. I did his divorce for him.
rottn
03-08-2006, 12:19 PM
He is married, but will be divorced soon after he gets out.
Ronnie'sHoney
03-08-2006, 02:36 PM
Thanks for all the replies
2nice
03-18-2006, 06:35 PM
I was married, but had been seperated for years. I even had a b/f when i first met my honey, although he wasnt the cause of the relationship to break-down (we fell in love AFTER it ended). He helped me to pick up the pieces.
He was the reason as to why i eventually filed for a divorce though. He wasnt comfortable with the fact that i was still technically married. Also the fact that we want to get married now helped me to make the decision to go for it!