We can ask and ask and ask, but there's SOME things that we probably won't find out until he comes home!!! I'm wondering...........

What his feet look like (boy some fantasys there ;) )

How will his hands feel on my skin...sorry but holding hands and touching my forearm just isn't the same!

How will we sleep? Face to face, spooning or back to back?

Right side or left side of the bed? Who's going to be against the wall?

Does he put his socks on before he puts his pants on?

How does HE answer the phone?

What does he do with his teeth at bedtime?

Is he REALLY a good cook?

Will he like the kind of drill I bought him?

Will the cats accept him?

Will he REALLY pick up his own socks and put them in the laundry?

How will he react to the 5 pm town siren?



What things do YOU wonder about?? :D :D :D

LOL what a great question.

I wonder if he has hair on his belly

I wanna know what his feet look like too (he says like Fred Flinstones LOL)

I wanna know if he is a good cook

I wanna know if he really can fix my car

I wanna know if he snores too loud

I wanna know what he does when he is mad or upset

I wanna know what he thinks about

I wanna know how he really sees me (Is it like Shallow Hal as he describes it)

I wanna know if he can pick me up

I could go on an on...I just hope that I will be able to find out someday.

Wow you both already asked a lot of the questions I would like to hear.

How will he react to the kids on a daily basis?

How will he react when I wake up screaming in the night?

How will it feel to finally make love?

How will he react to my clothes all over my bedroom floor? (working on that :ha:)

Who gets the remote?

Who does what chores?

Will he spoil me? :blush: I am spoiled and like it! :ha:

The list goes on and on and on and on.

Well we have just shared so much there really is not too many things that I can think of that I wonder about.

I guess I do wonder about the pets. I mean I know he is an animal lover, but to the extent I am, I am not sure about that. My pets are my children and he did present me with a male kitten, a little boy who was born at the prison, so he knows about him.

But my other "kids" are very spoiled and I am wondering if he will be as accepting of them as I am.

I guess I also to a degree wonder how our sleep compatibility will be. Sleep, not sex. He has no sleeping problems and I am the one with the insomnia. We are both "night" people so perhaps that will work itself out.

I already know that he can cook and bake. That is a good thing as I can cook, but can't bake. If he wants baked goods he will either make them or they will be bought.

That I guess is about all that comes to my mind.

You all certainly have a wide variety of things you wonder about. Very interesting. A great thread. Thanks for starting it.

Before Sebastian came home I wondered many of the things the others have:

If he was as neat as he said (He is)
I wondered if the sex would be as great as we talked it up (It is)
I wondered if his mom and I would become close like he said (We are)

Now that he is back in and I am waiting once again I wonder:

If we will both make good use of this time
If this will be the last time he does time

Patty

How it'll feel to make love to him
How we'll sleep together, what position
Will he pick up after himself or am I going to do that (not that I care)
Is he really a laundry nazi - he is when he's doing his laundry there
How he looks when he's tired, like REALLY tired
What it's going to be like to go grocery shopping
How he smells when he gets out of the shower or anything like that

I can go on and on for hours

Ladies, no one mentioned what i am dying to really know..
What does he look like in regular clothes????

How does he sleep? Does he have bad morning breath?

How his hand feel on my body?

How he makes love? ( I know it will be great regardless, imagine if it isnt???)

How he answers the phone when i call him?

Is he messY? ( he says yes, but i dont think he understands what i mean by messy)

What cologne smells like on him?

Can he cook?

I have so much more, but those are the ones i always think about.
This is a great post!

What does he look like in regular clothes is a good one!
Then there is what does he look like naked?
Is he as kind and sweet when he's in a bad mood?
Does he snore? Hog the covers?
Will he still get up at 5am to meditate everyday?
Will he insist on cooking up soup concoctions like in prison?
Is he an aggressive driver?
Can he share the remote and not insist on NASCAR?
Will he really be able to give up hunting due to my beliefs?
Will he hold me all night?
I could go on forever...

Oh this is a great forum, and another great thread. THANK YOU

Will he insist on me tasting his soup concoctions?
Are his toenails really neatly clipped?
Can I steer him away from fried fattening southern food?
Will he like my cooking?
Will he like my mother?
Will he write me sweet little notes when we live together?

lol i like this question hahahaha
let me see what questions i can think of.

1.) what habits does he have?
2.) what does his feet look like?
3.) will he cuddle me while i am sleep\hmm he say he sleeps wild ugggh
4.) does he roll over and want to have sex lol
5.) how will he treat me when he comes home?
6.) is he a neat freak?
7.) will he like my family?
8.) will he be up for romance
9.) what kind of clothes he will want to buy?
10.) is he good at budgeting?
11.) will he like my cooking
12.) will he like me doing his laundre
14:) what kind of work will he look for if any?
15.) will he spoil me?
16.) is he a freak in bed hahaha??
17.) if he sleeps bucket nekked lol?
18.) does he wear boxers or briefs?
19. how his hands feel running down my spine?
20.) can he deal with my kids?
21.) will he have that i wear the pants attitude?
22.) if he does not find work will he slide back into the get fast money game?
23.) what kind of parent would he be?
24.) lol does he have them loveing makeing skills hahahaha lol?
25.) will we still communicate like we do with him in prison?
let me stop i can proubly come up with way more lmao

This is a terrific thread!

I wonder...
1) Will we have great sex? (He's been in prison since he was 16 and he's almost 29 so I'll probably have to teach him some things :) )
2) Will he be a wonderful father to our children?
3) Will he tell me wonderful things everyday?
4) Will he agree to still write for/to me?
5) If he can dance!
6) Will he like going places or staying home?
7) If he can drive!
8) What crazy hobbies we'll pick up together

I want to know all those things... PLUS

Does he brush his teeth in the shower
Will he cut his toenails on the bed
Can he hook up the VCR and get the time to stop blinking
Will he mow the lawn
Will he still be a Vegetarian
Or will he ask for some bacon the second he gets out
will he hold my purse while I try that on
Will he open my car door
Or pull out my chair
Or was it alla show while he was locked up and now that he has me won't do it again.
Will he get addicted to the internet
Will he squeeze all his books into my bookshelf
Will he come get me at work for a nooner
How will he dress
Will he ever wear Levi's again
Or Converse All Stars
Is he gonna put the crib together
What kind of car will he buy
Or will he try to drive mine

how he tastes (YES, I mean THAT!)
does he make noises
can he deal with my chaos & kids
what radio station will he want in the car
how does he like to dress
will he like my friends/mom/sis
does he dance
does he sing
will he help clean up, ignore it, or fuss about it
how will it feel to be able to lie down together
what a great thread, these are fun things to think about!

I wonder if he'll want a tv in our bedroom and if he'll fall asleep with the tv on or off

What his feet look like (boy some fantasys there ) I had FRP visits, so I saw his feet and actually, it is the first thing I noticed, he has such perfect, pretty feet!! I love to kiss them.

How will his hands feel on my skin...sorry but holding hands and touching my forearm just isn't the same! AMAZING!


How will we sleep? Face to face, spooning or back to back? so sweet...we spoon.

Right side or left side of the bed? Who's going to be against the wall? hmmmm? good one

Does he put his socks on before he puts his pants on? LOL

How does HE answer the phone? awwww.

What does he do with his teeth at bedtime? LOL

Is he REALLY a good cook? yep!

Will he like the kind of drill I bought him? LOL

Will the cats accept him? I hope so, I worry about my cat HAIRS all over!

Will he REALLY pick up his own socks and put them in the laundry? he better!

good ones! ;)

I wonder if he will like how I decorate, his new watch, his own closet, my cat and dog, the trains, the street noises, loud music....so many things! we will really go for walks in the park? ;)

It's like having a pile of wrapped Christmas presents and having to wait to open them- delicious in a way. (please Christmas, don't be late!!! she sings the Chipmunks song LOL)

im laughing so hard about "what his feet look like" beacuse my daughter and i were just talking about this earlier. . . . her and i are such freaks when it comes to feet and she said what if he has really really ugly feet?????? you will so freak out. so then i read this post and im laughing my lil butt off. . . .

i wonder which of us is the worse clean freak

i wonder if he will stay this affectionate

i wonder if he will hog my pillow at night

i wonder if he will just call and order a pizza for dinner if he knows i have had a long day

i wonder how he will deal with the kids on a full time basis

i wonder if he will put the lid down ;)

i had more but i forget them. . . my phone rang and distracted me
We can ask and ask and ask, but there's SOME things that we probably won't find out until he comes home!!! I'm wondering...........

What his feet look like (boy some fantasys there ;) )

How will his hands feel on my skin...sorry but holding hands and touching my forearm just isn't the same!

How will we sleep? Face to face, spooning or back to back?

Right side or left side of the bed? Who's going to be against the wall?

Does he put his socks on before he puts his pants on?

How does HE answer the phone?

What does he do with his teeth at bedtime?

Is he REALLY a good cook?

Will he like the kind of drill I bought him?

Will the cats accept him?

Will he REALLY pick up his own socks and put them in the laundry?

How will he react to the 5 pm town siren?



What things do YOU wonder about?? :D :D :D

Well gang, I already know the anwers to all these questions....what I really want to know is if prison has changed him....29 days to go....

My question is 'will he be able to hold up?'.........LOL

I have had all these questions on my mind, also. First with my "son" I wonder how that will go when he is released soon? He has never once expressed any annoyance at me in three years, even. I know he is kind of "shut down" and I wonder how he'll act when he gets out. He should be paroling to my house in 10 months. He's going to need to open up more!
I wonder all the time about how E will be when he gets out. I have a real good idea how he is as a lover. I know he's very neat. I am messy. He doesn't know how to cook much and has been in prison since he was 23. I know he definitely wants to "be the man". He says he has no problem helping with chores and yardwork but hates doing the dishes. I also know I will not allow a TV in the bedroom and he will not be smoking in the house. We've discussed agreements already with "his and hers" spaces. I am not sure how his controlling issues will work out. He knows my bottom lines. I worry about how his kids and his family will affect us. My kids are grown. Will he get along with Corey? I worry about keeping up with him because I am 21 years older! He's a picky eater and I wonder how it will be to have meals together. I know he will not eat any meals with cheese or beans. I'm sure we'll figure that out. I know he has all his teeth and he wears boxers. I know how he sounds when he sings because he has sung Happy Birthday to me in the visit room!
I do wonder if he will be an aggressive driver, if he will get along with my family, if he will be able to cope with me flipping around all night, how he will like my pets. I hope he is not overly protective of me. I haven't seen his feet but I feel like I have. I want to see his 6 pack!
I also realize he won't be as "solicitous" when he is out. This is real life. I know he's not going to open the car door, but I would hope he'd open the door for me at a restaurant. I doubt he'll still write me letters. we are at the three year point now.

I love this thread! :thumbsup:

What side of the bed will he wanna sleep on?

Will he be able to handle the chaos and noise of this household?

What will that 'first time' be like for us?

Does he snore? - Hes says he doesnt, but how would he know?

Will we have problems with him being a neat freak and me being real disorganised?

Will he keep calling me?

Will we be fighting over the computer/internet?

How will he live my style of decor? - mordern

What position will we sleep in together?

Will he expect me to be a 'typical' housewife?

These are just a few things that spring to mind. I will be back when i think of the rest, cuz you know that i think about all different things everyday!

What his kisses feel like?
How affectionate is he? P.D.A.'s?
What his smile looks like? Never smiles in his pictures darn it.:(
Are his hands rough or soft?
Will he try to pick me up? No idea if he can.
Will he bring me flowers "just because?"
What his bad habits are?
What his house looks like? Started building it before he was locked up.
Does he like to dance? I have two left feet.
Will he have trouble getting a job?
What he does when he is angry? Yell, throw/break things, punch walls?
Does he smoke? If he does would he quit?
What is his "shoe size?" :blush:

hi my godson is going in soon to spend 14 months,and i wonder will he eat or will i forget his laugh,his smile if he can even wear one at all.will it make him maen or nasty.i wonder so many things.

Reading all of your posts just made me so emotional. We are very fortunate that in NY when my hubby is we get FRP (trailer) visits so I know all of the basic physical stuff. All of my questions I have now focus on his homecoming like:

- will he like the neighborhood I live in? the house? my decor? the cats?
- how will he deal with the shouting matches that me and my 16 years old have on a weekly basis?
- will he drive like a maniac, being from NYC and all? LOL
- will we have joint accounts, separate accounts or both?
- how will he adjust after beng inside for 25 years?