well the reason i ask this cuz this is exactly what kind of man my ex is and he is definitely caught in his own game and i hope who ever he dates next will catch him in the act before it is too late like i did so i was also wondering if this ever happened to any one else of you ladies Thanks

Funny you should ask that, I was just about to post a post about that here, and yes, he did................

I hope to catch him in his game if that is what he is doing with me. I have my eyes open a little more now.

The first guy I ever met who was locked up tried to play me... all the lovey dovey baloney, I was his angel, etc.. I swear I used to think they gave them form letters when they went to prison on "ways to woo a woman"... I was lonely, just divorced, and I fell for alot of his lines, which was not like me at all, but he caught me when I was down.... I really thought I cared about him alot till I went to visit him the first time and he was NOTHING at all like he claimed to be.. he was loud, obnoxious, controlling, etc.. didn't even look the same, the pic he had sent me was about 10 years old.. we still visited for a while but then he asked me to smuggle in drugs for him, which I then told him goodbye! I still to this day get letters from him every now and then saying how much he loves me and misses me, etc... He is such a weirdo!

people can only try to be slick for a while before they get caught. the thing is you ladies have moved on to something better in life and they are still where they are. this goes to people not locked up also.

From day one, before we even became friends, he's been honest about liking the ladies -- a lot!

So thankfully, I have been spared that kind of surprise... we're still very affectionate but it only goes so far because I know him too well.

Anytime you open yourself up to someone you can be played. In my case I met Sebastian while he was incarcerated did the 14 months, and had him home with me for 16 months, now he's in short time and will be home very soon, in the years to come because I am so open to him I could be played, my point is it could happen at any time not just because one is incarcerated, yes I understand there are many men AND women out there that turn their bid into some sort of game my point is that isn't true of all of them. For those who have had to endure the down side of these romances/friendships I am truly sorry.

Patty

So far mine has been honest.To me it's all just aChance wether he be in or out of prison.

Ohhh I SO caught my ex.. He thought he was playing a GOOD game.. He wrote me and said, "You aren't in my league... You aren't good enuff for me..." All this cause I didn't send him $170.. The exact amount he owed some chick in Cali for the phone bill... :mad: :blah: :angry:

I have been played before by my ex husband, he has never been to prison though, so it just goes to show that whether they are in or out, men use you, and its not nice. Now I look for the signs because no one is ever gonna play me like that again. I'm better than that.

well the reason i ask this cuz this is exactly what kind of man my ex is and he is definitely caught in his own game and i hope who ever he dates next will catch him in the act before it is too late like i did so i was also wondering if this ever happened to any one else of you ladies Thanks


Oh yeah! I was suspicious the whole time! After about 6 months I wrote his myspace asking who was running it. That was back in March, the girl never wrote back so I figured I would let it go. Then around september she finally messages me asking who I was. She said she wrote him a letter asking about me and he told her to leave it alone. So, yeah, he got caught. Of coarse he is full of excuses and more lies..sorry letters the whole nine. He even wrote her a letter telling her to leave him alone and that he doesn't want to be with her he wants to be with me...which I think is all part of another scam.

Keith wouldn't have time to put up a good game if I caught him playing me. He'd be too busy trying to run while I go beast mode.