Ok, so first of all i still haven't heard from my husband, and seriously it's almost a week and i'm pissed:angry: :blah: :angry: . really how dare he not call, especially at this time of year and with all i have going on in my life. Well i saw the surgeon yesterday, are you ready for this ladies? I don't have a hernia.......when i had my son the doctor had to do an emergency c-section, well when they did that the doctor didn't take out all of the cells that they were supposed to ..so the cells imbedded themselves into my stomach wall and completley reproduced a second UTERUS......WHAT THE HELL:eek: :eek: :confused: !!!!!!! yeah so the doctor said that's why i'm in so much pain at my time of the month because i have 2 uterus's cramping and contracting:blah: . So anyways now you can say you have a freak in our club house:o . but seriously it's a little scary and i'm kinda getting scared that i have to have surgery, and that's pissing me off also, my husband knows that i was going to see the surgeon , did i get a call?? Nope:( . a letter? nope:( And then for my grandpa, well he's back in the hospital, we don't know what's wrong again but yesterday at my grandma's doctor appt. my granda passed out and actually they lost his pulse, it was really scary i really thought he was dying, his eyes rolled back behind his head.......very very scary, so he's at st. jude. See i deal with all this plus the kid and the job.....and no freakin phone call!!!!! Merry Christmas to me!! I love you ladies and thanks for allowing me to vent.

Sarra, you are a strong woman and call or no call you will do what needs to be done for yourself, your son and your grandparents. Its unfortunate that your husband is not able to be as supportive as you need at this time but know that he has love for you in his heart and wishes he could be there for you in every way. Vent away sister, thats what we are here for, good bad and indifferent. We are not here to shun or judge only to help and uplift. God bless and I will keep you and yours in my prayers. I hope that all goes well with your surgery and Im sorry you have to go through all of this without your husband especially at this time of year. Good luck to you.

so the cells imbedded themselves into my stomach wall and completley reproduced a second UTERUS......WHAT THE HELL:eek: :eek:

I'm so sorry you have to go through this pain and more. The bright side is at least they now know what's wrong and the surgery will make the pain go away.
Trust me, I feel for you.
I also had an emergency c-section with my first son and the second one the docs forced me to have another c-section. I'm thanking god right now nothing went wrong.
I hope the best for you. Take care and Merry Christmas to you and your whole family.

Sarra,

I am sorry to are going through all that you are right now. You are strong and you will make it through. I had an emergency C-section my oldest daughter as well, she was 1 pound and 5 ounces, from there on out my other 3 kids I had to have one as well and if I decide to have anymore the same thing. It was from the way they cut me, differently inside and outside. You and your family are in my prayers, honey stay prayerful. (((Hugs))) to you.

As for your husband, right now focus on you and your family he will come through. Sometimes men are just as stubborn as us females. :)

Wow, girl - sending good wishes and hopes for health to you and yours. Do what you have to for yourself - that's what he's doing - and get yourself to a good space .

Sarra honey, wow 2 uterus's....thank god you found out what the problem is so now you can have it taken care of. I know that doesnt' take away the fear of going into surgery, you will be ok. I agree with everyone here you are a strong woman and can do and is doing what you need to do to take care of you and your son. By the way he is sooooo cute. I'm sorry that you are being burden with even more than what is suspected with just christmas. Hang on this year is almost over, next year this will all be the past and Mike will be home and life will get back to normal.