Does anyone finally get that good day when they are not stressing over their man, and then he calls and because he is having a bad day it messes your day up? Because that is what happened to me and now i feel so depressed. The last time it was the same way where i seen that his negativity started to play on me and i was able to change it around but yesterday i just couldn't do it and it ruined the rest of my day. I know he is depressed cause he wants to be home and i want him here too. But at times i want to just say don't mess up my day because i didn't put you there. But i refuse to kick him while he is down so i don't say that. :(

You know what...I always tell my husband: "I don't want to hear about prison and you don't want to hear about bills, so, let's talk nice or I'm hanging up!" and he laughs and then we talk about the positive. Just let him know that you'd rather make the BEST of the 15 minutes you've got rather than the worst, he'll get it.

You're not alone, we all have those days. <<HUGS>>

Thanks jamieelynn,

I used that today and it works, it also keeps him positive as well so when they get off the phone there day goes better too. Thanks Much!!! I needed that hug thanks

I swear to God... that is me! My husband always seems to rain on my parade. I have no idea what makes them think such crazy things and talk so rudely, but it is definately the prison in them... because he can be such a jerk over the phone! I think the more often u speak to ur man, the more he forgets how talking to u is a luxury

YOU'RE WELCOME, DIVA!!!
Sometimes they need to know that. I always tell my husband that I don't want to know about prison unless he gets hurt, transferred, or released!:D