Hi all. I am not aiming to offend anyone with this post so bare with me plz. I have just started a relationship with a black man (my pp) and I would like to call him something nice, you know honey, sweety etc :D ... I was just wondering if there are any particular names black men might like to be called ;) . He keeps suggesting 'King' :haha: but that just makes me laugh lol. I mean he started calling me his Queen but I stopped him because it just doesnt mean what he means it to mean where I am, and it doesnt work for me. He now calls me sweetheart or sweety :thumbsup:

Any suggestions?

Well...I don't think it's "just" for black men...but, I usually call Kevin "boo", "bookie", "munchkin butt", "baby"...the list goes on & on...basically...just whatever comes outta my mouth at that point in time. :p
His suggestion was "Mr. President" but, I told him I didn't see me living in a white house so....ummm..."no" LOL

I'm sure he'll LOVE whatever you call him...something unique...just for him from you!! :thumbsup:

lol...i don't find offense to the comment, but :D :D black men are no different from any other man :). just call him whatever comes naturally and feels good to both him and you :D. and welcome to the IR forum!

Well, I'm black so I can tell you that Black guys aren't any different from another race of guys in this respect. Men, regardless of race, just like a nickname that strokes their ego and expresses to them how you feel about them. Just keeping trying out the general stuff, like Baby, Honey, Sweetheart, until you find something that you both like.

As the others have stated, black men are no different than any other man. I usually call my man "babe" or refer to him as "my man" "my honey" or "my husband" (which is what he really likes although we have not married legally, we are in our hearts).....but most offen I refer to him as "the love of my life". :D

well i call my man Sugar Kane when i feel like being really sweet, babe where in a serious conversation, Stinka or stink when he needs to be babied, by his name when I'm pissed at him. so I guess it's all about the mood your in when you call him. oh and Daddy when I want to feel like his baby gurl he likes that one. It really strokes his ego.

I call my man, baby, honey, sweetheart, mostly though I call him "my love" and he calls me the same usually. He always starts his letters with, hi my love, I started it and since he now says it also I am guessing he likes that one.

I call him daddy generally but if I'm being serious or uh MEAN I call him Sebastian just like his mama does! LOL...

Patty

speaking as a black woman....black men are just like any other race of men....it really just depends on the man himself....some men like pet-names some don't!!!!! you should ask him...and see what he says....ya'll may give each other pet-names!!!

Well silverleaves786, I'm sure you don't need help on what to call him when he's pissed you off to the highest of pistivity :D, but fars what to call him when things are going nice, here's a suggestion. Centralize on something about him and then come up with something that knocks off of that.

p.s. IMO your question is not offensive but to the contrary -- very funny!!:D
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Initially hearing "King" and "Mr. President" struck me as hilariously funny. :D However, because Mr. President is one you never hear, I like it because it is uncommonly quite funny in a serious kinda way. I could live with calling mines that. :p

I call my man mostly by babyboy or my husband (not legally married but engaged) or in general by his nickname/streetname Q. I only use his legal name when I am angry or serious

I do think that language is quite different with a black man. I have never had a white man refer to me as "mama" or say he's "daddy". I can't say "daddy" without laughing. I have never had a white man call me "baby" either and I have dated a whole lot! also I have never had a white man refer to me as "his wife" without being married to him. Maybe it is because he is an inmate and didn't have a whole lot of love in his life for a long, long time, but he is more dramatic and expressive about his love for me than I have experienced before. and I love to hear that from my daddy/husband/handsome man! lol I would never call him "baby boy" because he is 22 years younger! Maybe it is just him, but he demands respect more than white men I have been involved with. I think as a black man, who get so little respect in general, it is very important to get from his woman.

I call him Baby Boy!! He calls me Playboy !!

Baby boy would not get it with my man !! (although I like that affectionate term), "MY MAN" is usually what I refer to him as..when things are good, he signs cards/letters "Your Man", when things are a little stressful..he signs "John" and I also write "Dear John".ha/ha

I also write "Dear John".ha/ha

haha

Well the other day he called me 'young lady' when he was trying to be serious with me and I almost fell over!!! Dont know if that one is normal. I am only a bit younger than him.

Maybe I should have said 'ok Daddy' hahahaaa

My fiance would love for me to call him "Daddy" but I can't get into the habit. It sounds so funny when I say it. I only use it in a joking way. I call him "Poo" and he is ok with that. He calls me the same and several other names like sweetheart and Bay.

Well I call my hubby several names: 1. Daddy, 2. Baby, and 3. Boo. I love to call my hubby Daddy because it makes him feel very important and special. Calling him daddy lets him know that he is the most important person in my life. Plus it makes him SMILE really big too. That is the most important thing is making my man HAPPY!:D

ugh ugh girls, let me find out I gotta add "Call me Daddy and I'll call you Baby" to the "Convict Lines" thread because my husband sure told me the same at the beginning of our relationship. :D That, the tatoos, the marriage, the Mr. He'sSoFrigginIncredible persona -- my husband is so standardly prison. Let me find out he the one who wrote the handbook!! :D

I call him babyboy, or Rice' or daddy or my love..shit I would call him anything if I could just get him home..hahahahahahaaaaaaaaaa :)

For me calling him daddy is very natural. It's a term of endearment from my cultural upbringing...

Patty

He loves it when I call him "My Nubian King". I have a whole tirade of sweet names that are exclusive to him that encoporate his African heritage.

Someone mentioned that nicknames were the same regardless of race, but I disagree. It is a cultural thing. Different cultures have different slang and word use. Also, I would usually not comment on a man's whiteness, but I know a lot of Black man, not only my hubby, who love to be complimented on their blackness.

Do 'Boo' and 'Poo' actually have a meaning? I never heard of those ones at all. BTW 'Daddy' is growing on me... I might use it my next letter :) but it does sound strange to me !

but I know a lot of Black man, not only my hubby, who love to be complimented on their blackness.

Hey thanks for mentioning that. I wondered if it would be a touchy subject. I have never met a black person IRL (not many here) but he has the most beautiful dark liver brown skin I ever seen. It reminds me of red velvet chocolate cake lol!!! I mean this in the nicest possible way ;) I still didnt think of a nic to suit that though that didnt come off mentioning skin colour. The only other nic I liked which popped i my head is 'My Shadow' cuz then he is always next to me and never leaves me.... but that might sound as strange to him as Daddy sounds to me :)

:heart: :heart: I love that man :heart: :heart:

Do 'Boo' and 'Poo' actually have a meaning? I never heard of those ones at all. BTW 'Daddy' is growing on me... I might use it my next letter :) but it does sound strange to me !

To me the names that you call your man means whatever you want it to mean. I call my man "Poo" It was a name I just made up and started calling him and now he feels special when I call him that. It is what you make it just like love!!

Baby

Oh yeah and I forgot about my all time favorite Sexual Chocolate.

Oh yeah and I forgot about my all time favorite Sexual Chocolate.


:eek: :eek: You call your man 'Sexual Chocolate'...;) damn. I think mine would bust out o prison to get to me if I called him that LOL... too sweet :thumbsup:

I usually call him "Baby" or "Daddy"... occassionally his first name. He always calls me "Baby" and sometimes "Mrs. (our last name)."

Silverleaves-
"Boo" is a term of endearment commonly used among African-Americans. It's maening is mimilar to "Baby".

I think he would love to be compared to velvet chocolate cake! I also call by husband husband food-names, like my brown sugar teddy dear, and tell him I want to eat him like dark silk chocolate.

I call my fiance' baby. However I have 500 ways of saying it and he knows exactly what each one means and how to respond appropriately! (Laughing like crazy) I also call him piglet, pooh, and papi.

I just call mine baby or honey! If he was any other race i would still call him that! He can be a big baby from time to time, and is definately as sweet as honey! :)

I call my blk man "chocolate love) :)

my leon wants his street name cold cash or cc i call him master when we are alone

I call him "Daddy"

Pookie is cute! You should of called him old man after he called you young lady! Just say whatever comes to your mind at the time. Don't worry if he will like it or not! I'm sure he will love anything you come up with. My man calls me Sunshine! I think that is soso sweet!

As others has stated I dont think Black men are any different than any other men out there. Call him whatever comes to mind, I am sure he will love whatever you chose to call him.

My King...my love, my Sun, My heart, baby..... man i call him whatever really....

I call him Baby, Lover, Love, Dame (short for Damon and many call him that) sweetie, whatever comes out of my mouth. To me he is so sweet like chocolate, melts in the mouth, not in the hand ha! ha!

This thread really made me laugh. When my man was still home we would dance for each other....way too much info I know....and I used to call him Chocolate Thunder...LOL!! :p

No for fun I call him sexy chocolate, Sugar Bear (which he hates but when he gains wait he reminds of the cereal bear), Boo, and then the usuals...Baby, Sweetie, Honey, Babe, Bay, etc.

As others has stated I dont think Black men are any different than any other men out there. Call him whatever comes to mind, I am sure he will love whatever you chose to call him.


Myyyyy thoughts EXACTLY. I have nicknames for my man but it has nothing to do with the color of his skin :)

I call him babes or buttpain (but neither have anything to do with him having the suntan i sit for ages trying to get in the summer ;)

This thread makes me crack up to the point where "I wonder what they call him when they're :angry: :angry: MAD :angry: :angry: at him. :D :D

I mean a sister who doesn't even use the "n" word in heated anger could call her black man "you effin black _igga" and it be like nothing. Though yall say things are the same with your Black lovers, I don't quite think your Black lover would agree if you shot those words at him. ESPECIALLY if he from the streets or a thug from the hood.

I call my man Daddy and he calls me his lil mama his favorite to call me is his little stinky. and of course we have baby, sweetheart.

I call my husband Daddy and I call him King or King Trav. I have KT tattoed on my ankle. I also call him Strange his street name. When I am mad I call him the same thing. I mixed so I don't trip off the IR thing but he used to swear I was Jewish and had a "name" for me. NOw he calls me Queen and our daughter Princess. He always asks me, how can you love my Black ass. To him when he talks about himself, everything is his "Black ass."

I call my baby Daddy...

I call my baby "Daddy" or "boo"

I have a lot of names I call my man:

My Chocolate Man, Honey, Baby, Boo.

In my letters to him, I sometimes tell him that I miss my sexy chocolate man. He has a real nice chocolate brown skin color. He's looks so good, I can eat him! :D

Angie

i personally think there IS a difference in what you call a white man and a black man when youre with him. i call my man boo, and ive nevvvver heard a white man called that by their girlfriend. he calls me slim, lil mama, shawty, baby, boo.. stuff like that. sometimes when im ******around wit him i call him daddy.. lol

Actually, my man has more names for himself than I have for him. He had signed a few letters "Big Daddy" and I just couldn't go there. "Daddy" is what I used to call my father when I was a kid. I settled for "Big Poppa" and he snatched onto that one. I think he did that because it was a name I came up with. Now saying that in a letter and actually saying it to his face may be two different things. I've tried to say it out loud a few times and giggle every time I say it. Somehow we came up with "Choco-Lick Love" that we'll use in letters occasionally. So, to answer your question, whatever your endearing term for him I am sure he will love it.

Well I my self think the comin pet names are fine for now and as your relationship grows it will come to you. We call each other a baby version of daddy = dahie and mommy = wawie . It's a mess LOL, but it's so cute because it's personal.

I call my baby Chocolate or Daddy

i personally think there IS a difference in what you call a white man and a black man when youre with him. i call my man boo, and ive nevvvver heard a white man called that by their girlfriend. he calls me slim, lil mama, shawty, baby, boo.. stuff like that. sometimes when im f`ckin around wit him i call him daddy.. lol

This makes me think of something Lisa Lampanelli said -- I absolutely love her because I think she's hysterical. She's (a white woman) comedienne and she loves black men like many of you. She said one time when she had sex with a Black man he told her she had some "bomb a$$ p*ssy". She said that's why she loves Black men -- they know how to talk to you -- she said she's never heard a white man use that expression.

My man is black as well, and his street name is SCOOTA or SCOOT B....I don't know, Ireally don't like it..so I call him PRINCE and HE calls me his PRINCESS. Cause whenhe was out people would joke with him and tell him he was the prince of the town..cause of making money

Sweets, Sweetheart, Big Daddy, Daddy, Honey Baby Sweetie Pie, My Chocolate Pop, when he needs babying - My Sweet Baby, and when I'm ill at him Mister!!! I have wondered what the people in the mailroom think when they get a letter addressing my Daddy then as they read on the letter gets sorta hot. :)

Too funny.First I would like to say that I would never even think to ask another woman what I should call my man,do what comes naturally.But as a Black woman,I call my man now Daddy,he is so thug and demands so much more respect than any other.He takes care of my needs and I always feel safe & protected around him so that just came out & stuck.I have called other Boo,or by their street nicknames.I have also had relations with white men & a pet name seemed so unnatural.I called them either by their given name or maybe Sweetie when I wanted something.

Somebody explain to me why black men love to be called DADDY? :) Any idea?

Somebody explain to me why black men love to be called DADDY? :) Any idea?

I'm not sure about others but my husband says he likes it because it means he is my #1 man.

Somebody explain to me why black men love to be called DADDY? :) Any idea?
,he handles all the biz & does what his family needs.Only a real Daddy can take care of their BabyGurl or LilMomma like Daddy can.Its a respect thing that they so deserve.And of course if ur black man is taking care of biz in the bed u can't help but yell daddy :}

i personally think there IS a difference in what you call a white man and a black man when youre with him. i call my man boo, and ive nevvvver heard a white man called that by their girlfriend. he calls me slim, lil mama, shawty, baby, boo.. stuff like that. sometimes when im ******around wit him i call him daddy.. lol

I have girlfriends that call their "white" men "boo", "daddy", etc. The funniest nickname I ever heard anyone call their man was "crunchy" to this day neither of them remembers how it got started...

Somebody explain to me why black men love to be called DADDY? :) Any idea?

I know a few men of a variety of colors that do not like to be called daddy including some who are black.

Patty

I call him Papi with my sexy Latina voice! He loves it!

,he handles all the biz & does what his family needs.Only a real Daddy can take care of their BabyGurl or LilMomma like Daddy can.Its a respect thing that they so deserve.And of course if ur black man is taking care of biz in the bed u can't help but yell daddy :}
Sounds good to me! It has took getting use to but DADDY fits my man very well. :)

Somebody explain to me why black men love to be called DADDY? :) Any idea?
It relates to him either taking care a that a$$ or that once he's out he will take care of that a$$, in one way or another.

i dont call my man daddy or nothing like that he is just my BIG jeff and i love him
respect shaz

I ALWAYS CALL HIM BABYBOI. HE CALLS ME BABYGURL OR MA

I call my husband "papi". that is Cuz he calls me lil' mama. i didn't like the whole daddy thing and papi just evolved one day

I usually call him baby but he likes to be called daddy. Which started off cause he couldn't find me one day and was mad. So I told him next time I went somewhere I would check in with him to make sure it was ok and anything else Daddy. I was just being sarcastic but he liked it and it went from there.

god when you think about it there is no special nickname due to race all men want you to call them daddy but in reality you call them some wacky name that only you have for him and vice verse. i call him something toward his height and he tried to add something i was like unless you are with yourself that is fine but no its my name

HE LOVES DADDY! i hate it. but the name i always use to call him was POOH, until it got out in there.....hahaha, he gets teased. i still do it sometimes in visit to piss him off. LOL!

I call him "honey" and he calls me "baby" boring ones, I know LOL but somehow those are just what stuck... :)

Baby, Boo, and Daddy!

I call him Poukie and he calls me his Baby Boo.

I call my man Sweetpea but he calls me his Angel! :)

My husband refers to himself as Daddy in his letters but that just don't get it with me. I call him Boo.

I call him daddy, baby, pookie, pooh, da man

I call my "Black Man" SunShine cause hes just as bright as the sun. I call him Daddy when were being a little freaky hahaha. And by his full name when im being serious. He calls me "Ma" "BabyGirl" "Wifey" ..But like others have said it depends on the mood...

It relates to him either taking care a that a$$ or that once he's out he will take care of that a$$, in one way or another.


HAHAHA Aint that the truth...I choked on my juice on this..too cute!!

I call my husband Sugar or Baby..but what I call him has nothing to do with his race:shrug:

We call each other Baby most of the time, but it's Babygirl and Big Daddy when we get to talking freaky. For some reason, nothing turns him on more than to hear me call him Big Daddy in my sweetest, sexiest voice. Whatever it takes, as long as it's me turning him on!!!!:blah:

I don't believe there are so many responses on giving this lady an idea what to cal her man.

Have you ever had a man? A romantic relationship? If so then you should know what to call this man wether black, white, hispanic whatever a man is a man.

I call my man Pooda Pie, Pookie Boo Boo and Big Daddy for the most part or I call him love me. I am all kinds of things to him as well.

Hum well.... to be honest this question feels a little raciest. As if a black man would have a diffrent kind of nickname then a white man. I know it's not ment to be raciest but I think in my opinion acknowledging your significant other as a race and not just as you "lover" "soulmate" "boyfriend" or "husband". Nicknames are meant to express a pet name for your mans personality not his skin color. I don't know maybe the way the question was asked rubbed me the wrong way. "what do you call your black man"

Was my sentiments exactly which I was I asked those questions in my post further up the board. If you have had a man you should already know what men primarily like to be called.

I call my man, my "HOTLINK". It's from a joke that we had for years. He said that when he first met me that he was do nervous that he felt like a "WEENIE" around me because I intimidated. But now that he has gotten to know me better, he has grown up to a "Hotlink". He just calls me "BABE", or "DIAMOND" (like Lisa Raye from the Player's Club movie.

I don't think the OP meant for the question to come out the way it did. I know you may get mad at me for saying this but there is a huge difference in the nicknames and petnames between the races. It's just the way things are and have always been. My man gets called baby or bay, sometimes sweety and if he doesn't answer me I turn on the mommy role and he gets called by his whole name first,middle,and last.

As for the OP just run a few petnames by him and see what one the two of you like the best. Come on guys give her a break she didn't mean any harm by what she was asking.

Most of the time I call him Boo-Boo, especially when we are playing around. Just depends on the moment. When writing letters I call him My Love or Baby. However, in general conversation I refer to him by his nickname...Dee. I hardly ever call him by his birth name only on small occassions when I am trying to get my point across. He really don't like me calling him by his birth name.

god when you think about it there is no special nickname due to race all men want you to call them daddy but in reality you call them some wacky name that only you have for him and vice verse. i call him something toward his height and he tried to add something i was like unless you are with yourself that is fine but no its my name i dont know where you got the idea all men want to be called daddy. the only people that call me that better be my kids. and i dont have any.

I don't usually post in this forum because my guy and I are of the same race ~ I just happened to see the title of this post and "stuck my head" in for a moment.

I'll tell you that my guy (and he's white) loves to be called daddy. I'm not exactly sure what it's about but he likes it, and it doesn't bother me so I do it sometimes (freak letters, phone sex, etc.). The one thing that I refuse to call him is by his street name. The guy who goes by his street name is not the one that I love.

I love when he calls me cupcake.

I call him Papi and he calls me Shortcake. I think that it was pretty original for the shortcake.

Lorax, I completely agree with you. My man's street name is Playboy, that's what all of his boys call him, but I have never and will never call him by that because, to me, he isn't that person anymore. He knows that I cannot STAND to hear somebody call him that or for him to refer to himself like that.

sometimes i just call him black man. like what's up black man? or king. soemtimes when we are joking i will say knee-gro, please! or just 'gro. we can do that. like someone above posted- sometimes you have to do the full name. **wink** and sometimes i like to get proper and call him Mr. Batts.

dont think this thread is racist. it is just a question. like- what do you call your woman? that is not sexist.

how cute was this! my man calls me Dollface for some reason - who knows, or Toots when he wants to make me laugh....but mostly Baby - and i call him Baby - he doesn't like me to call him by his street name, he likes me to call him by his given name.....and the ever popular Boo

My booboo likes it when I call him Daddy but I call him booboo too and by his street name. I never call him by his real name...atleast not yet, Im sure there will be a time when I get so damn mad I will call him that, but it hasnt happened yet.

Greetings, My new man is a Fine Black Prince. I'm a real daddy's girl but since he is younger then me I just don't feel comfortable calling him Daddy. And especially since that is what I called My EX for 12 years. This new Man of mine is a Shot Caller for reals. But still have'nt found that special name to refer to him as. Except for "My Man". My EX was white. And Baby is Black and I am Sprung. I wanted to call him Papi but since my daughters are both mixed with Mexican I did'nt want him to think I was refering to him with another agenda in mind. So I am stuck too???? Any suggestions that relate to Daddy?????

i call my husband Boo, or Boo kie, or daddy, and lol sometime i call him my king. what ever you feel in your heart is what you call him.

I call my new "love" papa bear! He likes it. He calls me T.T. for tam tam :)

I'm white and he is black, and we give each other all kinds of unique names all the time, but itdoes not have anything to do with a race (either) :)

I call him alot of different things like Daddy, Baby, Boo, Bay. He calls me MA 99% of the time.:D

I Call My Man Daddy , Boo Boo Or Mothafu**a Cuz It Gets On His Nerves Lol. . Now He Wants Me To Call Him " MY Cuddle Bug " Im Still Waiting To Hear From Him On Where He Got That From !

I call my baby...Baby...I start most of my letters Hey Baby or Hey My love and mine from him are usually Babygirl...He gave me the nickname also calls me his boo..like most just anything that we come out with will do just fine. When its love its not planned it just happens.

Well his favorite name that I call him is "Daddy". I usually start his letters off with "Hey My Fine Husband". I also call him "My Love", "The Love of My Life" "My Boo" "My Baby" just whatever I'm feeling at that time.

Well, I'm all grown up and don't own a black man. My husband is a good man with a lot of heart and we call each other Honey. We don't dwell on what color we are.

lol , I don't own one either , and one man helped birth me , and Jay isn't him , ha ha so no daddy here ,, he always says hey u ..., when he is serious or tellin me he loves me he uses my entire name !!!! and I use his as well . But I do call him boo , shawteeeee , and some more stuff ,

I call my man Peaches and he loves it cuz he said he's never been anyones Peaches before!

I call my husband, Mr. (last name )and he calls me Mrs (last name) even after all these years

Diamondz, That's so endearing. I like that.

At the beginning of his letters I always call him sweetie, but at the end I always call him my "Trinidadian Prince" I have never called him by his legal name. When I talk about him I always use his street name, even when he was home I always used his street name. He usually uses the cliche Boo or he'll call me Princess

I call my husband "Big Guy", he likes it because he is not a big guy at all. He was taking weight on at one time to gain a little weight and muscles. Now, with age, he is up to 170 lbs, biggest ever and he didn't need help getting there, it just came with age and gravity. Big Guy is normal conversation, when we're talking love and sweet talk, I call him Boo but I'm reluctant to call him that in public anymore because so many women use Boo now but they weren't back in the day when I started calling him that back in 87.

ok my man isn't black, he is American Indian, so I call him Shika (apache for mate, male version) Germ (short for Geronimo), Babyboy, Boo Boo Kitty stud muffin (long story). He once said Who's your Daddy? I laughed and told him a short little Italian Guy who lives in Ohio. lol

Are these all white woman asking about & telling what they call their BLACK man? Strange.... does it matter?

Well, I'm black so I can tell you that Black guys aren't any different from another race of guys in this respect.

Uhm.. you're right.... "Black" men are some kind of rarity or some "thing"... "THEY" don't all like to be called the same thing..... What kind of question is that? No person, let a lone a whole RACE of people, are the same... I found this question very very strange.....

We have our names for each other His is Bae - baby - suga bear and he calls me his butterfly - But men in general dont really care as long as you are loving them..

Hi all. I am not aiming to offend anyone with this post so bare with me plz. I have just started a relationship with a black man (my pp) and I would like to call him something nice, you know honey, sweety etc :D ... I was just wondering if there are any particular names black men might like to be called ;) . He keeps suggesting 'King' :haha: but that just makes me laugh lol. I mean he started calling me his Queen but I stopped him because it just doesnt mean what he means it to mean where I am, and it doesnt work for me. He now calls me sweetheart or sweety :thumbsup:

Any suggestions?

You can't be serious? Attitudes like yours make me wonder why some white gals date or want to be with Black men in the first place and my conculsion is the fascination...or else you wouldn't have to wonder what to call your "black man" :shake:

Chuckling over this one. FreeFall your go girl! i high five you on that one! He is a human being, who cares what color he is, what kind of name do you like to be called. Call him what you want, he doesnt care, as long as it's nice and not mean. Use your imagination. We all have the same color blood!!!

I laughed at some of these, they were so sweet and some very cute. When me and my guy were not in a relationship crisis, he called me sweetness and baby. When he was referring to me he would call me his "old lady" I used to hate it and then I got used to it, I knew he was saying it with affection. I call him, baby, my heart, my love, the love of my life, bear, and when Im trying to be serious but make him laugh i say in a loud voice MR ( and his last name) he found that so funny. And when I am fussing at him or called him a cuss word in playing he say who do you think you are talking to....I say the love of my life or the man of my dreams....he always laughs at that. An old boyfriend called my baby girl and I liked that. But I thought this was a interesting question.

I call me baby....'BABY','HONEY', 'MY LOVE', 'DARLING', 'POOH-POOH', 'SWEETPEA' dependin on my mood....But i start out letters with "Hey Baby...." OR using his whole name. He usually calls me sexy or baby. Sometimes he calls me honey.


2 years 3 months 1 week and 6 days till my love is in my arms

i call my husband Daddy

What is it about the name thing? It seems like they all want to be called "Bid Daddy". I can't help laughing at that. And how about the King. Even funnier to me. Most of the time I call him Baby - he calls me Muffin. But I do like telling him to give me some of that Brown Sugar. hahahaha. Have a great day.

I meant BIG Daddy.

Ya'll are so awesome ! I call mine David. His color doesn't matter to me, he is black and I am white, but as Mandy pointed out, we all bleed red blood. I fell in love with the man not the color of the man. I didn't know there was an interracial forum (i'm a newbie) Nice to know though. How do I join?

I call my man all kinds of nicknames-
Baby Boy- because he's the youngest of 7
King Beef- b/c he's packin the beef-UDSA Grade A (Prime) lol
Baldhead- b/c of his bald sexy head
Big Daddy- b/c I'm his lil mama
The Ruler
Baby
etc... the list goes on it just depends on how I feel and what we're doing :D

ok, i knew i couldn't be the only one in here who's man likes to be called "daddy". (yes, he's black) though i call him by his real name probably just as equally, and 'baby' too. he calls me 'ma', 'mamita', and 'his rock star bitch', lol, and 'pussycat'.....

I call my husband my baby boy, daddy, papi, tony, t smoaks, and honky tonk. honky tonk is what his sister told me his nickname was when he was little. he calls me doodlebug, baby, mommy, marie, and ma.

Ok I call my boyfriend, baby, honey, sexy MF, by his real name, daddy, boyfriend and more that I cant remember. He calls me MIMI because my middle name is Michelle and he got tired of calling me Michelle and shortend it to MIMI, he also calls me baby, honey, girlfriend etc.

I mostly call him Pookie or My Big Baby. The funny thing about Pookie is I started calling him that because I always thought it was funny when people said that. He however thought I was referring to him as a crackhead because apparently everyone knows a crackhead called Pookie. I don't know any though. He's my Pookie. He calls me that too and most of his friends call me that too. I love being called that though. A friend of his who is in prison was the one who started it (of my boyfriends friends calling me that). When his friend calls me he always goes Hey Pookie. It always makes me smile. My boyfriends friend calls me because he use to call my boyfriend on my phone but now he is locked up too. His friend is always like you better stay away from those boys or I will hurt you if you hurt your boyfriend. It's funny.

i read the other posts.they are rite. you gotta think of what comes to mind at a cirten tyme.
my man calls me Babygurl.Boo. I call Him: by his street name.TRIP. or Q. when i want him to do somethin? its babe. and when Im mad!
QUINCY.

Hi Ladies...I call my husband honey bunches...sweeetie pie...apple of my eye...booboo bear...italian stalian...and a few i probably cant say on here...LOL...you guys have a wonderful day.

LETS SEE I NEVER KNEW THERE WERE NAMES DIFFERANT THEN OTHER RACES TO CALL A BLACK MAN......IM MEAN HE IS MY 'BLACK KNIGHT" OR MY BLACK STALLION AND IM USUALLY SCREAMING THESE NAMES LOL:D BUT WHEN WE ARE BOTH PISSED AT EACH OTHER IM USUALLY CRACKER OR WHITE BITCH LOL AND HE BECOMES UMMMM THE N WORD LMAFO ... SO YES ILL CONTINUE TO BE HIS CRACKER AND HE CAN BE MY UMM HOUSE BOY CAUSE WHEN WE ARE PISSED OFF ENOUGH TO BE RACIALLY DRIVEN LETS JUST SAY THE MAKE UP SEX IS ANYTHING BUT BLACK AND WHITE :eek:

I call my man Babe, Baby and Sweetie and he calls me Love, his Baby Girl and Babe. I don't think it matters what race we are, just say whatever you feel in the moment.

. . . 'his rock star bitch', ....
Just want to share a little bit on the "b" word. Me and my husband played with the word the way you guys do -- I told him he could call me that but only in certain contexts in the tune of playing around. But, sad to say, I had to revoke that. What happened was in an argument he called me a "b" and on that, I hit the pause button because we had to first straighten that up before moving forward. I told him no more playing with the "b" word because for it to come out in an argument, we can't have that, I won't have that. So now, although it would be fun to play with the word the way we did, we no longer do.

So what my message to you is it's all goody in fun and games -- been there done that. But if your man ever in a heated passion "misuses the term 'his rock star bitch'", REVOKE THE WORD and don't let him call you that ever again. That's because things start out small, and if you let it go once, twice or a few times, it will be too late to take it back and every time he get mad, you could find yourself being called "a bitch".

Just sharing -- do what you want with it. :o

. . . BUT WHEN WE ARE BOTH PISSED AT EACH OTHER IM USUALLY CRACKER OR WHITE BITCH LOL AND HE BECOMES UMMMM THE N WORD LMAFO ... SO YES ILL CONTINUE TO BE HIS CRACKER AND HE CAN BE MY UMM HOUSE BOY . . .
Yall are crazy!! :D And, apparently, you don't mind being called bitch, so it's all good, but me -- I don't let my husband call me no type of derrogatory name because what that makes my mind flip to is the man who abuses his wife. It starts out with name calling, then with a pinch, push or whatever, and before you know it, because you've allowed it, during his heated momens he's graduated to whoppin yo ass. My counsin's man beats her when he wants and what he told me one time was the only reason he does is because she allows it. Meaning things started out small and because she allowed that, he got out of hand and once he got out of hand, it was too late for her to stop him then.

Yall can play all you want -- it's your relationship. Just like I told Boo, sometimes playing around gets serious and if you don't catch things when it gets serious TODAY, that TOMORROW you could have problems on your hand that you never ever imagined you would. House Boy, that's alright, the N word -- that's okay because he's given you permission to use it in the context that you do, cracker, that's alright -- white bitch -- he could keep the white but for that bitch word I'd have to help him come up with a new word to replace that one. Maybe with the sisters it's different -- I don't know but I'm learning as I hear you guys speak -- but for the sistahs -- call a sistah "bitch" in a serious/pissed context and whether it's her friend or her man that's a fighting word Girl!! :eek: :D

Like all the others pointed out, black men are men 1st black second they want to be called something that lets them know they are special to you.

I call him Baby, Husband, lovey... I don't think there are certain names for a black guy. I do find it funny that he wants me to call him daddy. I can't do it without laughing. I call my dad daddy when I am trying to get stuff or when I was younger trying to get out of trouble I can't do it...He calls me Wife, Baby, Princess...

I call my man Papi. I guess i get that from my grandma she called our grandpa papi all the time. But he is my papi and i love him so much

;)I call him "crowbar" because after a visit once, a CO said "We better search him real good. Looks like he's trying to sneak a crowbar back in his pants!":haha: So he earned that name, but paid for it in embarrassment!:slap: But seriously, when I'm not playin around, he is "my King, Daddy, Honey, Baby,or Love". I am "his Queen, Sweetness, Snowbizzle, Baby, Mami,and Love". I'll leave out what we call each other when we're being freaks!!

..............T WHEN WE ARE BOTH PISSED AT EACH OTHER IM USUALLY CRACKER OR WHITE BITCH LOL AND HE BECOMES UMMMM THE N WORD LMAFO ... SO YES ILL CONTINUE TO BE HIS CRACKER AND HE CAN BE MY UMM HOUSE BOY CAUSE WHEN WE ARE PISSED OFF ENOUGH TO BE RACIALLY DRIVEN ................
Wow, you admitted that? I wish someone would call my son (a Black man in the making - he's 5)... "boy" or "N"..... I wouldn't even disrespect him by calling him "boy".... don't you think Black men get this enough from racist CO's? They treat them like cattle and you're supposed to be his woman? You need to get a clue homegirl.... That is not funny nor cute... SHAME ON HIM FOR ACCEPTING THIS DISRESPECT.... (you shouldn't accept those comments either.....)

Yep, I call my man Daddy and he calls me mommie.

I call mine Hubby more than anything, and Love and Cocoapuff, and Bam Bam because he calls me Pebbles (he says the way I talk sometimes reminds him of Pebbles off the Flinestones, because sometimes I am softspoken and mumbly, and he thinks it's cute), he calls me Wifey, mostly Baby, his Snowbunny, Kitten, Babygirl, Love, he's called me his French Vanilla Shake but that didn't last because it's long, we've called each other all kinds of stuff (nothing bad) in the last 7 years, a lot of real cute stuff too but I can't remember, he wanted me to start calling him daddy and he wanted to call me mommi once, but it felt awkward for me so that didn't last long. I've called him my Hot Fudge, and on Christmas one time I called him my Gingerbread Man. If he calls me a cracker I call him my graham cracker. He's called me a "lil ni**a" before, that was weird considering I'm white, but I've never uttered the "N" word in my life no matter how mad I've been at him and believe me he's certainly had me heated before. But it's just not in my vocab, and that'd be the end of our relationship right there. 90% of the time I just call him Hubby or Hubbiness. We call each other our everythings, our hearts, our lives, our worlds, our air we breathe, our soulmates, etc etc.

in my opinion acknowledging your significant other as a race and not just as you "lover" "soulmate" "boyfriend" or "husband". Nicknames are meant to express a pet name for your mans personality not his skin color.

In my opinion pet names for your man aren't limited to describing personality. How would "Boo" or Baby" or "Husband" or "Old Lady" or I've seen "Crowbar" and "Shortcake" and "Shawtee" and "BIG Daddy" describe someone's personality? A lot of pet names describe physical features as well. Height, physique, physical features not excluding his male member, his relationship to you (which is the category all of the ones you mentioned fall into. Personality?). My man is black. It's a physical part of him and if I choose to embrace that aspect of him using a corny little pet name and he doesn't mind what's the difference of calling someone "Dimples" because they have dimples or "Baldhead" because he's bald or "Shorty" because they're short or "Big Daddy" because he's big or "Sexy" because they're sexy or "Sweety" because they're sweet? I think some people are really overdramatizing the issue. I don't acknowledge my significant other as a race, I acknowledge my significant other as who he is and his race is certainly a part of who he is right? So why feel so bent on excluding that part of him? For what? Should I ignore that he's black? Pretend like I don't see it? Like he isn't? What?

I call my husband Asshole and he calls me monkey butt LOL be we usually call each other Daddy and Mi Amor.

I call my baby "muneco de chocolate" and he loves it. God I love that big man.

Well, I'm his Babygirl, sweetheart, or honey.
(he tried sexybutt, but that did NOT fly with me! I deserve more respect than that!!)
and he's my Big Strong Baby, Boo, honey, love or sweetheart!

Mandingo!:hee:

I call him daddy for the most but I also call him my king or baby. I just know started calling him scruffy. hahaha (inside joke) Black men or really not that much different then other guys. As long as u call him something respectful... I also call him my everything.

:p I call him Papi...

Okay so educate this New Zealand girl lol

I see the using term Daddy is a popular one.....
is that a prison culture thing ? or a general American culture thing ?

It just sounds so weird to me , I never heard of that before.......
the whole Daddy Babygirl thing is taking some getting used to i'll admit I balked at the implications when i first heard it.....

But I allso admit I got to like it ;)

Down here probly Hon Sweetie & Babe are commonly used sweetheart nicknames arent common at all .....
and as for men naming their penis ? I aint never heard of that before except in American movies ......what the heck is that all about ?

:confused: Blessings :confused:

My fiance asks me to call him DaDa,and i do! Cause he is my DaDa!And he calls me his Golden Graham.I love that man so much,i would probaly call him anything that showed affection!

In my opinion pet names for your man aren't limited to describing personality. How would "Boo" or Baby" or "Husband" or "Old Lady" or I've seen "Crowbar" and "Shortcake" and "Shawtee" and "BIG Daddy" describe someone's personality? A lot of pet names describe physical features as well. Height, physique, physical features not excluding his male member, his relationship to you (which is the category all of the ones you mentioned fall into. Personality?). My man is black. It's a physical part of him and if I choose to embrace that aspect of him using a corny little pet name and he doesn't mind what's the difference of calling someone "Dimples" because they have dimples or "Baldhead" because he's bald or "Shorty" because they're short or "Big Daddy" because he's big or "Sexy" because they're sexy or "Sweety" because they're sweet? I think some people are really overdramatizing the issue. I don't acknowledge my significant other as a race, I acknowledge my significant other as who he is and his race is certainly a part of who he is right? So why feel so bent on excluding that part of him? For what? Should I ignore that he's black? Pretend like I don't see it? Like he isn't? What?


Being called Dimples or Baldy or Shorty is quite a different thing from calling someone Darkey, Midnight, TooBlack, or any other such nonsense.

Yeah - you should ignore that he is black. When asked to describe my husband I could go on for 10 minutes before I get to the "oh - and he's black" part.

Okay so educate this New Zealand girl lol

I see the using term Daddy is a popular one.....
is that a prison culture thing ? or a general American culture thing ?


:confused: Blessings :confused:
I don't think they know, I just think they feel it's cute, so, they roll with it.

I do think it's a prison culture thing though and that's because when I met my huband he introduced me to all of the "prison culture things" like tatoos, getting married, 'call me Daddy', etc. Of course I didn't realize it was a prison thing until I came into the IRR forum and found that alot of other black men made the same request of their women. After seeing it here, I was like "okay, it's a prison thing." :o

Yeah - you should ignore that he is black. When asked to describe my husband I could go on for 10 minutes before I get to the "oh - and he's black" part.

I am the same way except for i would say oh he is white .. :D

Okay so educate this New Zealand girl lol

I see the using term Daddy is a popular one.....
is that a prison culture thing ? or a general American culture thing ?

It just sounds so weird to me , I never heard of that before.......
the whole Daddy Babygirl thing is taking some getting used to i'll admit I balked at the implications when i first heard it.....

But I allso admit I got to like it ;)

Down here probly Hon Sweetie & Babe are commonly used sweetheart nicknames arent common at all .....
and as for men naming their penis ? I aint never heard of that before except in American movies ......what the heck is that all about ?

:confused: Blessings :confused:

Its not a prison thing, cause many of these women were probably calling their men these names before he went in. Its just something that women call their men, nothing to look to indepth into. Just another name like boo ..

My sisters man's nickname is "chops"!! Not sure why, she hasnt told me but he loves that nickname! I know it's not anything sweet and her nick name from him is baby baby girl!!

My man told me I don't care what you call me, just call me, you feel me?

I don't think they know, I just think they feel it's cute, so, they roll with it.

I do think it's a prison culture thing though and that's because when I met my huband he introduced me to all of the "prison culture things" like tatoos, getting married, 'call me Daddy', etc. Of course I didn't realize it was a prison thing until I came into the IRR forum and found that alot of other black men made the same request of their women. After seeing it here, I was like "okay, it's a prison thing." :o

I would definitley have to disagree with you...I called my "black man" "Papi/Daddy" way before he went in. and i do not believe that it is just black men that want their women to call them that or men that have been locked up. my ex, who is hispanic and never spent a day in a jail ever, always said that he's my Papi but I refused to call him that bc I knew that he wasn't the one. Lots of men want to be called that but my husband told me once when my real father called that he's my daddy now!!! I think they like it bc they want to feel like they are THE MAN in your life that you trust in, believe in, answer to, turn to for help, look up to for answers and love unconditionally. But thats just how I see it.

I would definitley have to disagree with you...I called my "black man" "Papi/Daddy" way before he went in. .
I wasn't responding on Papi and Daddy -- ONLY DADDY. But if the question were Papi and Daddy, I stand by my words on Daddy, but on the Papi thing, I agree with you 5,000% because in the hispanic culture, alot of women ANYWHERE do call their man Papi. I could go to Fordham Road or any hispanic community right now and hear a thousand girls call their man Papi. But in the hood, what you're gonna hear the sistahs call their man is whatever street name they have, but you do not hear Daddy coming out of the mouths of the women.

Also, in the white communities, I do not hear the women calling their men Daddy, either. But on Forham Road, and in the BX -- IT'S PAPI ALL DAY MOMMI -- ALL DAY!!

p.s. Because latina women are infamous for calling their man Papi [Fordham Road All Day], I can therefore see a latina woman dating outside her race, culture or whatever and calling that man Papi, too, and that's because that's what alot of them do. :o

:cool: Hi all. I am not aiming to offend anyone with this post so bare with me plz. I have just started a relationship with a black man (my pp) and I would like to call him something nice, you know honey, sweety etc :D ... I was just wondering if there are any particular names black men might like to be called ;) . He keeps suggesting 'King' :haha: but that just makes me laugh lol. I mean he started calling me his Queen but I stopped him because it just doesnt mean what he means it to mean where I am, and it doesnt work for me. He now calls me sweetheart or sweety :thumbsup:

Any suggestions?

My a baby and I have so many names for each other....He is my Sweet Brown Sugar, my black king, my rasta mon, my sexy daddy. I could go on. He also has names for me that are due to my complexion. He calls me his sweet vanilla cream, his hot white chick, his sexy white woman. He loves it when i call him my sexy hot black man... we could go on and on but that is not all that we love or like about each other.

I'VE CALLED HIM SOMETHINGS I CANT EVEN WRITE ABOUT LOL BUT WHEN HE'S NOT PISSING ME OFF I CALL HIOM BOO

I call my baby Big Daddy (he's 6'3 and Im 5'6) or Babe and he calls me Angel or Baby....

I like his given name so much that I'd hate to obsolete it by not using it! LOL. I mostly playfully call him "Hon" and sign my letters, "Yours".

I know that he refers to me as "The First Lady" to the other inmates, although he mostly addresses me personally as "Baby" or "Gorgeous" on the phone.

My man is my king..my baby... handsome.. sexy..or my love...

I wish my man would say call me daddy... he would have to have lost his damn mind.. I have one daddy and one daddy only.. and it sure in hell is not the man I am sleeping with or going to marry.

I call my boyfriend Daddy (sometimes) I don't have a father, therefore...it doesn't bug me. Just simply an affectionate name I use. I call him Binkters, baby, sugar, Sir (haha...his name is really Sir) and he calls me Boonters, babygirl, mama, stinker, angel....pretty much everything.

i call'em..boo, baby, handsome, brat(when he's actin like one lol)..stinky when he tells me he jus got done working out n he needs to take a shower lol but he insisted on callin me first! other than that i call'em my hubby!!! cuz hopefully in the near future he will be!

he calls me his babygurl, wifey, his one n only! list goes on there to!!!

Jermaine just calls me 'baby', sometimes 'mama' too. For as long as i can remember, i've always called him 'boo boo', he LOVES it lol:)

Jermaine just calls me 'baby', sometimes 'mama' too. For as long as i can remember, i've always called him 'boo boo', he LOVES it lol:)


aww boo boo that is too cute :D

I call my man Baby most of the time and he likes it...I have never called him by his street name because we are trying to leave all that behind. Talk to your man, if he's anything like mine he will tell you what he's down with and what he's not ;)

I call my man Baby most of the time and he likes it...I have never called him by his street name because we are trying to leave all that behind. Talk to your man, if he's anything like mine he will tell you what he's down with and what he's not ;)


thats a plus that he wants to leave the street life behind him.

i dont have a specific name but most of the time i call him NEGRO!!

PO calls me mama and I call him daddy but mainly because we refer to eachother the same way the kids do us...it's almost a joke cause we do it when we are whinning or wanting something like a child. Other than that he is my love, my babe, hun, sexy....

I call him Daddy, or Big Daddy or he goes by Black Jesus.

He calls me WHite girl.

I have never called him Daddy although he always refers to himself by that name. I guess I never really understood the reasoning before reading this thread. We call each other baby most of the time but when he is really down and I seem to be the only one around for him well then I notice that he calls me his light! I think that's kind of sweet.

i got called 11 different pet names in one letter to be honest i was like dayum, that's overkill..... but i refer to him it's usually BAE (CAUSE U KNOW BABY IS JUST TO LONG TO SAY) boo, dear (that's when im being sarcastic so it's usually YES DEAR) daddy ( but that was durin alone time prior to incarreration wink...) oh, and husband...

but when it comes to me, i get called Bae, Woman of mine, sweety, honey, DUK, lil mama, shawty, dear, My Queen, sweetheart... and it's actually funny and cute, cause he's the biggest thug in our area, and he gets all pissy and makes comments like " i aint no pussy just cause im showin my affection for my lady"

Guess it doesnt matter what race and I cant see what anyone would take offense unless its something negative.....I call my man Soldado and PaPa...but he calls himself BLACK and that he is...This is coming from a Jamaicarican...Soldado is BLACK! and Sexy as hell.

i call my man alot of different names, some of them are silly little pet names we call each other that i wont repeat here, but i have noticed the name he likes to be called the most, that i use the most, is "daddy"

Babe or boo

I don't like Boo or Daddy - is something wrong with me?

My ex was black and he would call himself my brown sugar, he used to call me vanilla ice cream. We often had pet names reffering to our different races but it was all sweet positive things. If we were annoyed at each other for any reason we still didn't reffer to our races in a negative way, it was all pretty sweet really. We were together for 13 years so we were comfortable with what ever we called each other.

big d
papi
mi amor
pookie

i didn't find this post to be offensive at all...she just wants to get some ideas on different names to call her man...sometimes i'll be trying to come up with new ones cause i always just call my man "baby" & i try to keep my letters fun!
most of the time i call him baby but there are so many more...my king, my sweet baby, my honey baby, my baby boo, my hubby, the love of my life, my honey, papi, my sweet lover & daddy of course!
he usually calls me baby, baby girl, wifey, lil momma, daddy's girl, honey, queen, earth, love of my life...

He is my Daddy, my husband, my King, mi Rey..... the list goes on and on but Daddy is his name to me. I think when we get married we are going to be Mr and Mrs Mommy and Daddy lol the only time I use his name is when I am pissed. *I got a hilarious one today though, he tells me white girls are so much calmer than black girls, I think just the contrary of black men vs white men but anyway... I was pissed as hell at him and went off, he told me put that lil black girl away! lol

I would call my man Daddy, he loves that name. He'd call me Babe. :D

I either call him Yours or T
and he calls me Teacup or kitty kat

Same As He Was White.

Teacup is really cute:D,my boyfriend call me goddess :othat makes me always blush and i dont like it but its ok...i call him mostly baby or my love

I call him baby sometimes.
I have a question for anyone who calls their man "Daddy":
WHY?! and Why the hell does he like that?
That one creeps me out.

Baby or Lover Man.

I call my husband daddy sometimes, baby, sexy daddy, big Wig...
He calls me his queen, boo boo, baby...
Our baby girl (two years old) is a halfrican and I call her leaky but she calls her self Angoleaky la la

I don't like Boo or Daddy - is something wrong with me?


NOPE LOL i think "daddy" i guess for some "alright" but not me i start thinking about pedophilia fantasy the man might get or have and i am NOT down for that lol but i do see MANY off line and on like that so i do not judge to EACH THEY OWN! lol

but i really stick with papito or papi or mi thug g-man or papi thug or thug papi! lol
most swear daniel hispanic i love that! lol but not.....but he look 10000% puerto rican i love that......mmmm.

he mix though 1/2 irish and 1/2 moreno papi.

:D :thumbsup: i love it and he go LOCO :thumbsup: just hearing or reading it en mi weekly tons of mail cards gets and i call him also beautiful or sexxxi and gorgoeus as THOSE ARE NAMES NOT MANY CALLED HIM as they cannot see how gorgeous he is like me as i see his outer of course beautie but MORE SO INNER and he LOVE THAT..

as he is my one and only, mi dark angel even if he is light VERY LIGHT MIX PAPI CHULO, WITH LONG BEAUTIFUL FLOWING JET BLACK HAIR AND DARK GOATEE AND HAZEL EYES IS WHY I SAY DARK ANGEL and cause i am his soulmate/SUNSHINE lighting up daily his VERY GRIMEY DARK LIFE/PAST lol
even if HE VERY WHITE/FAIR SKIN GORGEOUS MAN.he still mi DARK angel and he love that word and papi...

AND :

I HATE THE WORD"BOO"SOUNDING LIKE I AM TALKING TO A GHOST TRYING TO SCARE MI PAPI CHULO BELLO DANIEL
SO HE HATING IT TOO AND NEVER SINCE DAY ONE WILL REFER TO ME AS HIS BOO LOL OR VICE VERSA..

SO NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU FOR HATING DADDY OR BOO as i agree with you 100% lol
NADA MAMI ES"WRONG"WITH YA!

FEEL BETTER???

WINKZ LOL

it really doesnt matter what i call him ,cuz hes my heart all the way throuqh lol ; but I most of the time call him baby or papi ,daddy
&& when Im heated n an arqument I call him butthead =] dass my bootyhead
either way it qoes.das my RIB :heart:

I have a question for anyone who calls their man "Daddy":
WHY?! and Why the hell does he like that?
That one creeps me out.

for many of us its a cultural thang (RESPECT) if i have to explain it's prolly not for you to understand, feel me?

Patty

I call him fats...cuz that ass is to fat! lol....love it!

Question...please don't take offense, I would like to understand...
Maybe Daniel,i love u could explain it to me...

I call my man Daddy, and alot of folks here say that creeps them out. (Trust me, I'm not thinking about my father when I call him that)
Now, PR and other Hispanic cultures say Papi...isn't that like saying Daddy also?
Pardon my ignorance, but I just had to seek clarification.
Thank you.

BTW, I've called him Papi also, and neither of us are Hispanic. I just love how it rolls...:cool:

I call him Roni cuz that's what his mom called him before she passed. He says I remind him of her. Of course, I'm the only one that can get away with it :)

Question...please don't take offense, I would like to understand...
Maybe Daniel,i love u could explain it to me...

I call my man Daddy, and alot of folks here say that creeps them out. (Trust me, I'm not thinking about my father when I call him that)
Now, PR and other Hispanic cultures say Papi...isn't that like saying Daddy also?
Pardon my ignorance, but I just had to seek clarification.
Thank you.

BTW, I've called him Papi also, and neither of us are Hispanic. I just love how it rolls...:cool:



I am hispanic and not offended by your question...Actually Papi is Daddy...one girl I think 2 post above you...posted she doesn't call him daddy and think its kinda creepy but calls him papi...which translate to the daddy...I don't call my man papi cuz thats reserved only for my FATHER :blah:...but I joke around with my man and call him DADDY...and maybe when we have kids it ll stick to me ....hearing them call him daddy...but I don't call Daddy or Papi as a love one...I have no names...lol...but Pop.or Poppa....which are given street names....

I am hispanic and not offended by your question.
Thank you for your reply msbest. :thumbsup: I kinda thought the "Daddy vs Papi" thing seemed like a double-standard. :)

I never liked the daddy thing and my ex tried for YEARS to get me to call him that but it used to bother me. But I don't mind calling Marquice Daddy cuz he really likes it. So I call him Daddy, Boo, Babes, Lovey, and Daddy Bear. He calls me Cupcake, babes, and sweetness. I used to call him his street name when he was out but he let go of that name now. And when I am mad I call him his full name including the middle name :) lol

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ha ha girls I have to say reading these posts crack me up! I had the best laugh tonight. someone was real funny i read so many i forgot who it was....lol I am white and my love is Puerto Rican. I know his ex called him Pa or papi so i refuse....lol she and i have the same name so he calls me Punky wherever that came from I am not sure but i know he never calls me by my really name its always punky and i address him by his governments which i am the only one who does they usually call him is by his street name which i dont. evben his mom calls him that but i hate it. I call him Jose, baby, babe or sexy....... He is my daddy tho. oooh i miss him!

totally it's Daddy....he calls me his Boo Nop...or wifey...
or it's Sexy Boy.....cause that man looks good.....

Sometimes I call him CRANKY! lol He recently referred to my "daddy" and I said you talking about XXX my father? hah. He's never boring and that part IS just like my daddy.

Ohnooo. I couldn't do daddy. I'm a huge daddy's girl, so that would /not/ work at all. I'd feel -very- akward and creeped out.

But I just call mines baby, babe, hot thing, big boy, his street name but if I need to have a serious talk I will say Lawrence.

He is my puppy and I am his kitten. Sometimes he's "bad puppy" and I'm "silly kitten" when we make fun of each other :) :) :)

I call my husband lover, boo boo, baby, my king and prolly a few other things that none of you want or need to know about. ;) :thumbsup: