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View Full Version : So glad I found you! Baby~Jo 02-13-2006, 03:42 PM Thank you so much for being here! My hubby is in Jefferson county and has been since 12/29/05. He is due to go to kilby tomorrow, and then on to Ventress. how do you deal with this??? I'm scared for him. Could someone tell me what to expect? how soon can he have a visit?? thanx ya'll!!! Smooches!:cry: Blueyez94 02-13-2006, 04:43 PM Welcome to PTO...and the alabama family...When he gets to kilby he will have to set up a phone and visitor list. I don't think he can have visits at kilby. When he gets to ventress he will do the visit and phone list and it usually take a couple of weeks to get everything approved. to answer your question how do i deal with it...i take it one day at a time...it gets hard but you and i have the alabama family to talk to...keep your head up and stay strong... txsfmhstn 02-13-2006, 04:46 PM Hello and welcome to PTO :) snuggles22 02-13-2006, 05:04 PM Hello & Welcome To PTO! baldwinlady 02-13-2006, 05:17 PM Welcome Baby Jo, I see Blueyez has filled you in on the process. My son is at Ventress, it is nasty, and the food is terrible. I know you are worried and scared for him, we all are for our loved ones. The support here and having faith is how I get threw each day, and again like Blueyez said one day at a time. If you have any questions about Ventress feel free to send me a private message. God Bless Linda revjeff 02-13-2006, 09:01 PM God Bless you mam. God will guide you, lean on him. js LeaAnn 02-13-2006, 11:12 PM Welcome to PTO! DeniseJ 02-14-2006, 02:40 PM welcome to PTO and alabama forum You will find loads of information, support and understand here. Also, to let you know that everyone (men) that is, go thru Kilby. From there it seems to be anyones guess as to where they will be sent. Unless something has changed that i'm not aware of, Ventress is only one of the facilities that he might be transferred to. Go ahead and give him all the information he needs for Phone/Funds list. Names, birthdays, Social security numbers, address etc. This will save time and things will move faster for him and you. take care, and keep us posted Lysbeth 02-15-2006, 12:42 AM Welcome to PTO and especially the Alabama forum family! Glad you found us! :) mother1952 02-15-2006, 09:49 PM Welcome Baby Jo and you are welcome to send me a private message. My son is at St.Clair and Feb 16 he turns 25. I have so many bad days that all I do is cry and hope that the day will come will I can see my son choosing a better life. I have learned alot from being on pto and if I need to know something I come here and read and ask questions. God Bless you and yours!!! mother1952 |