View Full Version : WOOHOO!!! Help me start my countdown!!


Chances R~~
01-06-2006, 01:37 PM
As of today we have 91 more days to go!.........sigh..........I can hardy wait to see him. We have had no visits for a year and a half, just phone calls and letters.
I guess ths goes out to all of you that have already experienced your "better half" coming home.....Is it hard to readjust to living with someone again after NOT having them around for while?
How are things different? Just getting a little bit excited about the big day! Thanks in advance!

Mrs.W
01-06-2006, 01:40 PM
Sorry I can't help you on this one, but congrats! I wish it was me.
Mrs.W

somissingmylove
01-06-2006, 01:47 PM
It must be so thrilling to see the finish line getting so close. I can only imagine how happy and excited you are getting. Congratulations!!!!! I Don't have any personal experience with the coming home part either, but I sure someone will come along who does.

Crstnamre
01-06-2006, 01:53 PM
Congratulations!!! I feel you...Paul and I have never had visits either and only 2 phone calls. I am also anxious about the readjustments and parole...all that good stuff!!!!


As of today we have 91 more days to go!.........sigh..........I can hardy wait to see him. We have had no visits for a year and a half, just phone calls and letters.
I guess ths goes out to all of you that have already experienced your "better half" coming home.....Is it hard to readjust to living with someone again after NOT having them around for while?
How are things different? Just getting a little bit excited about the big day! Thanks in advance!

Chances R~~
01-07-2006, 10:28 AM
I know it is still like 3 months....BUT omg am I excited. I am already trying to book a room for the day he gets out, plan what we we do ....the rest of the day (grin)....just ALL OF IT!!!!!! Thanks everyone!

jftazzy102
01-07-2006, 10:45 AM
Congratulations on his home coming...trust me those days will start falling like flies before you know it.

JamesWifey
01-07-2006, 11:48 AM
Congrats to you!! So happy to see you here. I am getting ready to make those "readjustments" myself. My advice to you is to take one day at a time and have faith! Stay strong and enjoy this special time :)

bailey3120
01-07-2006, 12:11 PM
Congrats! I must say I am jealious ...It's only been 5 days and we miss our dad so much!
My husband and I visit my mother alot, but the house isn't the same w/o my dad

congrats again!

snuggles22
01-07-2006, 12:54 PM
CONGRATULATIONS!!!:yay: :yay: :yay:

Chances R~~
02-02-2006, 01:22 PM
yep...yep...yep.....the days are starting to go by faster and faster YAY!!!!!
65 days as of 2-2-06!

lovespell
02-02-2006, 01:25 PM
See how fast that went by!! Congratulations I am so happy for you! As for the readjustment period, just be patient with him! That's about it and all will come together! YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Crstnamre
02-02-2006, 01:38 PM
Wooooooo Hooooooo 65 days!

Chances R~~
02-02-2006, 02:28 PM
WOW Christina..............YOUR day is really really close! Congrats!

jblovesdb
02-02-2006, 06:43 PM
:yay::clap::hee::beer: 65 more days!!!!! :dance::yes::D CONGRATS...it's gonna be here SOON:) Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Crstnamre
02-03-2006, 01:48 AM
Thank you!!! And 65 and a wake up for you!! It seems like it is never gonna get here, but trust me....one day you are going to be as happy as I am right now. I am going to stick around to see all my homecoming girls get to 0 days!!!!!



WOW Christina..............YOUR day is really really close! Congrats!

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
02-03-2006, 09:15 AM
Congrats!! 64 days now!!! It will be here soon, keep your head up! :D

Kobe16
02-03-2006, 09:35 AM
HEY HEY RobbiesOnly! :wave: CONGRATS!! 64 days now girl. :clap: :D

Chances R~~
02-03-2006, 09:52 AM
Hey Kobe....good looking out! HUGS

jblovesdb
02-03-2006, 09:05 PM
:yay::dance::hee: 64 days!!! :yes::D::clap: Keep your head up sweetie!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

warm_fuzzies
02-04-2006, 07:32 AM
64 Girl I am with you! :)

Kobe16
02-04-2006, 09:31 AM
whats up chica? 63 days girl!! :D :yay:

robs_angel
02-04-2006, 01:08 PM
Congrats :) One down !!!

Crstnamre
02-04-2006, 01:28 PM
Wooooooo Hoooooo 63 and a wake up. The 50's are right around the corner!!!

Chances R~~
02-04-2006, 02:04 PM
It's all getting toooo CCRRAAAAAZZYY! So many emotions....so much planning.......so many dreams....I don't know what I'd do without my PTO Family to help keep me grounded. No one out here understands or really cares what I'm going through.....This is a very exciting time in my life and I appreciate each and everyone of you for being a part of it with me! HUGS to all

jblovesdb
02-04-2006, 02:07 PM
:yay::clap::hee: 63 days left :D:yes::dance: Keep your head up!! I can definetly relate to what you said....I don't know what I would have done without my PTO ladies:shake: You have all helped me soo much!! You're almost there girl!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

loveisdeeper
02-04-2006, 03:20 PM
63 Days Left :) I can so relate with what the both of you said. So heres to your 63 days left :beer: So Close to closing in to those 50's :yay: :dance: keep Staying strong your time will come.

Chances R~~
02-04-2006, 08:50 PM
:beer:............Here's to ALL of us staying strong!!!!!

Crstnamre
02-05-2006, 01:23 AM
Wooooooo Hoooooo 62 days and a wake up!! You are almost to the 50's!!!

Chances R~~
02-05-2006, 05:28 AM
Great morning Christina........many thanks for hanging with me! :hifive: I talked to him last night and he said "next month when you send my dress out clothes..........." OMG! That just kinda threw me off......I can not beleive we are really that close :yay: :dance: :yay: :dance:

HotLatinaMILF4U
02-05-2006, 10:59 AM
I hear it's not really a countdown if you ain't takin' your vitamins soooo puleeeeease tell me you are TAKING YOUR VITAMINS and being kind to yourself so you will be happy and healthy for the big day just around the corner, go on tell me, tell me tell me...

Hugggz,
Patty

Kobe16
02-05-2006, 02:56 PM
YAYY! almost to the 50's!!! 62 and a wake up girl. :D dress out clothes..bet that was reality hittin ya huh? :p

Chances R~~
02-05-2006, 03:58 PM
Patty girl........you know I got my vitamins......LMAO.......and I picked HIM up a bottle as well. Need him healthy........he has a few things to take care of around here! :D

Crstnamre
02-06-2006, 02:06 AM
61 days and a wake up!!!

witchlinblue
02-06-2006, 02:10 AM
That's two months, only two months and later this week you can say less than two months !!!

jblovesdb
02-06-2006, 08:37 PM
WOO-HOO:yay::dance::hee::clap: ONLY 61 and a wake up left:yes::D Keep your head up!!! The 50s are coming quick!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Chances R~~
02-07-2006, 05:43 AM
I am at 60! Holy crap....you guys were right......they are going right on by!!!!!!!

jblovesdb
02-07-2006, 04:57 PM
:yay::dance::clap: 60 and a wake up!!! :yes::fb::D Tomorrow is the big 50s!!!!:yes: And they also fly by:D Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Crstnamre
02-07-2006, 05:07 PM
60 days and a wake up!! Woooooooo Hooooooo tomorrow the 50's!!!!!!!!!!

Chances R~~
02-08-2006, 05:35 AM
:dance::dance::dance: OH YEAH....OH YEAH :dance::dance::dance: I'm doing a happy dance!!!!! I am in the 50's now!

Kobe16
02-08-2006, 11:24 AM
Robbie's, you're in the 50's!!! :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: girl I'm dancing right wit ya!! :yay:

59 and a wake up!! :D

loveisdeeper
02-08-2006, 01:30 PM
Congrats you have now officialy entered into the 50's. :dance: :yay: :D Keep staying strong only 59 days left and your nightmare will be over. :D Congrats :beer:

Crstnamre
02-08-2006, 05:08 PM
WOOOOOO HOOOOOOO welcome to the 50's!!! 59 and a wake up!!!!!

jblovesdb
02-08-2006, 09:29 PM
:dance::yay::clap::fb: 59 and a wake up :beer::hee::yay::D The 50s FLY by...it'll be here before you know it!!! Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

e_wife03
02-08-2006, 10:15 PM
wow those days are getting shorter and shorter.. woo hoo

inlovewithmrcar
02-08-2006, 11:04 PM
58 and a wake up Yeah!!!!

Chances R~~
02-09-2006, 05:58 AM
Thank you all sooooo much.....yesterday was his birthday (#29) and I got to talk to him 3 different times......I think he misses me a little and he is definately ready to come home!

Kobe16
02-09-2006, 01:54 PM
well HAPPY belated BIRTHDAY to Robbie! :yay: cute pic of yall two! :)

57! :D

loveisdeeper
02-09-2006, 03:43 PM
57 days an a wake up :clap: :D Happy belated birthday to Robbie :beer: Keep staying strong Your nightmare is about to come to an end soon. :)

robs_angel
02-10-2006, 04:36 PM
One day closer!

Crstnamre
02-10-2006, 06:10 PM
56 days and a wake up!!!!!

warm_fuzzies
02-11-2006, 08:43 AM
55 days girl we are here in this together!!!

Kobe16
02-11-2006, 01:21 PM
55 days girl!! :D

jblovesdb
02-11-2006, 05:01 PM
:yay::dance::hee::clap::beer: 55 more days sweetie!!! :yay::yes::D You're halfway threw the 50s...come on 40s!!!! Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Chances R~~
02-14-2006, 06:01 AM
Happy Valentines day to all my fellow 2006ers! 53 and a wake up.......that's what I am talking about! WOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOO!

Crstnamre
02-14-2006, 03:20 PM
53 and a wake up!!!!!!!!

Chances R~~
02-17-2006, 06:17 AM
I made to the 40's....YAY! 49 and a wake up girls..........Imma gettin there!:dance::dance::yay::yay::dance::dance:

jblovesdb
02-17-2006, 07:26 PM
:yay::dance::fb::hee: 49 and a wake up!!! :yes::D:clap::beer: Your in the 40s:yes: and they FLY by!!!!! Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Chances R~~
02-18-2006, 08:55 AM
Thank you Jackie for hangin with me!

jblovesdb
02-18-2006, 10:33 AM
No problems sweetie:) I wasn't really feeling "normal" for the past few days (stressin'...the blahs...you know all that fun ish:rolleyes:) so I wasn't here to countdown...but I'm back:D Your at 48 and a wake up now!!!:yes::dance::hee::clap::yay: Trust me sweetie...time FLYS by. No matter how slow certain days feel...when you look back on it your like "WOW...it's already been so and so days?!?" I hope your doing good! Keep your head up! Hugs:p
-Jackie

inlovewithmrcar
02-18-2006, 08:44 PM
48 and a wake up!!! Congratulations!!!!

Chances R~~
02-20-2006, 05:47 AM
Jackie....whats up girl??? Why the blah's?.....
Penny......Thanks for countin em down with me.......
Don't know what I'd do without ya's! :yay::grouphug::yay:

warm_fuzzies
02-20-2006, 07:39 AM
Not much longer to go Robbies you are well on your way girlie!!

jblovesdb
02-20-2006, 11:46 AM
:yay::hee::yes::fb: 46 days and a wake up to go!!! :dance::beer::clap::D I was just in a BLAH mood and couldn't shake myself out of it. You know, all the lovely prison BS, plus just nerves from the man coming home and all that kinda stuff. But I'm doing better now:thumbsup: I hope your doing good sweetie! Keep your head up! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Kobe16
02-20-2006, 01:21 PM
hey hey girly!!! 46 days left..lets DO IT! :D :clap: :)

loveisdeeper
02-20-2006, 03:19 PM
46 days and a wake up :D

Chances R~~
02-20-2006, 08:13 PM
I can't even imagine what THEY go through this close to the end......Do you guys ever think about that? What is "he" thinking about tonight as he lays there.......can't sleep......it's GOTTA be tough for them
Here's to our GUYS!!!!! :beer:

jblovesdb
02-21-2006, 01:38 PM
:yay::clap::hee::fb: 45 and a wake up to go!!! :yes::beer::dance::D And yes girl...I do think about what Dave is going threw. I always worry about how hard/scary it has to be for him:( I know he's SUPER happy to be getting out:yay: but he's basically grown up in prison (14-22...except for a grand total of 7 months)...so I worry that he is gonna put too much pressure on himself, ya know? B/C the real world ain't easy...and it's different then it is in there. BUT, I think all together...they are happy and READY to get the he** outta there! Keep your head up! Hugs:p
-Jackie

moniqueSC
02-21-2006, 07:59 PM
I can't even imagine what THEY go through this close to the end......Do you guys ever think about that? What is "he" thinking about tonight as he lays there.......can't sleep......it's GOTTA be tough for them
Here's to our GUYS!!!!! :beer:

Excellent point, I honestly hadn't thought about it in just those terms. I have asked my b/f several times lately in letters if he is counting down the days, but he says that he just takes it one day at a time.

He does say that he thinks about all the things he wants to do when he gets out and that he is making long-range plans for his life.

I do wonder if he ever worries that he won't make it, or anything like that. I would never say that to him because I don't want to put fears in his mind this close to the end of this whole nightmare.

I'm just happy that he is coming home and I'm happy for you guys too! :)

inlovewithmrcar
02-21-2006, 10:26 PM
44 and a wakeup!!! I can see them 30's!!!

Chances R~~
02-23-2006, 06:10 AM
42 and wake up.......I know I am getting more excited by the day......But we are doing our last bit......10 days at a time!:banghead: Yep....he is in the hole again.....He just don't know when to shut up sometimes. LOL He is just ornery...thats all. It is all really hard for me and I know you guys are all going through pretty much the same thing but Robbie and I were just good friends (for like 7 years) before the last bit. We have NEVER been intimate and that kinda freaks me out....Not that I ain't ready....it's been way tooooooo long now. It is just a mumbo jumbo of thoughts and antipicipations. I just don't know what to do with the remaining time to keep myself occupied and not freaking out. My last relationship was 12 years long and not pleasant at all.......very abusive! For the longest time I thought that I was relationship ruined....and now that the time is getting close......I am panicing :eek: and there is still the clown issue.......OMG! What am I gonna do????

taneciao
02-23-2006, 07:13 AM
Please keep me in your parayers. My hubby goes up for parole on March 1st. good luck to you and I hope things go well.

Chances R~~
02-23-2006, 09:56 AM
I will Taneiao........Thanks for stopping in!

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
02-23-2006, 10:02 AM
Girl, it wont be long till it is all over and you can just relax and be with him! Keep your head up! I think it is great that your friendship has grown into love and a deeper relationship.. My husband was by bestfriend growing up... I do believe that is what makes our relationship so strong! Good luck! :thumbsup:

pprice42
02-23-2006, 11:19 AM
42 and wake up.......I know I am getting more excited by the day......But we are doing our last bit......10 days at a time!:banghead: Yep....he is in the hole again.....He just don't know when to shut up sometimes. LOL He is just ornery...thats all. It is all really hard for me and I know you guys are all going through pretty much the same thing but Robbie and I were just good friends (for like 7 years) before the last bit. We have NEVER been intimate and that kinda freaks me out....Not that I ain't ready....it's been way tooooooo long now. It is just a mumbo jumbo of thoughts and antipicipations. I just don't know what to do with the remaining time to keep myself occupied and not freaking out. My last relationship was 12 years long and not pleasant at all.......very abusive! For the longest time I thought that I was relationship ruined....and now that the time is getting close......I am panicing :eek: and there is still the clown issue.......OMG! What am I gonna do????

Hang in there! Just 42 more days!! It will all be so good when he is in yours arms and everything will fall right into place. I am getting very nervous too.

Chances R~~
02-23-2006, 12:50 PM
Thank you Kat & pprice.....we all gotta hang together.......

ASH8669
02-23-2006, 02:20 PM
42!! yay!!! congratulations!! I know your ready. good luck!!

jblovesdb
02-23-2006, 02:25 PM
Robbies...I am SORRY to hear that he's in the hole again:( I know what you mean...they sometimes do NOT know how to shut the heck up! Oh girl...I am sure you and Robbie are gonna be FINE! Just take it one day at a time...don't let it stress you out! I know that easier said then done...but try:yes: :dance::hee::clap::hee: 42 and a wake up!! :yes::beer::yay::D Keep your head up! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Chances R~~
02-24-2006, 05:14 AM
I am soooooo thankful that I can spend my remaining days with others that are "dealing" with the same emotions. It just makes this whole process a lil easier.
Ashley...thanks for the support
Jackie....is he still wearing pissy pants or are things better?
"MAKE" it a great weekend ya'll.....hugs!

Kobe16
02-24-2006, 11:46 AM
hey girl!! 41 and a wake up!! :D I'm so sorry Robbie's in the hole. another great thing right? :shake: ;) like everyone says, take it a day at a time. its easier that way. :p have a wonderful weekend..you'll be in the 30's come sunday! :yay:

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
02-24-2006, 02:02 PM
41 and a wake up!! Sorry he is in the hole, soon he will be home and when he gets out of hand you can just slap him a little..lol... Keep your head up and stay strong it will soon be over!! Good luck to the both of you.

Chances R~~
02-24-2006, 04:43 PM
Thanks Kobe & Kat.......
Sometimes I crack myself up.......I read Kat's reply and thought it said I could SLAM him a little bit and I was thinking :dance::yes:OH YEAH OH YEAH:dance::yes: LMAO
Thanks for the words of encouragement!

ASH8669
02-24-2006, 06:28 PM
you are so close! Keep thinking posative, I hope the days fly for you. I am getting closer every day! 41!!! woo hoo!! :D

iffygiraffe
02-24-2006, 07:04 PM
im glad for you! when yours comes home, mine will only have18 days left! so i'm counting down with you !!!:thumbsup: :) :D good luck!:thumbsup: :D :)

Chances R~~
02-25-2006, 04:38 AM
Thank you Ashley & iffygiraffe.....I thought I'd never make it to this point but here I am and just a mess too. Thank you GOD for my PTO family!

DENIMBLUE
02-25-2006, 10:04 AM
...congrats! :)

pprice42
02-25-2006, 10:07 AM
40 and a wake up!! :) You are almost there! Soon it will be the 30's. Hang in there girl!

ASH8669
02-25-2006, 02:13 PM
its getting so close!! 40!! yeah!! :thumbsup: Keep it up1! I'll bee cheerin' you on the whole way!! This helps so much!!

inlovewithmrcar
02-25-2006, 04:37 PM
40 and a wake up!!! I have already threatned my man he better not do anything to jepordize my phone calls!! LOL!!

Chances R~~
02-25-2006, 05:44 PM
Thanks Demin for poppin' in!
pprice....the 30's already.... can you believe it??? Thanks for hangin wiff me!
Ashley.....you're the bomb! Thanks for sayin "HI" again......were ALL in this together
Penny...thanks for being here with me.....sometimes I think it is a blessing that he is in the hole.......I've been all in my feelings lately and at least this way ......he don't have to put up with all my emotions.......

ASH8669
02-26-2006, 04:24 PM
you made it to 39!! :thumbsup: :thumbsup: Go girl! One more day is almost gone..hang in there.

Chances R~~
02-27-2006, 05:04 AM
Thanks Ashley for counting with me when I am away.......38 left Thanks to all of you that are hangin and doing the countdown shuffle with me.........

jblovesdb
02-27-2006, 11:45 AM
:yay: 38 days left!!! :yes: Keep your head up! Hugs:p
-Jackie

inlovewithmrcar
02-27-2006, 02:14 PM
38 days!!! Go ahead girl!!!

Chances R~~
02-28-2006, 05:16 AM
37 days and I am definately freaking out. I found out why he is in the hole and I'm very upset about it. I'm even having fleeting thoughts that it would be better for him to go to his mothers house for a bit upon release.....I am so sad and hurt and most definately CONFUSED. We had a BIG blow out in September about this very thing and he assured me that it was a big misunderstanding.......and that he would NEVER lie to me about it anymore.........looks like he has and the real wrench is.....with him being in the hole...I can't even talk to him about it. But I don't think it is possible for him to tell the truth.....I wish I had a crystal ball and could just get a glimpse of the future. Hell........counting down isn't even fun these days. So Sad.......

ASH8669
02-28-2006, 03:50 PM
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things work out for you. You know what you have to do to make you happy. Good luck! Try to stay posative, it can't hurt anything, you know? :(

Kobe16
02-28-2006, 04:32 PM
awww HUGSSS girl! I'm so sorry ya gotta deal with this while counting down. I too hope things work out for you two! stay true girl. I'm thinking about ya. :grouphug:

Chances R~~
02-28-2006, 04:51 PM
Jackie, Penny, Ashley & Kobe......thanks for the words.....I only hope that I can make a decision that is a good decision for "ME" and try not to think about only "HIM" I know that he needs me but it's hard to tell that he loves me sometimes......It is a shame for both of us that I am going through all these changes right at the last bit.....BIG SIGH........I'm just sad.

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
03-01-2006, 11:21 AM
Aww honey I am soo sorry you are having to go through rough times. This should really be happy times for you.. Just hang in there and more important do what is best for YOU! Good luck and best withes... 36 more days and you can get to the bottom of things... Lots of love and hugs going your way! :grouphug:

Chances R~~
03-01-2006, 11:32 AM
Thank you Kat.....sob....sob.....I wish he would just behave. I want him with me but more than that I just want to remain "free" and at this rate...he don't stand a chance. But I can't let him bring me down either......No worries though.....I am good.

loveisdeeper
03-01-2006, 03:48 PM
I hope you feel better, I know this is tough to go threw but I can tell your strong and you'll make it. :)

warm_fuzzies
03-01-2006, 04:04 PM
Robbie..... Things will be okay baby know that just take it one day at a time. If you had a crystal ball them what would we have to look forward to? Life is full of ups and downs, twists, turn, ect. I had that fear too as you know. You are right YOU have to make the right decision for YOU and your family! Have faith!

inlovewithmrcar
03-01-2006, 10:50 PM
35 more days!!! Woo Hoo!!!

Chances R~~
03-02-2006, 04:54 AM
Loveisdeeper.... Thank you, I DO feel better. You are right, I am a strong woman and hell I've made it 39 years.....and I am doing GREAT!
Warm Fuzzies....Faith is the ONLY thing that keeps me sane. I guess you are right about the cyrstal ball thing... LOL, but I would still use it if I had one! I just want to know that he will be alright....ya know???
Penny.....Girl thank you for trying to keep me in good spirits even when I am feeling yuck!

Chances R~~
03-02-2006, 04:55 AM
Loveisdeeper.... Thank you, I DO feel better. You are right, I am a strong woman and hell I've made it 39 years.....and I am doing GREAT!
Warm Fuzzies....Faith is the ONLY thing that keeps me sane. I guess you are right about the cyrstal ball thing... LOL, but I would still use it if I had one! I just want to know that he will be alright....ya know???
Penny.....Girl thank you for trying to keep me in good spirits even when I am feeling yuck! Thank you ALL...It means the world to me to see

Kobe16
03-02-2006, 12:08 PM
35 days girl!! I hope you are staying up! we're thinking about ya!! :grouphug:

jblovesdb
03-02-2006, 12:08 PM
Hey Sweetie...I hope you are feeling better today! I'm sorry that he's in there trippin'...seriously, he needs to realize that it's not only HIM that it affects, YOU are affected too!!! And so is everyone else that's looking forward to him coming home. I hope that this behavoir STOPS soon and doesn't happen when he gets out:shake: My thoughts are with you girl!! :yay: 35 more days sweetie :dance: Keep your head up! Hugs:p
-Jackie

loveisdeeper
03-02-2006, 03:56 PM
Another day bites the dust! 35 Days and a wake up left :D

warm_fuzzies
03-02-2006, 04:13 PM
35 left........Robbie how are you girl!!!! Is everything going okay? are you ready?

ASH8669
03-02-2006, 06:06 PM
I hope your feeling better. 35 days to go! Just hang in there! :)

Chances R~~
03-03-2006, 03:13 AM
34 days girls and I AM doing good. Still don't know what the heck is going on BUT I am sure that he will get my letter today! :shake: He's not gonna be happy to know that I have found out these things. He will probly be like "dayum girl, who you got spyin on me and sh*t" LOL :D OK....since we are all family......I will let ya's in on what's up. You know that the 8th of last month was his b-day. Well I guess I sent him TOOOO much money and since he had extra he bought himself a b-day present. :hee: He knows how I feel about the whole "drug" thing. He did not tell me any of this though.....I found out when the dude he got it from called my house and ask ME for MORE money to pay for it! WTF????? I will NOT....it ain't gonna happen. He has no clue that any of this is going on.......I love him but I will not put myself or my children in and around a situation like that. It sucks....I was really hoping for the best for all of us. I'm not frettin over it though.....just hangin in there, EVERYTHING happens for a reason. Thanks for continuing to count with me. I love ya's!

robs_angel
03-03-2006, 06:07 AM
One day closer!

Draysmom
03-03-2006, 09:38 AM
Hey Robbies Only,
I've just started my countdown a couple days ago so I'm joining everyone elses's too!
I so feel ya on the birthday "issue"! I've gone through similar issues with my guy and I know the feeling. We just want the best for them and for our kids, etc.! I'm like you now though, i refuse to stress out about anything like this anymore. 34 days is coming quickly! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

loveisdeeper
03-03-2006, 02:16 PM
34 days and a wake up. :D I'm proud of you cause your not stressin :) I stress myself out way too much at times like these. 30's are winding down for ya :D Almost at the 20's :)

Chances R~~
03-03-2006, 03:09 PM
Thank you ladies.....everything is good here. I think I may grill outside for dinner.....I think it is nice enough weather. Just tending to the farm and going to the office everyday......I have to get in gear and get stuff ready for fawning season, that will be in May. I will have a bunch of babies on the bottle :-)
They are so cool. I am glad that it is finally friday! Maybe with any luck he will call tomorrow and let me know when he gets outa the hole.......so that we can talk about some things. I hope all of you ladies have a wonderful weekend!!!

Draysmom.....Welcome to the countdown Baby! It is an excellent place to be......this is the best group of people you will ever meet!

warm_fuzzies
03-03-2006, 03:57 PM
Robbie It will be okay baby hang in there!!!! :)

jblovesdb
03-03-2006, 07:34 PM
Hey girl...34 days left:yay::dance: I am SOO sorry that he bought himself his own b-day present:hee: I would be PI**ED too, esp. if some dude was asking ME for more month:blah::shake: He's a grown man...let him take care of it himself, ya know? Keep your head up girl!! Try not to stress too much, but make sure you let him know how you feel about the drug thing!! Best wishes. Hugs:p
-Jackie

dougswife
03-03-2006, 07:43 PM
:yay:Here's to everyones count down
Mine's been home one week today!!!!!:thumbsup:

Chances R~~
03-04-2006, 05:18 AM
Thank you Warm Fuzzies......I am gonna be ok. YEAH I am ready! (Big Smile)
Jackie.......I REALLY thought he already knew how I felt.....that is why I'm so pissy about it. He had told me that it had been 2 years since he even thought about doing it. What is the boy thinking? IDK :shake: I'm not stressin though. It is his decision......He just can't be here if that is the decision he makes........well I guess I should say made.........ACK!!!!!
Dougswife CONGRATS! How are things going girl??? Are ya like the happiest woman alive? Best wishes!

dougswife
03-04-2006, 09:45 AM
Hey Robbie's Only
Yes I am the happiest woman but we have already had our moments. The German/Irish in him makes him want to do everything at once!!! He is like the energizer bunnie. He cleaned out the whole 2 an a1/2 garage, tore out the fireplace, and put up two new doors on the front of the house so be r3adyto have lots for him to do to keep him busy!!
Good luck
Sue

Kobe16
03-04-2006, 02:32 PM
HEYY ROBBIE'S!! :wave: Girl I'm sorry about the bday thing too. that is a mess..and I can FEEL ya on that definitely. :yes: But I am glad you are not stressing about it. thats the last thing you need to do. Hopefully he will NOT make this something he will later regret. I hope yall talk soon. Yall are in my prayers. Stay up! :)

loveisdeeper
03-04-2006, 02:39 PM
33 days and a wake up :D Another days gone and done :yay: :dance: :yay:

jblovesdb
03-04-2006, 04:10 PM
Robbies...I am sorry that he had a "stupid moment". I know that they have to be going threw alot of stress...but that does not excuse what he did. I am not sure what you are planning on doing about this...but I would suggest that you make it known AGAIN and see how he acts. If he can't stay straight IN there, then that might be a bad sign for the future. But I HOPE that doesn't happen:shake: My thoughts are with you!! Just make sure you do what is best for YOU and your kids:yes: Best wishes! Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie
Oh yea...:yay::dance: 33 days to go :clap::D

inlovewithmrcar
03-04-2006, 07:16 PM
33 days left!!! Seems like here at the end they get real goofy!! But don't worry it will be over and they will all of the sudden regain there sense!!!

ASH8669
03-04-2006, 08:32 PM
hang in there, 33 days!!! :thumbsup:

Chances R~~
03-05-2006, 05:43 AM
32 days left and I have alot of things I ant to accomplish over the next two days. Besides just lookin after the farms.....I am in the process of remodeling the entire basement as my master suite. Bedroom, bathroom & closert and that is about 800 square feet. I have a wall that needs to be painted......alot of lumber to carry to the garage, building some shelves in the garage and my very bestest friend in the whole world (best friends since jr. high) stayed the night and she is helping me. Life is sweeeeet! Hope everyone is enjoying their weekend! Be Safe!

pprice42
03-05-2006, 08:32 AM
32 days left girl!! It will be here before you know it! Enjoy your time with your friend. That sounds really nice and the bedroon sounds awesome! :)

jblovesdb
03-05-2006, 05:47 PM
:yay::dance: 32 days left!!! :yes::clap: It sounds like you have ALOT to do to keep your busy:) But that should make the days go by faster. I'm glad your friend is helping you:thumbsup: Keep your head up! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Chances R~~
03-06-2006, 04:50 AM
Thank you girls.....I got everything done that was planned except for painting the small wall and I am off work today so after I get my nails done I may finish that up. It was great to spend time with my girlfriend.
31 Days Remaining…..OMG!

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
03-06-2006, 10:09 AM
WOW, Sounds like you are busy, but that does make the time move fast.... 31 days!!! WOW!! Once you are under 30 that time really flys, so get ready! That big bed room is getting ready just in time...lol... best luck to you and Robbie... :thumbsup:

Draysmom
03-06-2006, 10:14 AM
Only 31 More days!!!!!!!!!! Congrats! Keeping busy is the best way to make time fly by. :) :) :)

ASH8669
03-06-2006, 03:59 PM
31 days!! its good that your staying busy, it makes it easier!! Almsot there!! Just a little bit more!:)

Chances R~~
03-07-2006, 05:29 AM
Time is really starting to fly by and I just don't know where it goes. I received the sweetest letter from him yesterday BUT the letter that I receive tomorrow is the one I have been waiting for. Maybe it will clear up some issues. I hope so anyway! You ladies have a wonderful week! the little bit of bad news is that my counter says 1 month and one day..........and that is 31 and a wake up from today! How did we get off track like that? LOL who knows! I know April 8th isn't toooo far away so I am good!

jblovesdb
03-07-2006, 08:49 AM
:yay: 31 days and a wake up left!!! :dance: I'm glad you got a sweet letter yesterday:) And I hope the letter you are waiting for comes today!! Hopefully it clears up some things for you. IDK how we always mess up the days like that lol...I think we're all just SOO excited for everyone! Keep your head up!!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Kobe16
03-07-2006, 12:06 PM
31 and a wake up! yeah, we are ALL excited..messing up everyone's days. :haha: its all good though. I'm glad you got a sweet letter too. awww! I hope the letter tomorrow gives you the clarity you need! :yes: stay up!!

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
03-07-2006, 02:12 PM
Girl the way these days, weeks and months are passing by April 8th is gonna be here with a quickness!! :D 31 days and a wake up!! Look out you are almost under a month and once that happens they really fly!! Good luck!! :D CONGRATS on the sweet letter and hopefully everything is great in the next one!! Much love coming your way! :thumbsup:

loveisdeeper
03-07-2006, 03:29 PM
31 days and a wake up almost one month left :D :thumbsup:

aztkgirl
03-08-2006, 03:08 PM
Hi RobbiesOnly! I found you!! Now Im gonna be right here counting down with ya, since you've been a Doll for sticking with me through my count so far!

:thumbsup: 31 Days! ALRIGHT! :thumbsup:

loveisdeeper
03-08-2006, 03:15 PM
30 days and a wake up!! :thumbsup: :yay: :dance: :yay: :D Now officialy a month untill your mans back home with you. You must be feeling so many emotions right now. Mainly overjoyed and excitment. I'm happy for you just a lil ways to go and I know you got this :yes: :D

inlovewithmrcar
03-08-2006, 10:59 PM
30 days left!!! One month girl!!! I knew you could do it!!!

Chances R~~
03-09-2006, 06:24 AM
I'm in the 20's!!!!! (sining & dancing around) One year ago yesterday at 5:56 pm he asked me to marry him & I didn't even get totalk to him.....cuz he don't get out of the hole until today......(fingers crossed) Hopefully he will call tonight!

Loveisdeeper......You are incredible! Thank you for counting with me!
Penny......Are our guys coming home the same day???
Miss "C".......sweety I am so glad that you found me! I look forward to seeing ya here! Thanks for stopping in!
Jackie.......I just love ya girl.......I know I can always count on you to be here!
Ash......thanks for stopping in......US 2006 girls gotta hang tight ya know?
Draymom.......your a doll, thanks for countin down with me!
Kobe........you are the bomb! I am glad to see ya here!
Kat.......Thanks for the countdown......how have you been??
I am blessed to have each & every one of you in my thread!!!! THANK YOU'S!!!!
Much Love to all.

aztkgirl
03-09-2006, 08:33 AM
"Miss C" checking in! Here to yell out

29 DAYS.. WOO- HOO!!!

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
03-09-2006, 08:53 AM
Hey girl!, I am fine, just trying to keep from going crazy!!! lol... I am half way there now so I don't have far to go...lol... WOW! 29 days!! :D Girl before you know it you are gonna be in the teens! Hopefully you get to talk to him tonight, if not keep your head up because the day that he is home and all of this is over is coming really fast!! :thumbsup: Much love, Kat

loveisdeeper
03-09-2006, 04:10 PM
29 days to go:thumbsup:and a wake up :D Just under a month now :yay: :yay: I hope you get to talk to your man tonight. And he comes out of the hole. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. :thumbsup:

warm_fuzzies
03-09-2006, 06:35 PM
29 days girlie you are almost there and you will be home free. Counting with you till the end I am !!!!!!

Crstnamre
03-10-2006, 01:26 AM
28 days and a wake up!!!!

Chances R~~
03-10-2006, 06:04 AM
Good morning Christina.......how are you? I have had you on my mind lately! Thanks for the support!

jblovesdb
03-10-2006, 10:19 AM
YAY:yay: your under a month now:D ONLY 28 days to go:yes::clap: I am SOO happy for you. Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

aztkgirl
03-10-2006, 11:06 AM
28 Days.. Thats Great!! So Happy For You!

NENAZ
03-10-2006, 11:37 AM
28 days wishing you the very best..

Kobe16
03-10-2006, 11:43 AM
what up what up Robbies!! :wave: so did he call you last night? aww I hope so! girl, yall have under a month! :D HOLLA HOLLA!

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
03-10-2006, 01:08 PM
WOOO HOOO!! 28 DAYS, it wont be long now, Keep your head up and stay strong! Your day is gonna be here faster than you think!! :thumbsup:

Draysmom
03-10-2006, 03:56 PM
28 days! WOW! You must be so0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o excited. I'm so happy for ya! :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: Keep smiling - the time is going to fly by! Have a good weekend and I'll see ya on Monday morning bright and early. :)

warm_fuzzies
03-10-2006, 05:02 PM
28 days it will not be long now girl you can do it!!!

aztkgirl
03-11-2006, 08:09 AM
28 Days Missy! Its Going So Fast... Hang On Tight Because Its Gonna Go Even Faster!!

Chances R~~
03-11-2006, 10:48 AM
Alright Miss "C".....you are trying to add days to me! LOL You stop that! Yesterday was 28.....today is 27 OR 26 and a wake up! I know that you are just so excited about being in the SINGLE DIGITS tomorrow. Lucky girl.......
NO Kobe......he did not call! :-( I am still waiting to hear something.

aztkgirl
03-11-2006, 01:16 PM
LOL!! Im losing it!! Ok im back to fix this.. 27 days left!!! Yaay!

ASH8669
03-11-2006, 06:33 PM
27 days!! its almost over, just hang in there!;)

warm_fuzzies
03-11-2006, 10:34 PM
26 days left!!!! whoooo hooooooo!!!!

Chances R~~
03-12-2006, 06:23 AM
26 days and I can't believe it! I'm almost half way through the 20's. I think all the last minute details are taken care of. Some days are really really good and other days ......well they are NOT so good. REALITY is........I am about to have a man in my house and sharing my space with me. :eek: :faint: :eek:. It has been sooooooo long since I have had to be considerate of someone else in the house. Most of the time I am so excited and I can't wait to have him here.:yay: :yay: Days like today.....I'm tripping! :banghead: I went to my brothers house last night :beer: and played no limit Texas hold em.....Everyone was asking where my "MAN" was and the ones that knew were asking "how much longer" OMG........it hit me! 26 more days and he will be going and doing those things with me. It is definately proving to be an emotional roller coaster......I feel like crying but the bad thing is....I don't even know why......I think I am going to just find something to do and get my mind off of things. I hope that everyone is enjoying their weekend and being SAFE! Much Love to all.
Kat, Draymom, warm fuzzies & Ash.....thank you so much for being here with me and counting em down!
Claudia......thank you for fixing my days! your a sweetie......and you are down to SINGLE DIGITS! WOOOO HOOOO! Stay Strong girls!

inlovewithmrcar
03-12-2006, 08:56 AM
26 days!!! Girl don't worry he will be here before you know it and everything will be cool!! Don't worry yourself so much it gives you gray hair!!! Hang in there!!!

aztkgirl
03-12-2006, 12:48 PM
Im feeling you on feeling weird about sharing your space! Ive gotten used to it just being me and the boys.. but the bottom line is that we want them home and we are more than willing to adjust. You are gonna be just fine.. all of Us "countdown cuties" will be ok!!

ok 26 DAYS LEFT!!

moniqueSC
03-12-2006, 08:46 PM
"26 days and I can't believe it! I'm almost half way through the 20's. I think all the last minute details are taken care of. Some days are really really good and other days ......well they are NOT so good. REALITY is........I am about to have a man in my house and sharing my space with me. It has been sooooooo long since I have had to be considerate of someone else in the house. Most of the time I am so excited and I can't wait to have him here. Days like today.....I'm tripping! I went to my brothers house last night and played no limit Texas hold em.....Everyone was asking where my "MAN" was and the ones that knew were asking "how much longer" OMG........it hit me! 26 more days and he will be going and doing those things with me. It is definately proving to be an emotional roller coaster......I feel like crying but the bad thing is....I don't even know why......I think I am going to just find something to do and get my mind off of things."

I can totally relate to everything you said in this post. I was married for 9 years and separated for two before my divorce was final. It has been a while since I have had to share my space with anyone especially a man. Well, he did spend the night here alot before, but that was different because he wasn't actually living here...LOL

Every time I talk to my mom she asks "How much longer?" and it suddenly hits me like a tons of bricks how quickly the day will be here. I can't wait, but when I dwell on it I freak out a little. Emotional roller-coaster...BIG TIME! I try to stay busy to keep my mind off of it most of the time.

moniqueSC
03-12-2006, 08:48 PM
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loveisdeeper
03-13-2006, 12:12 AM
25 days and a wake up!!! :D Now your half way threw with those 20's :D In no time you be in the teens :thumbsup: Your almost threw with this ish just a lil ways to go stay strong you got this.

Chances R~~
03-13-2006, 06:04 AM
25 and I AM 1/2 way through the 20's......I know we will all be ok cuz we have each other to go through days like that with.....right??? (big smile) Thank you ladies for EVERYTHING!!!! I have lots to do today so a I probably won't get to post in everyone elses countdown until tomorrow.....We had severe weather last night and battled tornado's. Things are a wreck around my town.........at least one life was lost and there are still 2 people missing. Please say a little prayer for their families. The guy that I work with got caught in the middle of it. He had his wife and 2 month old baby with him. They ARE fine but it totaled his car and they now need a ride and to just get home so I am off to go get them! Have a great day y'all. (((((hugs)))) Stay Strong girls and I will be back!!!!!

jblovesdb
03-13-2006, 08:29 AM
Hey girl!! :yay:25 days left to go:dance: That's awesome...b/c the 20s FLY by:yes: I'm sorry about the bad weather you guys had last night:( And I hope those 2 missing people are found ALIVE. My thoughts are with you and the families in your area:grouphug: Keep your head up! Hugs:p
-Jackie

aztkgirl
03-13-2006, 11:06 AM
Oh wow, it sounds pretty bad out there! Please becareful and so glad to hear that you and yours are safe and sound!! On a brighter note... 25 days to go and this will all be a memory!!

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
03-13-2006, 11:21 AM
WOOOO HOOOO!! 25 DAYS, LOOK OUT TEENS HERE SHE COMES!!! YOU GO GIRL!! Keep your head up and keep on counting and it will be your day before you know it...Much love, Kat:D

Kobe16
03-13-2006, 02:20 PM
25 days Robbie's! I cant wait til it comes for you and Robbie! :) I'll be praying for the families of those around you. That is truly sad. Stay up!!

ASH8669
03-13-2006, 04:03 PM
i hate to hear about the bad weather. My prayers are with you all. I hope the missing people are found safe.

25 more days!! getting better everyday!!:p

Chances R~~
03-14-2006, 05:40 AM
24 days.......WHEW.....That is just a little over 3 weeks!!!!!! ACK! That is such an overwhelming thought.........WHEW!!!! I am very ready for him to be out of that place though. I can't wait to have my "best bud" back.....We have alot of bar b que's and float trips to catch up on!!!!!
Alot of clean up was done yesterday....things are getting back to normal for a minute. I live right i tornado alley in the midwest. Spring is always crazy! Thank you all for yours words and prayers.

aztkgirl
03-14-2006, 10:44 AM
Im so glad things are getting back to normal for you all. Time is moving fast.. just 24 days left!

loveisdeeper
03-14-2006, 02:08 PM
24 days and a wake up!! :D your be moving into those teens soon :yay: :yay: Im glad to hear things are getting back to normal in your area and that your alright. :)

warm_fuzzies
03-14-2006, 04:39 PM
24 days left missy I am 2 days behind you so I have the jitters too. there are not enough hors in the day to do what I need to do. Robbie will be home in a minute.
P.S. I hear ya about the weather it sucks!

jblovesdb
03-14-2006, 07:42 PM
:yay::dance: 24 days left sweetie :clap::hee: I'm glad you guys are getting things cleaned up around there. Isn't it such an overwhelming feeling?? I know what you mean. Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Kobe16
03-15-2006, 11:24 AM
23 days girl! :) :D

aztkgirl
03-15-2006, 11:31 AM
23 Days Left Honey!!

loveisdeeper
03-15-2006, 03:15 PM
23 days and a wake up!!!! :D just a few more days and the teens :thumbsup:

ASH8669
03-15-2006, 03:54 PM
23 days! your so close! Hang in there, I can't wait to be where you are!;)

Kobe16
03-16-2006, 12:24 PM
22 Ms Robbie! how ya doing? :)

aztkgirl
03-16-2006, 12:48 PM
Check in Lady.. How are ya? You're down to 22 Baby!!

Chances R~~
03-16-2006, 01:13 PM
Hey All......I am sorry to have been such a slacker the last couple of days but things are not good around here. My 15 year old daughter has been very sick.....the doctor's office kept telling me that they have NO openings but it did not neccesitate a trip to the emergency room. Poor thing threw up ALL afternoon yesterday. most of the night, and I woke up at 5 am and she was (already/still) in the bathroom........Her fever was 102. At that point I was just looking after her but not freaking to awful bad.......Well NOW I am FREAKING her fever has went up to 104.1 and I have called the doctor back and they finally agreed to see her at 2:45 pm so I am about ready to take off with her.....she is totally dehydrated and had NOT eaten anything for well over 24 hours. She is just exhausted from the fever....I will try to catch up with all my "hollers" later tonight. Take care and just remember that even though I am not posting with you everyday......I am still thinking about each and everyone of you. mcuh love to all and thank you for holding the count down for me.

inlovewithmrcar
03-16-2006, 01:25 PM
Oh girl I am sorry to hear about your daughter being sick! When I went to pick up my son he had yellow gook coming out of his eyes so I can relate. Once again good ole cincinnati, good for there sinuses. If you didn't have problems with them you will once you live here. Hope everything is o.k. 22 days!!!! Almost in the teens!!!

SHANE'SKITTYKAT
03-16-2006, 03:53 PM
You and your daughter will be in my prayers... 22 days girl and you will have some help there...Keep your head up and stay stong.. much love, Kat

ASH8669
03-16-2006, 04:34 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your daughter, I hope she feels better soon! In the mean time, your another day closer. 22 more!!:D

loveisdeeper
03-16-2006, 05:52 PM
Sorry your daughters sick :( I hope she gets to feeling her self again soon. On a brighter note 22 days and a wake up in a few days your be in the teens :D :thumbsup:

aztkgirl
03-16-2006, 09:25 PM
Oh No! Im sorry to hear about your daughter.. thats just awful. I hate it when my kids are sick and I cant get them in to see the Doc. Its the worst panicky feeling. I hope that all went well and that shes feeling better! Lots and lots of fluids..and I hope you too are getting some rest!

Crstnamre
03-16-2006, 11:22 PM
22 days and a wake up!!!!! Wooooooo Hoooooooooo!!!! You are almost to the teens!!!!!!

Chances R~~
03-17-2006, 05:20 AM
Zackly 3 weeks from today! YAY!!!!! The girl is feeling better today....no more fever....I just checked on her. Thnak you God!
Penny, Kat, Ash, Loveisdeeper, Miss "C", & Christina Thank you for your kind words and your prayers. Love y'all bunches! I'm going to go now and do my duties for the countdown cuties!!!!! (((hugs)))

aztkgirl
03-17-2006, 10:38 AM
Hey Hey! Glad to hear your daughter is better! 3 more weeks Honey Bunch and you'll be living it up with your Honey!!

aztkgirl
03-17-2006, 11:32 AM
Here’s that “Count Down Cutie Homecoming” thread for all of us to share our updates and homecoming stories with eachother!!

http://prisontalk.com/forums/showthread.php?p=1810747#post1810747 (http://prisontalk.com/forums/showthread.php?p=1810747#post1810747)

Draysmom
03-17-2006, 11:40 AM
3 weeks and countin! I'm sorry to hear that your daughter was so sick, I know it can be quite a headache trying to get in to a doctor. I'm glad she's feeling better. :) You must getting more and more excited! Only 18 days, that's nothing! Keep busy and keep smiling. :) Thanks for helping me countdown on my thread - it means alot. I'm going to be offline after today until Wednesday of next week because today is my last day of work and I won't have access to the internet... :( So, I wish you all the best and I'll chat with you soon!!! :) My guy gets out on Wed. so I'll be writing in the coming head thread soon. :):):)

Chances R~~
03-17-2006, 11:58 AM
Miss "C" ......Thanks for checking in with me and for our Countdown Cuties link. You will posting there very very soon! And believe me.....I can't wait for those joyous stories!
Drays .........I'm gonna miss you so much! I love reading your posts! I appreciate you trying to knock a couple days off for me but I have 21 days left..... :-)

Don't forget......LADIES, WE WANT PICTURES!!!!!

Chances R~~
03-17-2006, 02:15 PM
Alright Girlie Friends.....I have an update for you......ARE YOU READY???? Robbie and I have talked and we have agreed that we really shouldn't live together when he is released. Please don't be sad for me......Please! This is a good thing and we "talked" about it for a long time. He is not sure that he has changed his "bad habits" and I am sure that I don't want no part of it in my life. He understands that I have teenaged children that are my world and they are at a very impressionable age. I am still gonna continue "HIS" countdown for him because I am so glad for him. We are definately gonna keep in touch because we have been friends for a long time and we promised one another in the beginning that our "Friendship" would not change! Please don't stop counting with me! (((hugs))) to all!!!!

aztkgirl
03-17-2006, 02:35 PM
Are you saying the relationship is over? Or you 2 will just have seperate living arrangements? Either way, I have to say that I am a little sad.. but its very considerate of you both to think about the kids. How are you feeling? Are you really ok?

jblovesdb
03-17-2006, 09:02 PM
Ok...I'm sorry that this is happening, BUT you seem to be accepting it very well:grouphug: I'm sorry to hear that he still hasn't changed all his bad habits...but atleast he can admit to that. I hope you guys continue to be friends and figure out how things will work between you two:yes: My heart goes out to you and Robbie! But stay strong and take it a day at a time! :yay::dance: 21 days left to go! :yes::rock: Keep your head up! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Chances R~~
03-18-2006, 06:14 AM
Miss "C"......Yes it means the "in love" relationship is over. But the friendship relationship is still strong. I know that we will still see one another and hang out......do all the buddy stuff. Thank you for your concerns but this is really what "we" prefer.

Jackie...... I am accepting it so well because it was a decision made from the heart and NOT made out of anger. I am so glad that I was able to be there for him through his last 2 years. He needed the emotional & finacial support and someone to just keep him in touch with reality. I am blessed that I was the one. I would NOT change a thing!!!!!

He is down to 20 Days!!!!!!

inlovewithmrcar
03-18-2006, 07:01 AM
WHAT???? Are you guys over with? I hope not. I am sorry for you even though you don't want me to be. I am glad you guys could talk about it and realize what was going on. I hope everything works out for you.

Chances R~~
03-18-2006, 11:11 AM
Penny......(Big Smile) I guess this kinda threw everyone for a loop but REALLY.....it is ok. I will continue to count down for him and you know I will be here day for day with you.......our guys share the same "outdate".......Thank you so much for being with me through .....All Of It!!!! I am GOOD! (((hugs)))

ASH8669
03-18-2006, 02:21 PM
:p I hate to hear about that, but I think its wonderful that you both have enough respect for one another to make a decision like that. At least he admits his faults and is not willing to pull your family into his "bad habits". I think that shows alot about him. You are a wonderful person,and I'm glad that you are "ok" with this. You have to be happy and your doing the right thing. We will support you in any decison you make!! I'm glad you both can remain friends!:p

aztkgirl
03-18-2006, 02:40 PM
Thats right Honey.. we back you up all the way! Im so glad that you are ok with it all. Will you be the first one he sees when he comes home?

robs_angel
03-18-2006, 02:43 PM
**{hugs}}

Chances R~~
03-18-2006, 07:55 PM
Unfortnuately I am about 4 hours away so I won't be the first but I know I will be at the top of the list! His Mother & Father are the closest to him and he has a friend that will pick him up and take him to see them first. We still have a countdown to do here ladies! Thanks for all of the support!
Ash......Thanks for stoppin in and for your words of encouragement......We are happier this way!!! (((hugs)) Thank you Ash.
Miss "C".........OMG Girl....three more days! Lucky girl! I think through it all I have been just as excited for you as I was in my own countdown!
robs_angle........(((hugs)))

inlovewithmrcar
03-19-2006, 08:24 AM
19 days girl!!! We are in the teens baby!!! Hope everything is going good!!!

jblovesdb
03-19-2006, 07:28 PM
:yay::dance::hee: 19 days to go!! :beer::clap::rock: Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

Chances R~~
03-20-2006, 05:04 AM
18 days! YAY!!!!!
Penny........I still can't believe things are getting this close for our guys!!!!!
Jackie.....OMG girl....you're less than a week now!!!!!!

aztkgirl
03-20-2006, 12:04 PM
Alright 18 days and getting closer!! Hang in there Honey!!

ASH8669
03-20-2006, 04:23 PM
:hifive: 18 more!!! almost to the 2 week mark,hold on, its almost here!:hifive:

jblovesdb
03-20-2006, 05:15 PM
:yay::rock::fb: 18 days to go!!!! :clap::beer::rock: Keep your head up!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

warm_fuzzies
03-20-2006, 06:13 PM
18 days left girl and I am right behind you. Hope all is going well for you and your hunny this week.

Chances R~~
03-21-2006, 11:28 AM
Ladies...........I have some very bad news. Robbie and I have been talking ALOT over the past couple of days......BUT this morning I received a phone call from him and immediatety I knew something was wrong. He said that the Lt. at the camp where he is pulled him out of his cell at 11:15 pm last night.........His father has suddenly became very ill and was in the hospital on life support......He called again this morning to let me know that his father passed away at 8:36am this morning. I am so very sad. 17 lousy days before he was to go visit them........My Robbie is a mess right now. I may not be around for a few days BUT would like to ask all my girls to keep Robbie, his brother Floyd and their Mother Mary in your thoughts and prayers. Thank you for everything. Many hugs to all!
"Miss "C"............Today is your day girlie.......I hope you are having a great one!!!!!

Kobe16
03-21-2006, 11:51 AM
HEYY! 17 days left! :) Aww girl I'm sooo sorry to hear about Robbie's father. that is so sad. I will definitely keep him, Floyd and Mary in my prayers. I pray they get the comfort they need at this time. stay up! HUGS girl! :grouphug:

warm_fuzzies
03-21-2006, 06:41 PM
OMG Robbie's I am so sorry to hear about your man's father. I pray that he finds strenth and inner peace during this difficult time. I pray that the man above has his arms around your/his entire family right now and that your man is safe and comes home to NOTHING but happiness, and joy.

17 days............. hold on change is coming

ASH8669
03-21-2006, 08:22 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about that, Tell him were praying for him, Time heals all wounds!! I just hate he's so close to getting home, but..he'll make it, and so will you!! Hang in there!!

jblovesdb
03-21-2006, 09:32 PM
I'm sooo sorry to hear this sweetie:( My thoughts are with Robbie...his brother...his mother and you:grouphug: This really sucks...and I couldn't even imagine the sadness you are all feeling!! Keep your head up girl!! Tell Robbie to STAY STRONG...he's almost done...17 more days to go!!!!! Best wishes to you all. Hugs:p
-Jackie

aztkgirl
03-22-2006, 11:02 AM
Oh, Im so sorry to hear what happend. Its so unfair that he was so darn close to seeing him at least before he passed. No doubt Robbie and his family will be in my prayers.. and you too Honey.

loveisdeeper
03-22-2006, 03:06 PM
Im sorry to hear about his father. But I will keep his family and robbie in my thoughts and prayers on a lighter note theirs 16 days left to go.

jblovesdb
03-22-2006, 08:48 PM
It's very bittersweet...but :yay::hee::clap: 16 days to go :dance::rock::yes: Keep your head up!! My thoughts are with all of you:grouphug: Hugs:p
-Jackie

Crstnamre
03-23-2006, 02:01 AM
15 days and a wake up!!!!

inlovewithmrcar
03-23-2006, 02:44 AM
15 days girl!!!! I am soooo sorry to hear about robbie's dad!!! His family is definetely in my prayers!!! Hang in there girl if you need to talk just hit me up!!! Love ya!!!!

aztkgirl
03-23-2006, 10:36 AM
Have you talked to Robbie again? How's he doing? How about you, are you doing ok? I hope you're doing well, check in and let us know.

15 days.

ASH8669
03-23-2006, 04:41 PM
:wave: hey...i hope everyone is doing ok. Let us know if you need anything. 16 more days!! Hold on..its almost over!:wave:

jblovesdb
03-23-2006, 09:12 PM
:yes::clap::yay::rock: 15 days to go! :beer::dance::hee::D I hope that everything is ok:grouphug: Hugs:p
-Jackie

Chances R~~
03-24-2006, 02:29 PM
Today was the funeral :-( I am just a mess. Thank you all for hanging in there with me. Robbie is doing a bit better........his brother Floyd is NOT doing so well. Rob & Floyd are at least at the same institution and are able to grieve together. They both feel absolutely helpless and feel so bad for their mother. It is so sad to talk with them.
****Good news Girls.......I am eligible to visit after April 2nd (my 5 years away from DOC will be up) Since Robbie is going to be out.....I'm going to visit with Floyd and keep him company for the rest of his time. I talked with their mother and she says she thinks Floyd needs someone right now so here I go again. Robbie thinks it may be a good idea as well. We have all been friends for around 10 years....it's like family! Again....thanks for continuing Robbie's countdown!

jblovesdb
03-24-2006, 07:43 PM
AWW:( I'm SOO sorry to hear this sweetie:grouphug: I hope that Robbie and his family can be strong!! My thoughts are with all of you...including his brother Floyd!! That really stinks that they are both in there:( but as you said, atleast they can grieve together! That's really sweet that you are gonna be visiting Floyd to keep him company:) It's good that everyone agrees on this:yes: Well...:yay::rock::clap: 14 days to go :beer::dance::D Keep your head up sweetie! Hugs:p
-Jackie

robs_angel
03-24-2006, 09:42 PM
I am soo sorry to hear about his dad, Great that you are able to visit now, Hang in there almost done !

ASH8669
03-25-2006, 10:02 AM
At least the funeral and all is over and the healing process can begin. They are luck to have someone like you to stand by them, you truley are an angel. Its great that you can stand by Floyd during his stay. Everything happens for a reason. Hang in there, you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

jblovesdb
03-25-2006, 08:11 PM
Hey sweetie!! ONLY :yay::rock::dance::hee: 13 more days to go :beer::clap::fb::D I hope that Robbie, Floyd and their mother are doing good...and I hope you are as well:) Keep your heads held high!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

loveisdeeper
03-25-2006, 11:53 PM
12 days just a few more days and you be in the single digits :D :thumbsup:

Chances R~~
03-26-2006, 08:09 AM
Single digits......I still can not believe that it is this close!!!!! YAY!!!!!!!
Robs.....thanks for stopping by and continuing to count with me (((hugs)))
Ash......thank you sweety.......they are such a wonderful family and I am blessed to have had the chance to meet them and spend time with them.......does this mean when Robbie's out that I will have to change my name and get a new counter for Floyd??? LOL It's kinda crazy BUT it is all mine....right??? LOL
Jackie.......TODAY is your day! I cried like a baby while I was reading your final posts. Thank you for everything.
Loveisdeeper.......I can always count on you to be here with me!!!!!! (((hugs))) You are getting so close! How are you holding up girl?

inlovewithmrcar
03-26-2006, 10:05 PM
11 days!!! Glad to hear you are doing better and I hope you have a good visit with Floyd. Love ya girl!!!

Chances R~~
03-27-2006, 04:55 AM
Thanks Penny.......I am a little nervous about it though......I have NEVER been a visitor before! And it has been like six years since I saw him face to face last! WHEW!!!! Thanks for hanging with me. (((hugs)))

Raydani3
03-27-2006, 07:40 AM
11 days left....Youre almost in single digits as well. Keep your head up. It will be over before you know it!

pprice42
03-27-2006, 07:59 AM
11 more days! It will be here in no time! I hope everyone is healing from the lost of your loved one. it will take time.

ASH8669
03-27-2006, 11:32 AM
:yes: 11 more days! How is everyone holding up? I hope things get better soon. I'm sure you'll be nervous about the visit, but...hopefully everything will be just fine. Its nice to see them. I hadn't seen Travis in 6 years when I started talking to him again,and then I saw him. Its akward, but fun!! Hang in there girl.:yes:

loveisdeeper
03-27-2006, 03:37 PM
11 days!! :eek: almost counting on two hands :D :D hope everyone feels better soon. It's great to see him hope you enjoy your visit :thumbsup:

Chances R~~
03-28-2006, 12:18 PM
Raydani.....thaks for stopping in with me.
Pam......We are doing good....thank you
Ashley.......LOL I always feel awkward! LOL
loveisdeeper........thanks for your support!
We are all good here. Things are slowly getting back to normal. Much love to each and everyone of you. I don't know what I would do with out my PTO peeps!

Kobe16
03-28-2006, 12:31 PM
10 days girl!! :) I'm glad things are gettin back to normal. Stay up!

loveisdeeper
03-28-2006, 02:22 PM
10 days!!! :eek: WOW both hands to count the days down on :D :D I'm glad everything is getting back to normal. I know it's a long road to travel. I also know that you are a strong women and can travel down that road. Keep staying strong not much longer to go :thumbsup:

jblovesdb
03-28-2006, 04:01 PM
:clap::dance::hee: 10 more days to go!! :beer::yes::yay: I hope these 10 days FLY by and you and Robbie have a wonderful friendship:yes: My thoughts are still with all of his family and you...but I'm glad to hear things are slowly getting back to normal. Keep your head up sweetie!! Hugs:p
-Jackie

inlovewithmrcar
03-28-2006, 09:39 PM
10 days girl!!! Few more minutes and we will be in the single digits!!!

Chances R~~
03-29-2006, 04:50 AM
Kobe........It is ALWAYS good to see you counting with me.....Thank you!
Loveisdeeper.........WE are all strong women! We have to be to deal with this kind of relationship. :beer: Here's to all the "countdown cutie's"
Jackie.......I am so glad that you took a few minutes to holler at your girls.........I know you are very MISSED in all of the threads! I am glad everything is going well for you. Be safe in your travels to GA. Much love (((hugs)))
Penny........WE DID IT!!!!!!!! SINGLE DIGITS GIRL!!!!!!! (((hugs)))

I just don't know what I'd do with out ya's!

pprice42
03-29-2006, 08:42 AM
9 more days girl!! You got this one!

ASH8669
03-29-2006, 04:26 PM
:yes: 9 more!! single digits!! How is everyone holding up? Robbie's almost home, you gonna start Floyd one? When is his release?:yes:

loveisdeeper
03-29-2006, 05:47 PM
single digits have arrived :D 9 days left to go :thumbsup:

warm_fuzzies
03-29-2006, 08:10 PM
9 more girlie and I am here with you and I know that you are so ready ONE FULL week to go :)

Chances R~~
03-30-2006, 06:23 AM
Thank you ladies so much for counting with me.....
ASH......Floyd's outdate is Aug. 13th, 2007! I have put a ticker on my thread already!

pprice42
03-30-2006, 07:30 AM
8 days OMG!! :D

inlovewithmrcar
03-30-2006, 12:23 PM
8 Days!!! 8 Days!!!
Almost one week!!!!

loveisdeeper
03-30-2006, 05:51 PM
8 days Oh My!! almost one week :eek: hang in their your rollercoaster is almost threw. :D

Crstnamre
03-30-2006, 11:05 PM
8 days!!!! OMG!! You are almost there!!!!

Kobe16
03-31-2006, 11:27 AM
7 days Robbies!! I'm thrilled for ya!! I cant wait to hear about it. hope you are stayin up! :)

Chances R~~
03-31-2006, 01:39 PM
Pam....Penny.....Loveisdeeper.......Gosh......you guys are the best! Thank you so much for continuing my countdown with me. OMG is absolutely right........1 MORE WEEK!!! I still can't believe it. Seems not so long ago that I began this countdown. Much love to you guys......you rock!!! :rock::rock::rock:
Christina & Kobe..........:wave:Hi Guys!!!! How have you been??? I think about you often and wonder how you are doing! Thanks for stopping in with me!

Kobe........your ticker is recently new....yes??? When we gonna start your countdown????;)

ASH8669
03-31-2006, 06:10 PM
:p 7 days!! 1 week..just 1!!!!! wow!!! Can you believe this? I'm so glad he's gonna be home soon!! Yay for Robbie!!!!:p

loveisdeeper
03-31-2006, 10:13 PM
a little less then ONE WEEK left i'm so happy for you girl :D :D :D your long ride on the rollercoaster is coming to an end :D Congrats hang in their just a little less then a week left :thumbsup:

Chances R~~
04-01-2006, 03:27 AM
:cry::cry::cry: :nono::nono::nono: :cry::cry::cry: My ticker didn't roll over to 6 DAYS!!!!!! OMG!

robs_angel
04-01-2006, 11:20 AM
another day closer!

inlovewithmrcar
04-01-2006, 12:23 PM
I am still representing for you 6 days!!! Woo Hoo!!!

Chances R~~
04-01-2006, 12:48 PM
Thanks Penny.....knew ya would! (((hugs)))

warm_fuzzies
04-02-2006, 09:48 AM
5 Days left right!!!!! :) I am soo happy for you he will be here at the end of this week!!!! YAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH

ASH8669
04-02-2006, 07:09 PM
:beer: 5 days girl!! wow!! One hand count down!! I"m so happy for ya'll. I know he's ready!! Its so close!:beer:

Kobe16
04-03-2006, 11:48 AM
Kobe........your ticker is recently new....yes??? When we gonna start your countdown????;)

What up chica! Yeah, I had it up in January then took it down, now I see I'm at 5 months..:D I'll probably start in the summer. You gon be countin with me right? :p

4 DAYS!

inlovewithmrcar
04-03-2006, 10:39 PM
4 days!!! Couldn't you just bust? I have the giggles seriously and I can't stop them!!!

Chances R~~
04-04-2006, 05:49 AM
3 and a wake up!
Penny......I thought that I was the only dork with the giggles!
Kobe........of course I will be counting with you!

aztkgirl
04-04-2006, 09:51 AM
3 days and a wake up! How ya Feeling??

Chances R~~
04-04-2006, 12:07 PM
doing good Miss "C".....How have YOU been???

aztkgirl
04-04-2006, 12:21 PM
Oh Honey, Im here back at work and Im missing him! Things are great though and I want to say that You have been great and sweet to me! THANK YOU and Im here for you!!

loveisdeeper
04-04-2006, 03:16 PM
3 days and a wake up!! :D :D Im so happy for you hang in their not long at all :thumbsup:

ASH8669
04-04-2006, 03:21 PM
:ha: 3 more to go! I'm so happy for ya'll! I hope the homecoming is wonderful. You deserve it! Hold on just a few more!!:ha:

pprice42
04-05-2006, 06:59 AM
2 more days and a wake up!!!!!!!:yay: :clap: :yay: :clap: :yay: :clap:

inlovewithmrcar
04-05-2006, 08:16 AM
Is it 2 or 3? What's up with your ticker? Either way WOO HOO!!!

Chances R~~
04-05-2006, 11:20 AM
He comes home at 8:00 AM Saturday morning.......so it's
2 and a wake up!!!!!

Chances R~~
04-05-2006, 11:29 AM
Ladies & Gents........I am tossing the idea around to head out tonight and just spend some quiet time with me........no kiddo's.......no job........no farm to feed.....
just hang out and enjoy "ME". I will keep ya'll posted......
I will be on a bit later to posts on everyone's threads.......Much love & (((hugs)))
THANK YOU ALL SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!

Colossians3Two
04-05-2006, 12:31 PM
Woo Hoo! April 8th is almost here! Congrats and best wishes to both of you!

God Bless!

warm_fuzzies
04-05-2006, 09:23 PM
April 8th will be here very soon missy!!!!!! I know cuase my man comes home the next day at 8am :)

aztkgirl
04-06-2006, 02:50 PM
Saturday is the big Day! Girl you go and take that "ME" time.. You deserve it! Im thinking about ya!!

loveisdeeper
04-06-2006, 03:56 PM
2 days....:D enjoy your alone time I know you deserve it :D

warm_fuzzies
04-06-2006, 04:59 PM
2 days left and i know that you are ready enjoy your "alone time" when your man comes you wont have that...... :)

Love ya

Kobe16
04-06-2006, 07:00 PM
2 days left! :D :eek: :hee: :dance: :clap: Girl how ya holdin up? ;) :p I cant wait to hear about the homecoming!! stay up! much love!!!

inlovewithmrcar
04-06-2006, 10:15 PM
1 more day girl!!! Hope you are enjoying yourself!!! Have a great time and much love to ya!!!

Chances R~~
04-07-2006, 04:23 AM
I have been enjoying my "me" time. I talked with Robbie and he is so amped up about tomorrow. His mother is doing a big Bar B Que at her place. It is going to be a wonderful day! I just can't thank you all enough.....especially my "countdown" cuties.......you guys ARE absolutely the best! Kat, Jackie, Miss "C", Drays, my girl Penny, Loveisdeeper, Ash, Kobe, warmfuzzies, Pam, OMG the list could go on and on. I am blessed that my path took this turn and that I could meet each and evey one of you. If I forgot anyone......please forgive me! Much Love to all!

Gemini4lif
04-07-2006, 04:38 AM
Tomorrow is the big day!!!!!!! :D :D Enjoy it and TRY to get some rest if you can! I cant wait to see your update!

Enjoy!

Patrice

warm_fuzzies
04-07-2006, 05:14 AM
24 HOURS, 24 HOURS,
24 HOURS!!!!!

YYYYYYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAA!!!!!!!
I am too happy for you Robbies, and I am super excited that I have met you and that our paths have crossed. Hopefully this is the beginning of a wonderful friendship and I BETTER see you on "our" forum!!!!

LOVE YA GIRL

MiniMe
04-07-2006, 06:20 AM
Congradulations, I wish you and your honey the best of luck in the future.

aztkgirl
04-07-2006, 01:29 PM
Oh Robbies Im so Happy that you are Happy! Thats the main thing here! No need to thank "The Count Down Cuties".. we all thank you for being YOU!!
Congratulations Sweet Heart!

ASH8669
04-07-2006, 07:02 PM
:ha: this is it girl!! I think i'm gonna cry!! I'm so glad its over! I hope the bbq goes wonderful. I hope everything goes great for Robbie and you and everyone! I am so glad this one is over for ya! What a relief huh? congratulations girl! I'm so blessed to know you! Its over!!! I'm praying for ya!:ha:

inlovewithmrcar
04-07-2006, 08:08 PM
1 more day woman!!! You are finally done!!! Now I guess we got to do a countdown for floyd huh?

Chances R~~
04-08-2006, 05:29 AM
This is it! I am so excited for him. I have cried and laughed and cried some more. I will not be attending the bar b que today :-( It is more of a family thing and with the passing of his father last week, I think it is better to let him have this day. I know that he will call me and he will be here as soon as he can for a visit!
LMAO.........I can't believe that my ticker says it's my wedding day! IT IS NOT! LOL......oh well.....
Patrice.......WOW it is great to see you on my countdown! Thank you!
Warm........I love ya girl! You WILL see me around just with a different name.....as soon as I can figure out how to do that without getting into trouble
:-) I wouldn't miss your homecoming for the world!
Minime............thanks for stopping in!
Miss "C"............I know you have permantly touched my life! I am always thinking about you and your antics.......you crack me up! Thank You!
Ash............don't cry.....you will make me cry again! (((hugs))) This is a very happy day! Thank you for sharing it with me.....
Penny...........awwww.....Thank you for trying to keep up with all the twist and turns that the last couple of years have brought to me. You are so special. I am so glad that everything is GOOD for you and your family! YES......I will have to continue a count down for "Floyd" That will keep me around PTO at least another year and a half.....Thats a happy thought!
Again....thank you all! Damn it.......crying again! happy tears of course......I love you guys!

warm_fuzzies
04-08-2006, 08:18 AM
YOUR Day is here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I swear you are the cutest! Thank you for all of your kind words and just for being you. ENJOY every second and NEVER take anything for granted.

I am too excited and grateful for you that words do not even explain!

ASH8669
04-08-2006, 08:44 AM
:D Its here!! FINALLY!! I can't wait to hear about that phone call. You hang in there girl. I know Robbie is so appreciative of you. I know I am!! You are wonderful!!! Its over!! Your wedding day!! so funny!!! I love it!! I needed that!!:D

pprice42
04-08-2006, 11:05 AM
I am so happy for you!!!!!! :yay: :yay: I can just feel the happiness and joy from your words. It's a great day! :) :) :)

Pam

Kobe16
04-10-2006, 11:41 AM
GIRL!! so how have things been? :) ;) :p CONGRATS! I hope you and him are just ENJOYING each other to the fullest!! :D
oh and the new name?? I like msjellybean! :cool:

aztkgirl
04-10-2006, 12:54 PM
Oh Honey.. you need to quit being so sweet.. my mascara is running over here in the office! You are a wonderful person and you too have touched my life with your constant support. Now this sounds like a goodbye and I dont like it! Its just goodbye to your countdown thats it! Love Ya!!

Chances R~~
04-10-2006, 03:09 PM
Thats it Miss "C" Just a good bye to this countdown.....you can't beat me away from PTO with a stick.......I am definately addicted to my girls!

ASH8669
04-10-2006, 05:04 PM
:D darn right!! I couldn't make it without you girl!!:D

robs_angel
04-12-2006, 05:28 PM
Congrats!

Alizentang
04-16-2006, 08:54 AM
Congrats....how are things going...we want DETAILS

Chances R~~
04-17-2006, 05:43 AM
:wave::wave::wave:Hello all...........OMG! :D That is all I can even think to say! I went to see Robbie on Saturday. I had talked with him on the phone alot but seeing him was so much different than I thought it would be. He looked sooooo good! :drool: We were at his mothers house and I had the 2 girls with me......he was so happy to see us! We laughed and cried and acted just as goofy as we ever did....:rock:We went to dinner and took the girls to a movie. I walked outside with him to smoke and as soon as we were away from the girls............He broke. He grabbed me up and held me so tight.....as he cried........He told me "I love you lil mama".........He told me that he kinda figured he had messed up a great thing and he just didn't know what he had been thinking.....
He said as soon as he saw me he realized......."It's NO where close to being over" WTF???? :confused: I had gotten a room for the night and he wanted to go back there with me.......but I couldn't do it. :nono: I took him back to mama's house and drove away from my best friend! I cried! :cry: It broke my heart to leave him there. :broken:He has called me like 150 gazillion times and yes.......I thought about just driving back to get him but I decided that the best thing to do was to just give it some time. He has an Ex involved and Floyd is involved.........I don't want to hurt either one of them just because we are having some second thoughts now. I think it was just the excitement from seeing one another for the first time. But the chemistry was still there and smokin'! I don't know why I let that lil boy do that sh*t to me..........:argh::argh::argh:
All in all.....It was a wonderful visit with him.

ASH8669
04-17-2006, 06:24 AM
AWWW. Girl, you had me crying!! You did the right thing though, just give it time, and everything will work out just like it is supposed to. I don't know how you controled yourself girl...I couldn't do it. I'll keep praying for ya, you know I will! I am glad your visit went good, just keep doing what your doing and everything will be just fine. Go girl!! love ya!

Chances R~~
04-19-2006, 01:18 PM
Oh Hell No! LOL He called 1 too many times....... LOL I drove back to the city (3 hours) and picked him up!!!!! He is here with me now! Gawd he is so retarded! LOL He is a happy rat now......He makes me laugh so fricking much. He says he is getting his baby back where she needs to be.......WTF???
I just laugh at him and tell him that I am too old to play games......I am 39....he is 28! I am too old. He just laughs at me. He is soooooo cute. Yesterday I had to go to work......he just sat with me there all day. Then we started the grill and some yard work. He is out mowing the grass right now. I even had his city ass out on the ranch helping me with chores! LOL He is an absolute mess........ADORABLE.......but a mess.

robs_angel
04-19-2006, 10:19 PM
Lol !

ASH8669
04-20-2006, 06:35 AM
your so funny! i'm glad your happy! You really sound like it. One day at a time!! love ya!!

Kobe16
04-20-2006, 12:29 PM
Awww girl, I'm happy you had a nice visit with him. And lol..yes he's funny. And yup, remember one day at a time! :) :thumbsup:

Chances R~~
04-22-2006, 12:31 PM
Girls....Girls.....Girls.......I can not tell you how good things are going around here! We have visited family & friends......worked around the ranch......ALOT!!! He is really helping me get things caught up......I am still not sure we are gonna do the relationship thing........BUT he says he IS getting his booty baby girl back and he ain't taking "no" for an answer! PERIOD! He is so damn cute! We are having a wonderful time just getting to hang out together again. I had forgotten how much he makes me laugh. Things are good!!!.....very good!

ASH8669
04-23-2006, 07:18 PM
:wave: You go girl!!! I can't be more happy for you!!! Keep doing what your doing...((hugs)):wave:

aztkgirl
04-25-2006, 12:23 PM
Wow Ive been gone for a week and look at all the developments!! Im so glad to see that you are having a great time and like everyone is saying.. One day at a time, dont rush, and what is meant to be.. will be! :)

Chances R~~
04-26-2006, 10:16 AM
OMG Miss "C".........I have really missed you! Yeah Look at all the developements! I still can't believe that he is here! And such a doll. BETTER than I even remembered him being.....We are such dorks together.....he makes me laugh til my freaking sides hurt. He is helping around the ranch and WE are truely happy......WORE THE HECK OUT but happy! WOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOO!

Chances R~~
04-28-2006, 09:51 AM
I honestly can't believe how GOOD everything is!!!! :thumbsup: I have been so overwhelmed with him just BEING HERE! I am blessed to work out of my home so I get to see him even when I am at work.......sometimes he just sits here beside me and watches me. :cool: I think he is really enjoying the back and body rubs........among other things :D:p:D
We haven't really gone on a vaction or anything.....just hanging out at the ranch and visiting friends and family. We have gone to play pool and we even went bowling......something he had never tried before.
It is so wierd to me sometimes..........my house smells like a man. LMAO......you know what I'm talking about if your man has already come home. He will get out of the shower and I can smell his clean smell for hours just radiating through my house.....I was so used to only smelling my own perfume.....it is very nice to smell his now! Isn't that the stupidest thing??? LOL
He eats very fast.... the kids give him a little static about that and he says he has gained like 10 pounds since he came home on the 8th. He got his drivers license yesterday....YAY!!!! So he is on his way to being completely legal! I am so proud of him. He is doing very good. I still look over at him from time to time and am STILL amzed that he is here with me. Gawd he looks so good. I will try to get some pictures posted this weekend! Much love to ALL of my countdown cuties! THank you for hangin in there with me! (((hugs)))

Kobe16
04-28-2006, 11:34 AM
HEYY GIRL!! :wave: I'm so happy to read about you and R doing good. He got his liscence..big ups! :thumbsup: :clap: LOL about your house smelling like a man. :ha: Yall kids stay up and keep doing what you do. I gotta big smile for ya! :D and yes..pics!!

Chances R~~
04-29-2006, 09:19 AM
Kobe.....Robbie says "Thanks for the big ups :thumbsup:" He IS doing well. Adjusting to everything perfectly. I couldn't ask for a better friend! I am glad that he is here so that his transition is easy.....Not alot of pressure to deal with. He is gonna start looking for a job soon and then he can get his own transportation and be all good! Thanks for checking in on me............When we gonna start the "Kobe Countdown"???? I'm ready!!! much love and hang tight!

ASH8669
04-29-2006, 08:59 PM
:yes:now thats the kind of story I like to hear!! And I'm so glad you both are still good! I'm glad he got his license!! Go Robbie!! I'm so happy for ya'll. I'm ready to smell that manly smell!! 32 more for me!! woo hoo!! I'll be thinking bout ya'll. Keep us updated!:yes:

robs_angel
04-30-2006, 02:34 PM
Congratss!!

Chances R~~
05-02-2006, 09:45 AM
Robbie went to work this morning........YAY!!! He is doing soooo good. I am so proud of him and the way he handles everything. He seems to really be enjoying himself. He says "What was I thinking all those years of messing up?" :This IS the way life is supposed to be." Guess that means he likes the back and body rubs.......all of the attention........good food..........and most importantly....the laughter. Some of my friends that have recently had babies have came by.........He holds the babies and just looks at them.........He ooks so tender and gentle when he is holding them........I'm thinking he is wanting one of his own! I guess we will see how things go! (((hugs)))

ASH8669
05-02-2006, 10:49 AM
I'm so glad! It seems that you are having such a good time getting to be with each other. Its good that he realizes you can have so much fun living the "normal way". I'm glad he's working! I hope things stay good for you. Keep us updated girl. I love hearing all the good stuff! It gives me hope!

robs_angel
05-02-2006, 09:35 PM
Thats great to hear!!

Chances R~~
05-03-2006, 09:27 AM
Thanks Ashley & robs angel........He enjoyed his first day at work.......we went out and played last night. My brother (his new boss) took us out for dinner & drinks.....and of course some singing! We are a crazy bunch! We had a good time. I told him this morning that I am so glad that we are finallly playing "HOUSE".........beats the hell outa playing "PRISON" :-) Things are good!