:confused: My g/f Maria has not contacted me since Early April I think she dumped me. We were together since 99. She is in Texas I'm in N.J. Maybe she used me all these years. She was due to get out early next year. I send letters and cards I get no answer and no return mail. I am really hurt now I went all the way to Texas Many times to visit and that was expensive so what can I do now ? Maybe she went home This hurts a lot I told her that we could be just friends from the start. Yet she told me she loved me. I guess it was all a lie ... how come there are no chats on this site anymore I need help I am hurting I guess she had someone else all the time

Ricky,

There's still a chat...just click on at the top on the first page of PTO. Hang in there. Could she have been transferred?

Deb

Deb I don't know where she no letters have been returned to me. I just sent her $300 comisarry money where did that go? I can not get into chat I request a pass word and get a email back without one ... I was there for 5 of her ten years all she told me was that she loved me . I visited her 4 times all the way from Jersey she is in Texas. I sent her paper envelopes she must be using it to wrire others or she got released this was her last year I wrote her a goodbye letter Do you think I did that too soon

I'm done I will never write one again It is all a game all those years wasted I don't care about the Money But what do they do with The money if she is released They can't keep it can they ? Will they send it back? I tols her she never had to say that she loved me to get anything We made plans to get married at Disneyworld in fla coming January I got the reservations I met so many girls on the outside that I turned down last year I will never trust another women This hurts

Ricky, look up the TDCJ web site and there is a phone number to call(offender search) it lets you input her TDCJ number and will tell you what unit she is on and what her sentence is and what her parole date is, there are two numbers to call, I don't remember which one but try them both, you must have her TDCJ number right? this will atleast tell you where she is, I should say if she is out or what unit she is on at least, good luck, PM me if you have trouble finding it.

ricky, I hope it's just a glich of some sort and things work out. But I KNOW how you feel if it doesn't!!!!!! Been there too!

From what I know, she will get any monies on her books, when she gets out.

Ricky,

Did you find her? I hope you did and this was all just a glitch and things are working out....

Deb

Ricky, I too am wondering if you heard from her by now? I've read some of your other posts on PTO and maybe she got her privileges taken away again and that's why she couldn't contact you?
Have you called the prison where she's at to find out what's going on? Or do you know her parents or sisters or other family members you could contact?

I hope it'll all work out. And even if it doesn't, things happen for a reason.
Also, in case it was just a game to her, please don't hold this against other women. Just because one is bad, doesn't imply all others are too!

You deserve to be happy, never forget that! Take care of yourself!

-Susanne-

S :cuffs: J

This is the first time i seen this post. Bless his heart.
Rickey, please let us know how you are

Thanks for all your support... I hraerd from her on Saturday a 8 page letter. Everything seems sok. I used to get lettere from Maria every wek no it seems like one a month. She said this is not over and thjat she wikk fight for me. I think she seems to write me when I threnten to leave. Maybe I should write another as a back up. What should I do?

WELL RICKY I TOO HAVE JUST SEEN THIS....HEARING FROM HER IS A GOOD THING WRITE HER BACK AND SEE IF SHE CONTINUES TO WRITE YOU....ILL PRAY AND WISH YOU THE BEST

Keep writting, but since there has been a dry spell, keep your eyes open.

Don't write another threatening letter to leave if that's what you mean by back up, LOL!!! Write her another asking what's the deal? Why so long between letters? Don't beat around the bush, but don't be mean about it. When you write what ever you are going to write, write it and walk away from it for a few minutes, take your mind off of it for that few minutes and then go back to it and reread it. See if you would like to hear that coming from her, that is how I do it when I am pissed for any reason. I never want to write in anger, always make it rational anf even tempered but not mean spirited. Remember, would you like to read what you wrote, that's the best way I know to say what I am trying to say, Good luck, hey what unit is she on Ricky? Keep us posted, we're here to help!!!

i agree with goosebumps! you need to write a rational, inquisitive letter to this woman letting her know your concerns and asking for her honesty in her responses! ac