Jason and I have always talked and laughed for hours on the phone. But for the past few weeks we havent had much to say and we arent laughing as much. I am sometimes counting down the minutes tahtw e have left cause i want to get off the phone (onlly because there is an awkard silence). he says that I dont like talking to him anymore, but i just dont have anything to say anymore. We know everything about each other by now and nothing exciting is going on. he is going to the parole board in 3 days, so maybe we are just both nervous? I dont know...has anyone ever gone through this?

i can relate. do u talk to him everyday? my bf and i would talk at least two times a day, so it was like we got to the point we didnt have anything else to talk about. the phone is blocked and im feeling down cause i miss talking to him. good luck with the board, i hope things will work out for the best. my bf comes home in aug06

Yeah, we've been through a period like this. It will pass, don't worry. Why don't you just say it to him? I did, and that was the start of a whole new conversation that lasted us a while :D

Now, we don't have that problem anymore.

This is exactly the same as with "normal" couples. They also run out of things to say (so they decide to get married hehe).

The first bid I did with Sebastian we had some time like this once we knew all about one another but we thought of it as a comfortable silence, we were just content to be in one anothers presence...

Patty

Yah, just a phase, and you can take the curse off it by just saying, "so what the (bleep) else is there to talk about at the moment?" of course u r both nervous! been there done that!
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It's normal just like w/ any relationship. Now that he's home, there are times when there's nothing to say. :) When this occur, I will just rest on his chest and enjoy his company.

Now when we're out, there's always something to talk about.

Best wishes w/ the parole board. Keep us posted.

Sometimes there just isn't anything to say, it happens in every relationship like Thunder said. My man and I go through this every now and then. It doesn't bother me, because I think the silences are comfortable, I like just knowing that he's on the other end of the phone. We talk about what ever comes to mind, but the conversation is never forced.

Sometimes he's just in a bad mood, sometimes I'm in a bad mood, it's just a part of being in a relationship, it's not supposed to be good all the time.

Honestly, in your situation, I think you both are nervous, sometimes we feed off each other's emotions when nothing is being sad and without knowing it. Good luck with the parole board, he'll be home before long and this won't be an issue.

Thanks guys. I figured it was normal, but i feel so much better hearing it from you all.