well the reason i ask this cuz this is exactly what kind of man my ex is and he is definitely caught in his own game and i hope who ever he dates next will catch him in the act before it is too late like i did so i was also wondering if this ever happened to any one else of you ladies Thanks

Funny you should ask that, I was just about to post a post about that here, and yes, he did................

I hope to catch him in his game if that is what he is doing with me. I have my eyes open a little more now.

The first guy I ever met who was locked up tried to play me... all the lovey dovey baloney, I was his angel, etc.. I swear I used to think they gave them form letters when they went to prison on "ways to woo a woman"... I was lonely, just divorced, and I fell for alot of his lines, which was not like me at all, but he caught me when I was down.... I really thought I cared about him alot till I went to visit him the first time and he was NOTHING at all like he claimed to be.. he was loud, obnoxious, controlling, etc.. didn't even look the same, the pic he had sent me was about 10 years old.. we still visited for a while but then he asked me to smuggle in drugs for him, which I then told him goodbye! I still to this day get letters from him every now and then saying how much he loves me and misses me, etc... He is such a weirdo!

people can only try to be slick for a while before they get caught. the thing is you ladies have moved on to something better in life and they are still where they are. this goes to people not locked up also.

From day one, before we even became friends, he's been honest about liking the ladies -- a lot!

So thankfully, I have been spared that kind of surprise... we're still very affectionate but it only goes so far because I know him too well.

Anytime you open yourself up to someone you can be played. In my case I met Sebastian while he was incarcerated did the 14 months, and had him home with me for 16 months, now he's in short time and will be home very soon, in the years to come because I am so open to him I could be played, my point is it could happen at any time not just because one is incarcerated, yes I understand there are many men AND women out there that turn their bid into some sort of game my point is that isn't true of all of them. For those who have had to endure the down side of these romances/friendships I am truly sorry.

Patty